{"product_id":"love-illuminated-exploring-lifes-most-mystifying-subject-with-the-help-of-50000-strangers-isbn-9780062211163","title":"Love Illuminated: Exploring Life's Most Mystifying Subject (with the Help of 50,000 Strangers)","description":"\u003cp\u003eFrom the editor of the \u003cem\u003eNew York Times\u003c\/em\u003e' popular \"Modern Love\" column, the story of love from beginning to end (or not).\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eLove. We want it. We need it. We pay it homage with songs and poems and great works of art. And when we lose it, there's no pain as intense or excruciating. For centuries we've been trying to figure it out, control it, or just get better at it. As the editor of a column about love for the \u003cem\u003eNew York Times\u003c\/em\u003e, Daniel Jones reads thousands of stories about people's intimate relationships—the ones that soar, crash, or hum along, from the bizarre to the supposedly “normal.” It's possible that he's read more true love stories than anyone on earth. In \u003cem\u003eLove Illuminated\u003c\/em\u003e, he teases apart this mystifying emotion that thrills, crushes, and sustains.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eDrawing from the 50,000 stories that have crossed his desk over the past decade, Jones explores ten aspects of love—pursuit, destiny, vulnerability, connection, trust, practicality, monotony, infidelity, loyalty, and wisdom—and creates a lively, funny and enlightening journey through this universal human experience that jangles the head and stirs the heart. \u003c\/p\u003e | \u003cp\u003eLove is unrivaled in its power to thrill, crush, and sustain. No subject in human history has been more thoroughly examined. And yet, as desperately as we have tried to unlock love's mysteries—to \"decode\" it through scientific experimentation, philosophical inquiry, and even mathematical algorithms—do we really understand love any better today than Shakespeare did nearly five hundred years ago?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAs the editor of a column about love in the \u003cem\u003eNew York Times\u003c\/em\u003e, Daniel Jones has been privy to the deepest personal revelations of tens of thousands of strangers. Deluged with stories of scheming cheaters, hopeless romantics, racy texts, and fierce devotion, he has spent much of the past decade wading through love's muck and majesty—and has taken plenty of notes along the way. In \u003cem\u003eLove Illuminated\u003c\/em\u003e, he uses his unique perspective to tease apart life's most mystifying subject.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eDrawing from the 50,000 tales of love that have crossed his desk, Jones traces the arc of human relationships through ten phases, starting with the pursuit, destiny, vulnerability, connection, and trust of new love, and then turning to the practicality, monotony, infidelity, loyalty, and wisdom of love matured. With empathy and wry humor, he takes readers on an enlightening journey through the highs, lows, and enduring unknowns of this universal experience that rattles the head and stirs the heart.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAs Jones explains, \"Love is about curiosity, not certainty. It's about tossing oneself overboard into the wild seas, not remaining safely on deck.\"\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIn \u003cem\u003eLove Illuminated\u003c\/em\u003e, he pulls us into the depths of love in all its contradictions and complexities, offering glimmers of understanding along with the comforts of shared experience.\u003c\/p\u003e | \u003cp\u003ePraise for Daniel Jones:  “Affecting and wise.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eVanity Fair\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“[The Bastard on the Couch] is meant in part for men like jones--decent, self-analyzing men who are doing their best to assist in the stewardship of household and families. It will be consumed . . .  by the women who keep their company.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eNew York Times\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Bastard achieves the near impossible--finding 27 ‘real’ men who expose their marriages with brutal honesty and great humor. It’s a kiss and tell in guyspeak: older women, younger women, multiple women, affairs, fatherhood and fidelity. Stay-at-home dads, the castrated husband, guys who lie and guys who (don’t fall off your chair) can’t commit--all share what they’re actually thinking and feeling, especially what it’s like to be a man in an era of increasingly powerful women.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eChicago Sun-Times\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Daniel Jones has assembled a host of sharp male writers…to tell their side of the story. Sake-fueled back-alley lovemaking, the highs and lows of full-time fathering, the toxic effects that a wife’s unbridled anger has on her husband and kids, and the curious, ignominious sensation that comes with counseling an ex-wife’s current husband on how to handle his impending divorce are just a few of the subject they examine with hawkeyed honesty.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eElle\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“A provocative, insightful, and deeply humane meditation on ‘life’s most mystifying subject’... Jones ... proves an exceptional guide -- droll, compassionate, nonjudgmental -- through all of love’s many phases.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eElle\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“A hip, nonjudgmental survey of every kind of love under the sun…there are countless tales of encouragement.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eNew York Times Book Review\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"William Morrow","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":44888132649189,"sku":"NP9780062211163","price":25.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/1842\/7735\/files\/9780062211163.jpg?v=1730228224","url":"https:\/\/k12savings.com\/products\/love-illuminated-exploring-lifes-most-mystifying-subject-with-the-help-of-50000-strangers-isbn-9780062211163","provider":"K12savings","version":"1.0","type":"link"}