{"product_id":"the-newborn-sleep-book-isbn-9780399167980","title":"The Newborn Sleep Book","description":"Developed and refined by two successful pediatricians, the \"Jassey Way\" boasts more than a 90% success rate of getting children to sleep through the night in their first 4 weeks of life. A safe and proven technique, the Jassey Way uses a feeding schedule that allows newborns (and their parents) a full night's sleep at a younger age than other sleep training techniques.\"The Jassey brothers, partners in a Long Island pediatric paractice, have helped thousands of parents successfully sleep-train their newborns by the time they are a month old. The \"Jassey Way\" is practical, realistic, and based on the undeniable link between eating--specifically digesting--and sleeping.\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003e--Publishers Weekly\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"A common sense method for getting your baby to remain sleeping long after you’ve tucked him or her in.\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003e--Shaul Turner, FOX News\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"Their method has been tested for over twenty years and boasts a 90 percent success rate. After just two weeks on the doctor’s program, baby Peyton was sleeping 7 to 8 hours per night, and so were his relieved parents. Thanks to the Jassey method, many new parents and their babies are enjoying more peaceful nights of sweet, uninterrupted dreams.\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003e--Vicki Clinebell, Momtastic Parenting\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cb\u003eDr. Lewis Jassey\u003c\/b\u003e opened his own pediatric practice in 2001 and has appeared on NBC’s \u003ci\u003eToday \u003c\/i\u003eshow.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eDr. Jonathan Jassey \u003c\/b\u003ehas been a highly regarded pediatrician in the same practice for over eight years, and has received both the “Patients’ Choice Award” and the coveted “Most Compassionate Doctor” recognition.\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003ePREFACE\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eLet There Be Sleep!\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhy Sleep Train?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAs pediatricians with more than thirty years of combined experience, we’ve helped countless parents sleep train their newborns, with great success—regardless of whether they were first-time parents, skeptical about the process or eagerly on board from the start. To address the desires and concerns of parents who approach sleep training from different angles, we’ve written a few letters to them (feel free to read them all or just the one that best applies to you and your family).\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eLetter to the First-Time Mom\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eHi First-Time Mom!\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eCongratulations on the new addition to your family and welcome to the most exciting, amusing, difficult, mystifying and downright rewarding adventure you could ever hope to have on this earth.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eOne of the first questions we ask new moms and dads we see in our practice is: “Do you want your baby to sleep through the night?”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSince you’re reading this book, your answer is probably “Yes,” or at least “Maybe . . . as long as it’s safe” or something similar. Or perhaps it’s “Yes! Good Lord, yes!” Those are the most common reactions we get.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBut some parents look at us like it’s a trick question. Like they’re thinking:\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“This is a test. Infants aren’t supposed to sleep through the night, they need to be fed constantly, like a parking meter, and if we act like we don’t know that, Dr. Jassey is going to report us to child services.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWell, it’s not a trick question. It’s not a test. It’s more a politely rhetorical question, a transition question from which we can flow into our signature spiel, where we explain our sleep training method, “the Jassey Way.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe reason that this question is not totally rhetorical is that some parents actually answer “No!”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWe rarely see them, but some parents do think that having a baby that doesn’t sleep through the night, and being miserably tired all the time as a result, is sometimes just an inevitable part of parenting. And that that’s all there is to it.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBut the truth is, we want all parents to answer our question with a “Yes. Yes, I want my baby to sleep through the night.” And there’s a simple reason for that.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eOur job is to look after the well-being of the child, and in that capacity, we’re responsible for giving parents all of the tools they need to promote and protect that child’s well-being. And one of the most important tools parents can have is being well rested themselves. Being well rested helps parents to be not only more alert, but happier. It makes them better parents.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThat’s the one-line argument for sleep training, new mom:\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eA happier, more alert parent is a better parent.\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSo we’d prefer that your newborn not keep you up all night. Because the only way you can consistently get the good night’s sleep you need to be the best parent you can be is for your baby to get a good night’s sleep, too.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSo please—let there be sleep!\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSincerely,\u003cbr\u003eLewis and Jonathan Jassey\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eLetter to the Experienced Mom\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eHi Experienced Mom,\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIf your previous child (or children) did not sleep through the night, and left you tired and possibly unhappy much of the time as a result, then we probably don’t have to convince you of the merits of sleep training. The concept sells itself!\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBut if your previous child was one of the rare, miracle babies that slept through the night almost automatically, then there’s probably not much we could say to convince you that this next child will be any different. You’re probably going to want to ride that hot streak. We’re realists. We know how it is. We’ve seen it all before.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBut we do beseech you to keep this book handy, because we assure you: Siblings rarely take after each other in their ability to sleep through the night without training. And there may soon come a time when you rise up and finally exclaim: “Let there be sleep!”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBe warned!\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSincerely,\u003cbr\u003eLewis and Jonathan Jassey\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eLetter to the Mom Who Thinks Sleep Training May Be Harmful\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eDear Mom Who Would Consider Sleep Training, But Thinks It May Be Harmful to Her Baby,\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWe understand your concern, because there’s a lot of misinformation out there. Some so-called experts theorize that babies aren’t “meant” to sleep overnight, period; that they need to be fed on a twenty-four-hour cycle. Others will tell you that babies can only be sleep trained at a certain age, and that it’s asking too much of them physically and mentally before then.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThese claims are just not true. They might be completely well intentioned, but they’re also unfounded.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAs we’ll address in more detail in the following pages, there is no established evidence that infants need to feed overnight to maintain healthy weight gain or development, or that being trained to sleep overnight puts at risk a baby’s long-term health.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIn reality, the arguments against baby sleep training are emotional, not rational.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eHave you ever had a friend who’s afraid of flying? You show them all the irrefutable statistics proving that air travel is the safest mode of transportation available, but while they’re happy to get in a car, going up in the sky in a jet remains out of the question. Even they admit their fear is not rational; it’s purely emotional.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWe can look at baby sleep training in much the same way. All objective evidence points to it being safe.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSo please, do yourself—and your child—a favor. Let there be sleep!\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSincerely,\u003cbr\u003eLewis and Jonathan Jassey\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhy Choose This Book?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYou can’t eat sushi. You can’t smoke. You can’t smoke marijuana. You can’t smoke crack. You can’t jump on trampolines. It’s basically a giant list of things you can’t do.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e—Father-to-be Seth Rogen, describing a baby book to mother-to-be Katherine Heigl, in \u003ci\u003eKnocked Up\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eA Brief History of Baby Care\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eDid you know that human beings have been having babies for about two hundred thousand years? It’s true; for as long as people, in our present biological form, have existed, we’ve been having babies. And since we, as a species, began speaking languages only around a hundred thousand years ago, that means that we were having babies for around a hundred thousand years before any caveman or -woman could even have \u003ci\u003edreamed \u003c\/i\u003eof composing a \u003ci\u003ebaby book\u003c\/i\u003e.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBut you wouldn’t know it from reading these books today. Too many baby care books, baby sleep books included, tend to treat infants as if they’re delicate Fabergé eggs balancing on slanted rooftops; if Mommy or Daddy even\u003ci\u003e look\u003c\/i\u003e in the wrong direction, baby will come tumbling down and shatter to pieces. The way these books tell it, the fact that the human race has reproduced, let alone \u003ci\u003eprospered\u003c\/i\u003e as long as it has is nothing short of a miracle.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eOkay, we exaggerate. But we agree with Seth Rogen’s character in the 2007 movie \u003ci\u003eKnocked Up\u003c\/i\u003e—because \u003ci\u003esomeone \u003c\/i\u003ehas to lighten the mood here in the Land of Baby Care Literature. That’s also why we had the Eagles classic “Take It Easy” in our heads while writing much of this book. Because the happy truth is that your baby is a supremely resilient little creature. You think your MacBook Air can take a good licking? You think a Bugaboo stroller is an indomitable fortress? These things are impressive, but could they have survived during, say, the Stone Age?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBabies did.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eBabies\u003c\/i\u003e.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e•   •   •\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eNeedless to say, not \u003ci\u003eall\u003c\/i\u003e babies survived such periods, and tragically, even in this day and age, there are babies all over the world suffering from want.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBut if you bought this book, or if someone gave it to you, the odds are overwhelming that you possess the fundamental physical and emotional resources required to raise a perfectly healthy baby—with the help of a relatively small amount of important advice.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eMost experienced parents (moms and dads who have had a child before) know this already, of course. They’ve learned it from the best possible baby guide there is: a living, breathing, growing baby. They tend to be much more confident with the second baby. But it’s not just that they’ve acquired a whole set of parenting skills from the first child. It’s also the case that they’ve learned they don’t have to be so afraid of screwing up, as Jessica S., whose daughters are our patients, put it:\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYou’re much more cautious with everything [the first time]. You’re sterilizing the pacifier every time it hits the floor. Now you’re rinsing it off. You realize babies aren’t as delicate as you’d think.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBut too many parents don’t seem to understand this. They fear that if they’re not keeping up with the latest books and theories on parenting, and applying them to their children immediately, they’re negligent somehow. They’re not.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSo we want to make that point up front, because if we’re about to give you more than a hundred pages of parenting “advice,” we want to make sure that you understand that, should you not follow our advice, it would not imply that you are a “bad” parent. Because chances are, as long as you are a thoughtful parent with positive intentions, your child is going to be just fine.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAnd we don’t only say that to ease your mind. We say it because more than anything else—well, besides your child being healthy—we want you to \u003ci\u003eenjoy\u003c\/i\u003e this time. We’re not sure that we’re eloquent enough to properly capture in words the magic of parenthood, but let’s just say that it’s not something you want to miss out on, if you can at all help it.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBut scared parenting is like scared driving; it doesn’t accomplish its own aim, and it removes any joy you get from the activity in the process. We want you to have confidence! As we said, if you’re reading this book, chances are you totally have what it takes to raise a great kid.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eNavigating the Rough Waters of Baby Sleep Advice\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIf you go on any Internet message board or blog, you’ll see endorsements for any number of sleep training methods, many of them completely at odds with one another. And yet moms swear by them just the same.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWe are confident that the Jassey Way is the best baby sleep training method. We are confident it offers moms and dads the best chance to get their children sleeping through the night. Our ballpark estimate is that, since we started coaching parents in the Jassey Way in our practice over fifteen years ago, nine out of ten parents who have followed through on it have been successful.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBut you’ve no doubt heard of the success of other methods, and you’ve seen Internet message boards that endorsed various strategies, and you surely have friends who have sworn by other baby sleep books. So it might be helpful to explain why, when you get right down to it, \u003ci\u003eall\u003c\/i\u003e baby sleep books and methods are pretty similar and are all fairly successful.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe reason for this assertion is pretty simple: All baby sleep books have two \u003ci\u003eextra\u003c\/i\u003e guarantees built into them.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe first: \u003ci\u003eAll babies sleep, and some babies naturally sleep through the night on their own.\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eCertainly, only \u003ci\u003esome\u003c\/i\u003e babies come equipped with this skill on their own, not \u003ci\u003emost\u003c\/i\u003e or even \u003ci\u003emany\u003c\/i\u003e; but we do see it.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSo your baby might sleep through the night \u003ci\u003eno matter which book you read—\u003c\/i\u003eor even if you don’t read any book at all. In fact, you could be completely illiterate, and your baby might sleep like a rock from day one.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAll this is to say that \u003ci\u003eevery\u003c\/i\u003e baby sleep book has a fighting chance of succeeding, no matter what procedures it advocates.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe second baby sleep book guarantee: \u003ci\u003eThe core of any baby sleep training method is routine.\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBabies are creatures of habit. And they depend on environmental cues to know what to do and when. So getting your baby to sleep through the night is largely a matter of \u003ci\u003econditioning\u003c\/i\u003e her to do so. It’s a matter of building a framework of routine around your baby’s daily life that enables a long nighttime stretch during which she is accustomed to sleeping.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhether it’s putting your baby to bed at a particular time every night, always reading or singing to your baby to help her to sleep, making sure lighting and other environmental factors remain constant, sticking to a consistent feeding schedule, or whatever else, you’d be hard-pressed to find a baby sleep training method that didn’t have some kind of \u003ci\u003eroutine\u003c\/i\u003e at the heart of it.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhen we combine these two certainties—that some babies will sleep through the night on their own, and that getting any baby used to a daily routine increases the chances that that baby will sleep through the night—we can see why \u003ci\u003eany \u003c\/i\u003ebaby sleep book or method has at least a decent chance of success.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAnd since this is such a personal issue for moms and dads, it’s easy to understand how, if one method works for a particular family, they might come to trumpet that method and critique others—even if they have no personal experience with them.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eNow that we’ve explained how we’re not special, let’s talk about how we are.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWE KEEP IT REAL\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWe don’t mean to brag, but: We never intended to write a book about baby sleep. We are in this to help babies and parents. When it comes to baby sleep, we 100 percent keep it real.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eOur sleep training method, the Jassey Way, was something we would simply explain to the parents we saw in our pediatric practice. We’d ask, “Do you want your baby to sleep through the night?” and if the answer was “Yes,” we would explain our method. We were happy when the parents reported back to us that it was successful, but our baby sleep ambitions never extended beyond the walls of our office in Bellmore, Long Island.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBut over the years, more and more parents we saw in our practice started telling us, “You have to write a book about it,” in reference to our sleep method. Eventually, enough of them said it that we decided to do it.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSo you see, the Jassey Way wasn’t developed from studies, or lab tests, and it hasn’t been “proven” by them, either. It comes from the sum total of treating more than fifteen thousand babies over the course of more than thirty years combined of practicing pediatrics.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe bottom line: The Jassey Way has worked for the families we treat. It’s worked for enough of them that we can say, with confidence, that it should work for \u003ci\u003emost \u003c\/i\u003ebabies; it’s more a matter of whether or not you want to \u003ci\u003euse\u003c\/i\u003e our method, than of whether or not it will work.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eTHE PROCESS IS STRAIGHTFORWARD\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSome baby sleep books read more like incredibly detailed manuals for do-it-yourself furniture or electronics assembly.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWe’re talking about the books that advocate Olympic figure skating–like routines surrounding the nightly act of putting the child to bed: meticulous, time-consuming multistep procedures involving highly calibrated lighting, scripted spoken lines, check-ins at various intervals, keeping sleeping logs—those sorts of things. We’re talking about sleep training methods that might succeed by making you a MD\/PhD in baby sleep, when all you need is a little undergrad-level summer course.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIn contrast, the Jassey Way is very structured, sure, but it is not at all complicated, complex, or particularly demanding of your time.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWE’RE ALL ABOUT COULD, NOT SHOULD\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Tarcher","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":46304441008357,"sku":"NP9780399167980","price":24.0,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/1842\/7735\/files\/9780399167980.jpg?v=1767740695","url":"https:\/\/k12savings.com\/products\/the-newborn-sleep-book-isbn-9780399167980","provider":"K12savings","version":"1.0","type":"link"}