{"product_id":"push-back-guilt-in-the-age-of-natural-parenting-isbn-9780062407344","title":"Push Back: Guilt in the Age of Natural Parenting","description":"\u003cp\u003eA Harvard-trained obstetrician-gynecologist, prominent blogger, and author of the classic How Your Baby Is Born delivers a timely, important, and sure to be headline-making expose that shines a light on the natural parenting movement and the multimillion-dollar industry behind it.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe natural parenting movement praises the virtues of birth without medical interference, staunchly advocates breastfeeding for all mothers, and hails attachment parenting. Once the exclusive province of the alternative lifestyle, natural parenting has gone mainstream, becoming a lucrative big business today.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBut those who do not subscribe to this method are often made to feel as if they are doing their children harm. Dr. Amy Tuteur understands their apprehensions. “Parenting quickly feels synonymous with guilt. And of late, there is no bigger arena for this pervasive guilt than childbirth.” As a medical professional with a long career in obstetrics and gynecology and as the mother of four children, Tuteur is no stranger to the insurmountable pressures and subsequent feelings of blame and self-condemnation that mothers experience during their children’s early years. The natural parenting movement, she contends, is not helping them raise their children better. Instead, it capitalizes on their uncertainty, manipulating parents when they are most vulnerable.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIn Push Back, she chronicles the movement’s history from its roots to its modern practices, incorporating her own experiences as a mother and successful OB-GYN with original research on the latest in childbirth science. She also reveals the dangerous and overtly misogynistic motives of some of its proponents—conservative men who sought to limit women’s control and autonomy. As she debunks, one by one, the guilt-inducing myths of natural birth and parenting, Dr. Tuteur empowers women to embrace the method of childbirth that is right for them, while reassuring all parents that the most important thing they can do is love and care for their children.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eHow does Dr. Tuteur separate fact from fiction and empower parents to escape the guilt trap?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eParenting Pseudoscience Debunked:\u003c\/b\u003e Trace the history of the natural parenting movement and discover how personal beliefs, not scientific data, created a multimillion-dollar industry that profits from parental anxiety.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eNatural Childbirth Myths:\u003c\/b\u003e Examine the claims that birth is inherently safe and pain is beneficial, and learn why a Harvard-trained OB-GYN argues these ideas are not only wrong, but dangerous.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eLactivism and Breastfeeding:\u003c\/b\u003e Move past the ‘breast is best’ dogma with an honest look at the real, and often overstated, benefits of breastfeeding and the unnecessary guilt placed on mothers.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eAttachment Parenting Critiqued:\u003c\/b\u003e Uncover the misogynistic roots of parenting styles that demand constant maternal sacrifice and learn why a mother’s love isn’t measured by co-sleeping or baby-wearing.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e | \u003cp\u003eRELEASE THE GUILT \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eRECOVER YOUR CONFIDENCE\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eRECLAIM YOUR BODY AND \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003ePUSH BACK AGAINST THE NATURAL PARENTING INDUSTRY\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIn her provocative call to arms, Harvard-trained Ob-Gyn and mother of four Dr. Amy Tuteur fearlessly takes on the natural parenting industry to address the problems blighting childbirth and new parenthood today: the pervasive sense of guilt, the judgment of other women, and the endless creation of ever-greater expectations and ever more work for new mothers.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhat is the natural parenting industry? It’s the midwives, doulas, lactation consultants, and attachment parenting “experts” who have created a big business out of enforcing a set of unrealistic standards about how to give birth, how to feed babies, and how to care for children that at best can make women feel inadequate when they don’t meet them, and at worse can be dangerous. Considering that mothering is supposed to be natural, it takes a surprising amount of goods and services, from childbirth books and courses to birthing balls and birthing pools, from lactation consultants to breastfeeding pillows and pumps, from cloth diapers to fancy baby slings, to be a “natural” mother.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003ePush Back\u003c\/em\u003e addresses everything you thought you knew about natural childbirth, breastfeeding, and attachment parenting and shows you that most of it is untrue. Part science lesson, part business exposé and part sociological analysis, \u003cem\u003ePush Back\u003c\/em\u003e is welcome news for mothers struggling with the guilt imposed by the expectations of the natural parenting industry, those who care about them both personally and professionally, and anyone concerned with the role of women in contemporary society.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003ePush Back\u003c\/em\u003e is a challenge to all women to defy the madness of the natural childbirth industry and to reclaim that most basic of a woman’s rights: the right to control her own body. Ultimately, no matter what choices you make about your birth and your baby, it is a mother’s love and concern that makes for a healthy child.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Don’t buy someone else’s story of who you are or what you should do to be a “Good Mother.”  Amy Tuteur speaks truth with love to help you and your baby stay strong and healthy through childbirth and those precious early months in your new family’s life.”—Susan Lemagie, MD, FACOG, Assistant Clinical Professor at University of Washington\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Relying on solid science with a generous dash of common sense, \u003cem\u003ePush Back\u003c\/em\u003e should be a welcome breath of reassurance for women caught up in the social media world of birth expectations. Looking for the best way to ensure a healthy baby and healthy mom? This is the book for you.”—Roy Benaroch, MD, FAAP, Assistant Adjunct Professor of Pediatrics at Emory University and blogger at \u003cem\u003eThe Pediatric Insider\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIn \u003cem\u003ePush Back\u003c\/em\u003e, Dr. Amy Tuteur asks:\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhy do some midwives claim that unless you give birth to your baby vaginally, you haven’t given birth at all?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhy do lactation consultants tell new mothers to keep nursing, nonstop, no matter how much their baby cries in hunger, ignoring the fact that 5 percent of women do not produce enough milk?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhy does the sisterhood of midwives seem to advise women to reject pain management and simply suffer in labor?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhy is attachment parenting not seen as the sexist practice that it really is, designed to keep women out of the wider world by mandating a literal attachment to their infants?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhy does the natural childbirth industry ask women to cling to ideas about birth “as nature intended” and yet reject the historical realities of infant and maternal mortality rates?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAnd . . . since when did childbirth and childrearing become an acceptable arena for women to heap judgment upon one another?\u003c\/p\u003e | \u003cp\u003eDon’t buy someone else’s story of who you are or what you should do to be a “Good Mother.”  Amy Tuteur speaks truth with love to help you and your baby stay strong and healthy through childbirth and those precious early months in your new family’s life. - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eSusan Lemagie, MD, FACOG, Assistant Clinical Professor at University of Washington\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eRelying on solid science with a generous dash of common sense, \u003ci\u003ePush Back\u003c\/i\u003e should be a welcome breath of reassurance for women. Looking for the best way to ensure a healthy baby and a healthy mom? This book is for you. - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eRoy Benaroch, MD, FAAP, Assistant Adjunct Professor of Pediatrics at Emory University and blogger at The Pediatric Insider\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAs the “she-who-shall-not-be-named” of the natural parenting world, Dr. Amy Tuteur has taken down many preconceived notions of birth and breastfeeding with her trademark wit. Fans and critics alike may be surprised at the level, pragmatic tone of \u003ci\u003ePush Back\u003c\/i\u003e, a serious, important, and ultimately reassuring response to today’s pervading parenting cultural norms. This book offers an alternative to parents desperately seeking a different sort of birth or parenting script; one that relies more on intellect than emotion; on love rather than biology. - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eSuzanne Barston CLC, creator of The Fearless Formula Feeder blog and author of Bottled Up: How the Way We Feed Babies Has Come to Define Motherhood, and Why It Shouldn't\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eRelying on solid science with a generous dash of common sense, \u003ci\u003ePush Back\u003c\/i\u003e should be a welcome breath of reassurance for women caught up in the social media world of birth expectations. Looking for the best way to ensure a healthy baby and a healthy mom? This book is for you. - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eRoy Benaroch, MD, FAAP, Assistant Adjunct Professor of Pediatrics at Emory University and blogger at The Pediatric Insider\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003ePush Back\u003c\/i\u003e, a serious, important, and ultimately reassuring response to today’s pervading parenting cultural norms. This book offers an alternative to parents desperately seeking a different sort of birth or parenting script; one that relies more on intellect than emotion; on love rather than biology. - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eSuzanne Barston CLC, creator of The Fearless Formula Feeder blog and author of Bottled Up: How the Way We Feed Babies Has Come to Define Motherhood, and Why It Shouldn't\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“As a former CPM, I highly recommend that every mother and mother-to-be read \u003ci\u003ePush Back\u003c\/i\u003e. As I look back over the years I think of all the women that could have been helped by the information and explanations provided in this book. The amount of pain, suffering, and guilt that I could have avoided and alleviated had only I understood the flaws of the natural parenting paradigm as explained so thoroughly by Dr. Tuteur is immeasurable.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eLeigh Fransen, Certified Professional Midwife, HonestMidwife.com\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“I highly recommend that every mother and mother-to-be read \u003ci\u003ePush Back\u003c\/i\u003e. The amount of pain, suffering, and guilt that I could have avoided and alleviated had only I understood the flaws of the natural parenting paradigm as explained so thoroughly by Dr. Tuteur is immeasurable.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eLeigh Fransen, Certified Professional Midwife, HonestMidwife.com\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Dey Street Books","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":44888805507301,"sku":"NP9780062407344","price":26.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/1842\/7735\/files\/9780062407344.jpg?v=1730229864","url":"https:\/\/k12savings.com\/products\/push-back-guilt-in-the-age-of-natural-parenting-isbn-9780062407344","provider":"K12savings","version":"1.0","type":"link"}