{"product_id":"no-contact-isbn-9781646223114","title":"No Contact","description":"\u003cb\u003e“A landmark work around a theme so prominent—and yet so thoroughly ignored—in modern life.” —Ocean Vuong\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eA poignant and galvanizing anthology that illuminates the realities and nuances of family estrangement, with pieces by Stephanie Foo, Nick Flynn, Deesha Philyaw, Cheryl Strayed, and others\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eEstrangement presents an essential existential question: who are we without our family? What kind of person cuts the proverbial umbilical cord and why? And who do we become, once untethered from our kin?\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eFamilies fall apart and individuals cut ties for myriad reasons—abuse, politics, mental illness, and addiction, among others—and reunification often is not in the cards. Estrangement can be a positive change, as Emi Nietfeld explains in her essay about finding relief and logic after cutting off her mother. It can be a journey: noam keim rebuilds their sense of self by learning Arabic in their ancestral homeland of Morocco, while Nicole Graev Lipson searches for answers in literature and motherhood after her brother ghosts her. Other writers explore how estrangement complicates life’s big shifts—Domenica Ruta traces the repercussions of severing ties while battling cancer; Hannah Bae reels from the prospect of cultural alienation when she cuts off her Korean parents; and after twenty years of separation, Soni Brown reluctantly becomes her mother’s caretaker as dementia erases her memory.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThrough thirty-two intimate, first-person accounts, \u003ci\u003eNo Contact\u003c\/i\u003e counters the prevalent trope of reconciliation as a happy ending, focusing instead on the complex grief, healing, and authenticity found in the rupture from family.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eFeaturing work by Hannah Bae, Eben E. B. Bein, Soni Brown, Lorne Daniel, Lindsey Danis, Michelle Dowd, Nick Flynn, Stephanie Foo, Gabriela Denise Frank, Susan Ito, Danielle Jernigan, noam keim, Erika Krouse, Monique Laban, Cassandra Lewis, Kate Lewis, Nicole Graev Lipson, Tiffany Aldrich MacBain, Jamal Mahjoub, Onita Morgan-Edwards, Emi Nietfeld, Geneva Phillips, Deesha Philyaw, Anna Qu, Domenica Ruta, Oslyn Serratos, Alyson Shelton, Cheryl Strayed, Mattilda Bernstein Sycamore, Raksha Vasudevan, Jane Wong, and Kristen Millares Young.\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eThe Seattle Times\u003c\/i\u003e, A Most Anticipated Book of the Year\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eZibby's Highlights, A Most Anticipated Book of the Year\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"Grippingly vulnerable. For those who feel guilt after disengaging from family, this offers powerful absolution.\" —\u003ci\u003ePublishers Weekly\u003c\/i\u003e \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"A search for compassion and conversation surrounding the decision to cut ties with family . . . The collection’s narratives and poems each articulate a severed bond and reckon with the grief, uncertainty, and potential healing that emerges from that estrangement . . . [T]he unity of voices effectively showcases how the idea of family can be so similarly upended for such a myriad of lives . . . [A] noble amplification of under-heard voices.\" —\u003ci\u003eKirkus Review\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“A landmark work around a theme so prominent—and yet so thoroughly ignored—in modern life. This collection opens chasms beyond writing and testament—but braves toward a new vision of healing, self-dignity, and, most importantly, the possibility for life’s flourishing without closure.” —Ocean Vuong\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"\u003ci\u003eNo Contact\u003c\/i\u003e traces the subtle architecture of absence—echoes that linger in rooms never entered, the strange tenderness that survives even when love is withheld. These essays illuminate the complexity of family with honesty and grit, exploring distance as a kind of seeing and how stepping away can sometimes reveal what staying never could. This is a book that carries strength, insight, and self-compassion. The authors: warriors. Their words linger, unsettling and clarifying, offering a map for anyone who has ever navigated the delicate terrain of love and loss.\" —Mira Ptacin, author of \u003ci\u003eThe In-Betweens\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e“This moving collection of stories and poems offers a necessary antidote to the feelings of grief, anger, and shame that often accompany family estrangement. They offer powerful testimonies of how other people navigate the challenges and heartbreaks of difficult families. And they help us see that no matter where we fall on the estrangement continuum—from strained relationships all the way up to full-on no contact—we don’t have to go through it alone.\" —Harriet Brown, author of\u003ci\u003e Shadow Daughter: A Memoir of Estrangement\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“\u003ci\u003eNo Contact \u003c\/i\u003eis safe harbor for anyone who finds themselves unmoored and directionless on the dark sea of estrangement. May these collected essays and poems be a lighthouse for those in need of a guide.” —Minda Honey, author of\u003ci\u003e The Heartbreak Years\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"Going 'no contact' can be brave, terrifying, lonely, invigorating, devastating, or freeing, often all at the same time. These essays illustrate this heady mix beautifully, achingly, without tidy resolutions or moral certainty. In a culture that sanctifies closure, this anthology reminds us that rupture can be beautiful and that closing the door also opens us to new possibilities. \u003ci\u003eNo Contact\u003c\/i\u003e bears clear-eyed witness to the cost of leaving, the sacrifice of survival, and the fragile, hard-won freedom that can emerge in the space left behind.\"—Kelly McMasters, author of \u003ci\u003eThe Leaving Season \u003c\/i\u003eand \u003ci\u003eWelcome to Shirley\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"In the pages of this book, I found a community I didn’t know I needed—writers from all over the world who have set sail on a log in the high seas of family estrangement. The intimacy in these stories is a salve, as each writer revisits the complex emotions wrought on those of us who dare walk away (and some who are cast out). I found myself holding my breath. Guilt, shame, relief, growth, wisdom, joy and wit, but most of all a clearing—it’s all here in this beautiful, urgent anthology. \u003ci\u003eNo Contact\u003c\/i\u003e comes at the right time to heal a generation or two and beyond.\" —Sonora Jha, author of \u003ci\u003eIntemperance\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eThe Laughter\u003c\/i\u003e, and \u003ci\u003eHow to Raise a Feminist Son\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"Call it becoming estranged, going no contact, leaving. Call it saving your life. Jenny Bartoy’s collection \u003ci\u003eNo Contact\u003c\/i\u003e brings sensitive and searing personal voices—and nuance—to the conversation about estrangement. An essential anthology for those determined to survive and make it through to the other side. Turns out, we are very much not alone.\" —Jessica Berger Gross, author of \u003ci\u003eEstranged: Leaving Family and Finding Home \u003c\/i\u003eand \u003ci\u003eHazel Says No\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cb\u003eJENNY BARTOY\u003c\/b\u003e is a French American editor and critic. Her writing appears in several anthologies and in such publications as Th\u003ci\u003ee Boston Globe\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eThe Seattle Times\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eUnder the Gum Tree\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eRoom\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eChicago Review of Books\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eCrimeReads\u003c\/i\u003e, and \u003ci\u003eThe Rumpus\u003c\/i\u003e, among others. She holds a master's degree from Columbia University and lives in Tacoma, Washington.","brand":"Catapult","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":48233435562213,"sku":"NP9781646223114","price":17.95,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/1842\/7735\/files\/9781646223114.jpg?v=1767733783","url":"https:\/\/k12savings.com\/products\/no-contact-isbn-9781646223114","provider":"K12savings","version":"1.0","type":"link"}