{"product_id":"time-anxiety-isbn-9780593799550","title":"Time Anxiety","description":"\u003cb\u003eA powerful antidote to deadline dread, time guilt, and chronic rushing—from the \u003ci\u003eNew York Times\u003c\/i\u003e bestselling author of \u003ci\u003eThe $100 Startup\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eIn a world obsessed with squeezing the most out of every moment, the fear of falling behind can trap us in a paralyzing stress cycle. Incomplete to-do lists, unanswered emails, and unmet life goals haunt our thoughts, leaving us overstimulated and exhausted. \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eIn \u003ci\u003eTime Anxiety, \u003c\/i\u003eChris Guillebeau, author of the popular newsletter \u003ci\u003eA Year of Mental Health,\u003c\/i\u003e reveals that this pervasive sense of time scarcity stems not from a lack of hours in the day but from unrealistic expectations and misaligned priorities. Weaving together eye-opening research on time perception, executive functioning challenges, and the psychological roots of avoidance, he offers a bold path for redefining our relationship with the clock. \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThe first step is to build a tolerance for incomplete to-do lists and the inevitability of disappointing people, abandoning the goal of \"catching up.” We have to set our own limits because no one else will. From there, Guillebeau guides readers through a process of:\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eIdentifying cognitive distortions that make routine tasks feel high-stakes, regulating the nervous system through grounding techniques and breathwork, and embracing the goal of “good enough”\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eUncovering the unwritten \"time rules\" that govern our days (“\u003ci\u003eI return phone calls within an hour” or “I reply to every email the same day, without exception”\u003c\/i\u003e) and creating new rules that better serve us \u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cul\u003e\u003cli\u003eWeighing the trade-offs between competing values and priorities so we can invest our finite energy wisely, operating out of an empowered rather than a fear-based state\u003c\/li\u003e\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cbr\u003eUltimately, \u003ci\u003eTime Anxiety\u003c\/i\u003e is a call to wake up from the trance of busyness and reclaim our most precious resource. By breaking the habits of overstressing, overdoing, and underliving, we can start savoring our limited time on earth.“A wealth of insanely useful advice, from the practical to the psychological, for breaking free from time anxiety, slowing down, and living on purpose.”\u003cb\u003e—Cal Newport, \u003ci\u003eNew York Times\u003c\/i\u003e bestselling author of \u003ci\u003eSlow Productivity\u003c\/i\u003e and D\u003ci\u003eeep Work\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Our relationship with \u003ci\u003etime\u003c\/i\u003e is one of the most important aspects of our lives. In \u003ci\u003eTime Anxiety\u003c\/i\u003e, Chris Guillebeau brilliantly investigates why it is so persistently vexing, offering concrete steps to deal with common challenges like deadline dread and chronic rushing while reassuring us that, amid all our angst, there is indeed time for a life well-lived. An invaluable, insightful book.”\u003cb\u003e—Gretchen Rubin, \u003ci\u003eNew York Times\u003c\/i\u003e bestselling author of \u003ci\u003eLife in Five Senses\u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003eThe Happiness Project\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Finally! A time management book that won’t just help you run your day, but actually enjoy it!”\u003cb\u003e—Chris Bailey, bestselling author of \u003ci\u003eHyperfocus\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“A must-read . . . With his signature blend of practical wisdom and relatable anecdotes, Guillebeau tackles the universal struggle and stress of feeling like we’re running out of time.”\u003cb\u003e—Matt Abrahams, lecturer at Stanford Graduate School of Business and bestselling author of \u003ci\u003eThink Faster, Talk Smarter\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003ci\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“A refreshingly honest and practical guide for anyone who feels overwhelmed by time. Guillebeau deftly weaves research, personal experience, and actionable strategies to help readers move from anxiety to purposeful living.”\u003cb\u003e—Ben Meer, founder of System Sunday\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“In \u003ci\u003eTime Anxiety\u003c\/i\u003e, Chris Guillebeau dismantles the myth of urgency and presents a refreshingly human approach to reclaiming our time—not by cramming in more tasks, but by embracing the power of letting go. Thoughtful, practical, and deeply relatable, this book shifts our focus from relentless productivity to intentional living.”\u003cb\u003e—Nir Eyal, author of \u003ci\u003eIndistractable\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cb\u003eChris Guillebeau\u003c\/b\u003e is the \u003ci\u003eNew York Times\u003c\/i\u003e bestselling author of \u003ci\u003eThe $100 Startup, Side Hustle, \u003c\/i\u003eand \u003ci\u003eThe Happiness of Pursuit\u003c\/i\u003e, which have sold over one million copies worldwide. During a lifetime of self-employment that included a four-year commitment as a volunteer executive in West Africa, he visited every country in the world (193 in total) before his thirty-fifth birthday.\u003cb\u003e1\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eStart by Giving Yourself More Time\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eBefore you can make big decisions about your life, you need to reduce the immediate pressure you feel.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eWhen I started writing this book, I first outlined lots of ideas about mortality, leaving a legacy, and how to complete big projects.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eWe’ll come back to some of that later. But as my editor and I poured over the survey results, we realized that time anxiety prevents people from moving forward in some very basic operations of life.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eOver and over, readers said things like:\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“I get absolutely frozen and can’t make simple decisions.”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“I’ve had the same important task at the top of my to-do list for ten days in a row, but I just can’t bring myself to face it.”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“It feels like everyone else understands something very simple that I don’t get at all.”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThey also tended to use absolute terms such as “always,” “never,” and “constantly” to describe their struggles with time. They’ve always felt this way, they would never be better, and they constantly felt the pull of wondering if they were spending their time well.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eAnxiety inhibits your ability to think clearly in the moment. When you feel anxious, you don’t always make rational decisions. Sometimes you know what you should do, but you feel incapable of doing it. Other times, you don’t have any idea what you should do—you just know what you’re doing now isn’t good.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eEither way, you feel trapped. And when you’re trapped, the first step is to locate an escape route.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eYou would not tell a person experiencing a panic attack that they need to get to work on filing their taxes, break up with their boyfriend, and mail off an overdue rent check. Perhaps they need to do all of those things eventually, but they first need to deal with what feels like an emergency. (And simply telling them to “calm down” probably won’t help much.)\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThey need to learn to address their breathing, lower their heart rate, and understand that even though what they are feeling seems overwhelming, it will get better. Only once they’re able to do these things will they be able to deal with more systemic problems.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThose actions I mentioned—lowering your heart rate, noticing your breath patterns—are part of regulating your nervous system, the essential part of your body that allows you to do any sort of cognitively intensive work. When this delicate ecosystem is in balance, you’re at your best. You’re able to make decisions, plan ahead, and manage your emotions with relative ease. Throw in stress or anxiety, however, and suddenly the ecosystem is under threat.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eWhen you’re struggling with time anxiety, you need to deal with the immediate symptoms first. One of the reasons why you experience distress is because you perceive a time shortage in your life. Therefore, let’s help you achieve a time surplus, where more time is available to you, even in the midst of a busy life.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eI’ll show you some strategies for this in the chapters that follow, including:\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e1. When to do things poorly (Not everything needs to be done with excellence or even done well.)\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e2. Why not finishing things is perfectly acceptable (Many things can be left undone, often permanently.)\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e3. How to decide “What is enough?” for any type of project or creative work, so that you always have an end point in mind\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eBut for now, try taking some quick actions that can help you right away. These actions will give you space to make bigger decisions and figure out how you really want to spend your time.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003e1. Practice “Time Decluttering”\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eHome-organizing guides often focus on decluttering, the act of removing items from your home or work space that don’t have a useful or joyful purpose. It can be a useful habit at times.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eBut while physical decluttering and improving your environment can help some-what, time anxiety usually stems from worries in our mind or commitments that occupy our schedule. It’s a little different from, “I’ve got too many socks, so I should pare down.”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThat’s why, in addition to any physical tidying up that you do, look at your calendar for the next few weeks and challenge yourself to remove a few items. Most likely, you can find some upcoming appointments that seemed like a good idea when you added them but now feel less important.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eLater I’ll show you a concept called rules of engagement that will help you make fewer commitments in the first place, but you can practice time decluttering without any further knowledge.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eGo through your schedule and ask, “Do I need to do this thing? Is it serving a purpose in my life? Do I still want to do it?”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eSee what you can remove, and notice how it feels to reclaim that time as a gift to yourself. It’s an easy but powerful way to multiply the time that’s available to you in the near future.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eACTION: Can you clear at least two items from your calendar for the next week?\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003e2. Put a Brick in Your Inbox\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eHow accessible are you right now? How many people have a direct line to your attention span?\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eMost of us have multiple “inboxes” where people can reach us. I don’t just mean any email inboxes you have, although those certainly count. But in addition, we have voicemail and voice memos, social media profiles that allow for direct messaging, apps with communication features, and more. Then of course, there are work networks (Teams, Slack, WhatsApp, others) that many employees are expected to participate in. For you, there might be something else I haven’t mentioned.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eGuess what? Being accessible all the time is costly! You can get some of your attention back by stepping away from some of these tools or at least minimizing your use of them.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eACTION: Think through all the different ways that people can get your attention. Can you turn off at least one of these inboxes?\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eI know this feels difficult to some people, including some who believe they simply can’t lower the level of access they provide to the world. If that’s you, understand that you are not powerless. There’s something you can do, even if it seems small.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eNote: I’m not suggesting that you lessen your availability for anyone who’s physically dependent on you, such as young children. In fact, turning off some of your accessibility elsewhere will allow you to be more present for the people you care most about.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eOne way or another, start resisting the expectation that your attention span is up for grabs. It shouldn’t be—it belongs to you, after all.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eNotice How It Feels to Give Yourself Time\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eTaken together, actions like these point to an overall strategy of giving yourself more time. Do whatever you can to achieve this result. You could extend the idea even further by:\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e1. Removing annoying, time-wasting apps from your phone\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e2. Turning off all but the most essential notifications\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e3. No longer agreeing to requests and commitments without thinking about them*\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e*Instead, pause and consider: Is this really something I want to do? If I agree to the request, what will I be passing up on?\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eAs you do this, notice how it feels. Isn’t it nice? You’ve been worried about not having time, and now you are literally giving it back to yourself.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eTo return to the home-organization example: the items on the list above are like decluttering, but perhaps even more valuable. You didn’t just gain more room in your sock drawer—you took back more of the most precious resource in the world!\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThese practices are not simply “doing less.” As you’ll see, we all want to do more of some things and less of others. What we’re doing here is removing some of the constant pressure you face, so that you can feel more in control of your time and make better decisions moving forward.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eEven if it’s just an extra twenty minutes that you gain, spend this time however you’d like. Don’t automatically assign it to the types of tasks you were doing before you started thinking like this. Use some of it for activities that feel joyful, refreshing, and stimulating. This time belongs to you.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eIdentity Shift\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eFinally, I encourage you to begin thinking differently about your relationship with time. What does this mean and how do you do it?\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eIt means that perhaps you’ve taken on an identity of “having this problem.” This is another common pattern of thinking that came up in my survey results. It’s expressed in statements like:\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“This is just the way I am.”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“I am a person who is always late to meet my friends.”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“I will always feel frazzled and overwhelmed.”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThis type of thinking is not value neutral. It frequently makes things worse, sending you into a spiral of negativity and preventing you from making any real changes.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eIt might be true that your brain operates differently from other people’s—but even if you’re neurodivergent, this doesn’t mean you are destined to always have the problems you’re experiencing now. 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