{"product_id":"kitchens-of-the-great-midwest-isbn-9780143109419","title":"Kitchens of the Great Midwest","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e“A sweet and savory treat.” —\u003ci\u003ePeople\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“An impressive feat of narrative jujitsu . . . that keeps readers turning the pages too fast to realize just how ingenious they are.”—\u003ci\u003eThe New York Times Book Review\u003c\/i\u003e, Editor’s Pick\u003ci\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eFrom the \u003ci\u003eNew York Times\u003c\/i\u003e bestselling author of \u003ci\u003eThe Lager Queen of Minnesota, Kitchens of the Great Midwest \u003c\/i\u003eis a novel about a young woman with a once-in-a-generation palate who becomes the iconic chef behind the country’s most coveted dinner reservation. \u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e  \u003cbr\u003e When Lars Thorvald’s wife, Cynthia, falls in love with wine—and a dashing sommelier—he’s left to raise their baby, Eva, on his own. He’s determined to pass on his love of food to his daughter—starting with puréed pork shoulder. As Eva grows, she finds her solace and salvation in the flavors of her native Minnesota. From Scandinavian lutefisk to hydroponic chocolate habaneros, each ingredient represents one part of Eva’s journey as she becomes the star chef behind a legendary and secretive pop-up supper club, culminating in an opulent and emotional feast that’s a testament to her spirit and resilience.\u003cbr\u003e  \u003cbr\u003e Each chapter in J. Ryan Stradal’s startlingly original debut tells the story of a single dish and character, at once capturing the zeitgeist of the Midwest, the rise of foodie culture, and delving into the ways food creates community and a sense of identity. By turns quirky, hilarious, and vividly sensory, \u003ci\u003eKitchens of the Great Midwest\u003c\/i\u003e is an unexpected mother-daughter story about the bittersweet nature of life—its missed opportunities and its joyful surprises. It marks the entry of a brilliant new talent.\u003c\/p\u003ePraise for\u003ci\u003e Kitchens of the Great Midwest:\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“I read J. Ryan Stradal’s\u003ci\u003e Kitchens of the Great Midwest \u003c\/i\u003eon a flight. I buckled my seatbelt, opened the book and when I looked up again, the flight attendant was asking if I needed assistance getting off the plane. I didn’t, but now you know the spell this author can cast. He does it again with \u003ci\u003eThe Lager Queen of Minnesota.\u003c\/i\u003e” \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003e—\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003ci\u003e\u003cb\u003eElisabeth Egan for \u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eThe New York Times\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"An impressive feat of narrative jujitsu. . . that keeps readers turning the pages too fast to realize just how ingenious they are.\"\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003e—The New York Times Book Review, \u003c\/i\u003eEditor's Pick\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\"This is a book that made me want to have a more full and colorful life, a life with cookbooks and a well-used kitchen, and to delight at all the goodness that can be put in front of us.”—\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eLos Angeles Review of Books\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e“A sweet and savory treat.” \u003cb\u003e—\u003ci\u003ePeople\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“The author's gentle skewering of foodie snobs (from county fair doyennes to the vegan\/gluten-free\/soy-free police) is spot on, and the blend of humor, warmth, and longing that he uses to portray family relationships make the book insightful and endearing. Savor it page by page.”\u003cb\u003e—Oprah.com\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003ci\u003e“Kitchens of the Great Midwest\u003c\/i\u003e is a terrific reminder of what can be wrested from suffering and struggle – not only success, but also considerable irony, a fair amount of wisdom and a decent meal.”\u003cb\u003e—Jane Smiley, \u003c\/b\u003e\u003ci\u003eThe Guardian\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"Warning: this will make you hungry. . . . You won’t be able to put it down. And it will up your kitchen game.\"\u003ci\u003e\u003cb\u003e—The Skimm\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"Garrison Keillor’s got nothing on [J. Ryan Stradal]!\"\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003e—\u003c\/i\u003e'Here and Now', NPR\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“A tender coming-of-age story with a mix of finely rendered pathos and humor.”\u003ci\u003e\u003cb\u003e—Washington Post\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e“Stradal’s debut novel tackles foodie culture with all the finesse of a pastry chef…Reading \u003ci\u003eKitchens \u003c\/i\u003eis all pleasure.” \u003ci\u003e\u003cb\u003e—LA Magazine\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"[A] captivating debut novel. . . as surprising and satisfying as a great meal.\"\u003ci\u003e\u003cb\u003e—Tampa Bay Times\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Foodies and those who love contemporary literature will devour this novel that is being compared to Elizabeth Strout’s \u003ci\u003eOlive Kitteridge\u003c\/i\u003e. A standout.” \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003e—Library Journal \u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e(starred review)\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“\u003ci\u003e[Kitchens of the Great Midwest\u003c\/i\u003e is] the first novel about the emergence and current state of foodie culture… Fundamentally, [it’s] about what happens when opposing personalities coexist: those who bake with real butter versus those who don’t, those who obsess over heirloom tomatoes alongside those who don’t even know what they are. It uses these categories as a way to look at one of the most confusing, liberating truths there is, which is that often the people we think we’re the least like are the ones we end up needing the most.”\u003ci\u003e \u003cb\u003e–Book Forum\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cb\u003e \u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “[A] delicious debut from Stradal.. . Food and family intertwine in this promising debut that features triumph, heartbreak, and even recipes.”\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003e—Kirkus\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Stradal’s first novel is a refreshing and brisk read, with a sophisticated sense of such glories of foodie culture as open-pollinated heirloom corn, pan-seared Walleye and Caesar Cardini’s original Caesar Salad.”\u003ci\u003e—\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003cb\u003eBBC.com\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Stradal’s debut is charming, rife with hardy, self-deprecating humor, but in Kitchens of the Great Midwest [Stradal] really proves his mettle as a novelist to look out for.”\u003cb\u003e—Bustle.com \u003cbr\u003e \u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “\u003ci\u003eKitchens of the Great Midwest\u003c\/i\u003e is a big-hearted, funny, and class-transcending pleasure. It’s also both a structural and empathetic tour de force, stepping across worlds in the American midwest, and demonstrating with an enviable tenderness and ingenuity the tug of war between our freedom to pursue our passions and our obligations to those we love.” \u003cb\u003e—Jim Shepard,\u003c\/b\u003e author of \u003ci\u003eProject X\u003c\/i\u003e and National Book Award finalist \u003ci\u003eLike You’d Understand, Anyway\u003c\/i\u003e \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Tender, funny, and moving, J. Ryan Stradal's debut novel made me crave my mother's magic cookie bars...and every good tomato I've ever had the privilege of eating. \u003ci\u003eKitchens of the Great Midwest \u003c\/i\u003emanages to be at once sincere yet sharply observed, thoughtful yet swiftly paced, and the lives of its fallible, realistic, and complicated characters mattered to me deeply. It's a fantastic book.”— \u003cb\u003eEdan Lepucki\u003c\/b\u003e, bestselling author of \u003ci\u003eCalifornia\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e  \u003cbr\u003e “In \u003ci\u003eKitchens of the Great Midwest\u003c\/i\u003e, a charming, fast-moving round robin tale of food, sensuality and Midwestern culture, Mr. Stradal has delivered one extremely tasty, well-seasoned debut in what is sure to be a long and savory career.”—\u003cb\u003eJanet Fitch\u003c\/b\u003e, author \u003ci\u003eWhite Oleander\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e  \u003cbr\u003e “From the quite literally burning passions of a lonely eleven-year-old girl with an exceptional palate, to the ethical dilemmas behind a batch of Blue Ribbon Peanut Butter Bars, J. Ryan Stradal writes with a special kind of meticulous tenderness—missing nothing and accepting everything. A superbly gratifying debut.”—\u003cb\u003eMeg Howrey\u003c\/b\u003e, author of \u003ci\u003eThe Crane’s Dance\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e  \u003cbr\u003e \"An impossible-to-put-down, one-of-a-kind novel. The prose is beautiful, the characters memorable, and the plot is surprising at every turn. I have never read a book quite like this—and neither, I'll bet, have you. This stunning debut announces J. Ryan Stradal as a first-rate voice in American fiction. This is a wildly creative, stunningly original, and very moving novel. I can't wait to see what Stradal does next.\"—\u003cb\u003e Rob Roberge\u003c\/b\u003e, author of \u003ci\u003eThe Cost of Living\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e  \u003cbr\u003e \"A Great American Novel in the fullest sense of the term. Everything you want a book to be.\"\u003cb\u003e—Ben Loory\u003c\/b\u003e, author of \u003ci\u003eStories for Nighttime and Some for the Day\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003ci\u003e \u003c\/i\u003e\u003cb\u003eJ. Ryan Stradal \u003c\/b\u003eis the author of \u003ci\u003eNew York Times\u003c\/i\u003e bestseller \u003ci\u003eKitchens of the Great Midwest\u003c\/i\u003e and national bestsellers \u003ci\u003eSaturday Night at the Lakeside Supper Club \u003c\/i\u003eand \u003ci\u003eThe Lager Queen of Minnesota\u003c\/i\u003e. His writing has appeared in \u003ci\u003eThe New York Times\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eThe Wall Street Journal, The Guardian, Granta, The Rumpus,\u003c\/i\u003e and the \u003ci\u003eLos Angeles Review of Books\u003c\/i\u003e. His debut, \u003ci\u003eKitchens of the Great Midwest,\u003c\/i\u003e won the American Booksellers Association Indie's Choice Award for Adult Debut Book of the Year. Born and raised in Minnesota, he currently lives in California with his family.\u003cp\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eLUTEFISK\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eLars Thorvald loved two women. That was it, he thought in passing, while he sat on the cold concrete steps of his apartment building. Perhaps he would’ve loved more than two, but it just didn’t seem like things were going to work out like that.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThat morning, while defying a doctor’s orders by puréeing a braised pork shoulder, he’d stared out his kitchen window at the snow on the roof of the Happy Chef restaurant across the highway and sung a love song to one of those two girls, his baby daughter, while she slept on the living room floor. He was singing a Beatles song, replacing the name of the girl in the old tune with the name of the girl in the room.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eHe hadn’t told a woman “I love you” until he was twenty-eight. He didn’t lose his virginity until he was twenty-eight either. At least he’d had his first kiss when he was twenty-one, even if that woman quit returning his calls less than a week later.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eLars blamed his sorry luck with women on his lack of teenage romance, and he blamed his lack of teenage romance on the fact that he was the worst-smelling kid in his grade, every year. He stunk like the floor of a fish market each Christmas, starting at age twelve, and even when he didn’t smell terrible, the other kids acted like he did, because that’s what kids do. “Fish Boy,” they called him, year round, and it was all the fault of an old Swedish woman named Dorothy Seaborg.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e • • • \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eOn a December afternoon in 1971, Dorothy Seaborg of Duluth, Minnesota, fell on the ice and broke her hip while walking to her mailbox, disrupting the supply line of lutefisk for the Sunday Advent dinners at St. Olaf’s Lutheran Church. Lars’s father, Gustaf Thorvald—of Duluth’s Gustaf \u0026amp; Sons bakery, and one of the most conspicuous Norwegians between Cloquet and Two Harbors—promised everyone in St. Olaf’s Fellowship Hall that there would be no break in lutefisk continuity; his family would step in and carry on the brutal Scandinavian tradition for the benefit of the entire Twin Ports region.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eNever mind that neither Gustaf, his wife, Elin, nor his children had ever even seen a live whitefish before, much less caught one, pounded it, dried it, soaked it in lye, resoaked it in cold water, or done the careful cooking required to make something that, when perfectly prepared, looked like jellied smog and smelled like boiled aquarium water. Since everyone in the house was equally unqualified for the job, the work fell to Lars, age twelve, and his younger brother Jarl, age ten, sparing the youngest sibling, nine-year-old Sigmund, but only because he actually liked the stuff.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“If Lars and Jarl don’t like it,” Gustaf told Elin, “I can count on them not to eat any. It’ll eliminate loss and breakage.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eGustaf was satisfied with this reasoning, and while Elin still thought it was a mean thing to do to their young sons, she said nothing. Theirs was a mixed-race marriage—between a Norwegian and a Dane—and thus all things culturally important to one but not the other were given a free pass and critiqued only in unmixed company.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e • • • \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYearly intimate contact with their cultural heritage failed to evolve the Thorvald boys’ sensibilities. Jarl, who still ate his own snot, much preferred the taste of boogers to lutefisk, given that the consistency and color were the same. Lars, meanwhile, was stumped by the old Scandinavian women who walked up to him in church and said, “Any young man who makes lutefisk like you do is going to be quite popular with the ladies.” In Lars’s experience, lutefisk skills usually inspired revulsion or, at best, indifference among prospective dates. Even the girls who claimed they liked lutefisk didn’t want to smell it when they weren’t eating it, and Lars couldn’t give them much of a choice. The once-anticipated holiday season had become for Lars a cruel month of stench and rejection, and thanks to the boys at school, its social effects lingered long after everyone’s desiccated Christmas trees were abandoned by the curbside.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e • • • \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBy the time Lars was eighteen, whatever tolerance he’d once had for this uncompromising tradition had long eroded. His hands were scarred from several Advents of soaking dried whitefish in lye, and every year the smell clung harder to his pores, fingernails, hair, and shoes, and not just because their surface areas had increased with maturity. Lars had also grown to become a little wizard in the kitchen, and by his unintentionally mastering the tragic hobby of lutefisk preparation, its potency was skyrocketing. Lutherans were driving from as far away as Fergus Falls to try the “Thorvald lutefisk,” and there wasn’t an attractive young woman among any of them.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAs if to mock him further every year, Lars’s dad would shove a forkful of the crap in his face each Christmas.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Just a bite,” Gustaf would say. “Your ancestors ate this to survive the long winters.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“And how did they survive lutefisk?” Lars asked once.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Take some pride in your work, son,” Gustaf said, and took away his lefse in punishment.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e • • • \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIn 1978, Lars graduated from high school and got the heck out of Duluth. His grades could’ve gotten him into a nice Lutheran school like Gustavus Adolphus or Augsburg, but Lars wanted to be a chef, and he didn’t see what good college would do him other than to delay that goal by four years. Instead he moved down to the Cities, looking for a girlfriend and for kitchen work in whatever order, requiring only that no one insist he make lutefisk. That attitude sure left a lot more options open than his father had predicted.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAfter a ten-year unpaid apprenticeship at Gustaf \u0026amp; Sons, Lars was already skilled at baking—arguably the most difficult of all culinary duties—but didn’t want to fall back on that. Because he only chose jobs that could teach him something, and went on dates about as often as a vegetarian restaurant opened near an interstate highway, he gained a pretty decent handle on French, Italian, German, and American cuisine in just under a decade.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBy October 1987, as his home state was enraptured by the Twins winning their first World Series ever, Lars had earned a job as a chef at Hutmacher’s, a trendy lakeside restaurant that attracted big celebrities, like meteorologists, state senators, and local pro athletes. For years, it was said, a Twins player could enjoy his meals at Hutmacher’s unremarked and unmolested, but by the week Lars was hired, jubilant ballplayers were regularly turning the late shift into an upbeat party.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAmid the circumstance of a long-suffering sports team’s success, the strange joy of it all spread through the restaurant. It was during these happy weeks when Cynthia Hargreaves, the smartest waitress on staff—she gave the best wine pairing advice of any of the servers—seemed to take an interest in Lars. By this time, he was twenty-eight, growing a pale hairy inner tube around his waist, and already going bald. Even though she had an overbite and the shakes, she was six feet tall and beautiful, and not like a statue or a perfume advertisement, but in a realistic way, like how a truck or a pizza is beautiful at the moment you want it most. This, to Lars, made her feel approachable.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhen she came back to the kitchen, the guys would all openly check her out, but Lars refrained. Instead, he’d look her in the face while he told her things like, “Tell them it’ll be five more minutes on that veal,” and “No, I will not hold the garlic—it’s pesto.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Oh, you can’t make a sauce with just pine nuts, olive oil, basil, and Romano?” she asked.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eHe was a bit impressed that she knew the other ingredients off the top of her head. Maybe he shouldn’t have been, but it just wasn’t the kind of thing he expected people outside a kitchen to know. He knew he must have communicated this to her when he saw how she was smiling back at him knowingly, like he had been caught in the act of something.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Well, you know, I can try,” he said. “But then it’s not pesto, it’s something else.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“How fresh is the basil?” she asked. “Pesto lives or dies by its basil.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eHe admired her decisive way of phrasing that incorrect opinion. It was actually the preparation that determined its quality; proper pesto, he had learned during a previous job at Pronto Ristorante, is made with a mortar and pestle. It makes all the difference.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“It’s two days old,” he said.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Where’d you get it from? St. Paul Farmers’ Market?”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Yeah, from Anna Hlavek.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Oh, you should get it from Ellen Chamberlain. Ellen grows the best basil.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSuch wonderfully erroneous food opinions! This was getting Lars all riled up. Still, in his Minneapolis years, liberated from both his lutefisk stench and its reputation, he’d driven women away due to what they called his “eagerness,” and he couldn’t allow that to happen again.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Oh, she does, now?” he asked her, continuing to work, not looking up at her.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Yeah,” she said, stepping closer to him, trying to keep him engaged. “Anna grows sweet corn in the same plot as her basil. You know what sweet corn does to soil.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eShe had a point, if that were true. “I didn’t know Anna grew sweet corn.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“She doesn’t sell it to the public.” She smiled at him again. “And I’ll tell my customer yes on the garlic-free pesto, anyway.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Why?”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“I want to see you work a little harder back here,” she said.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eHe couldn’t help it—he was in love by the time she left the kitchen—but love made him feel sad and doomed, as usual. What he didn’t know was that she’d suffered through a decade of cool, commitment-phobic men, and Lars’s kindness, but mostly his effusive, overt enthusiasm for her, was at that time exactly what she wanted in a partner.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e • • • \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eCynthia was pregnant, but not showing, by the time they were married in late October 1988. Lars was still a chef at Hutmacher’s, and she was still their most popular waitress, but despite the storybook romance that had flourished within their establishment, the owners refused to shut the restaurant down on a Saturday to host the wedding reception.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eLars’s father, still infuriated that his eldest son had abandoned both the family bakery and the responsibility of supplying lutefisk for thousands of intransigent Scandinavians, boycotted the wedding and refused to support any aspect of it. If Lars was having his mother’s first grandchild, she might have been inspired to help, but instead Elin was already busy with Sigmund’s two kids; naturally, the one brother who’d never made lutefisk in his life had lost his virginity, and fruitfully, by age seventeen.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e • • • \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe couple honeymooned in the Napa Valley, which was still flush from the shocking Judgment of Paris more than a decade earlier and happily maturing into its new volume of wine tourism. Lars had never experienced a wine tasting before, and while her new husband threw back the one-ounce pours, Cynthia consumed everything on the labels, the vineyard tours, and the maps. It was her first trip to California, and even completely sober, her body swooned at the sight of a grapevine and her soul flourished in the jungle of argot: \u003ci\u003evarietal, Brix, rootstock, malolactic fermentation\u003c\/i\u003e. In the rental car, with his eyes closed while trying to sleep off a surfeit of heavy afternoon reds, Lars could feel her smiling as she drove him and their unborn child through the shimmering California hills.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“I love this so much,” she said.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“I love you, too,” he said, though that was not what she meant.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e • • • \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThey’d agreed, if it was a boy, that Lars would name the baby, and if it was a girl, Cynthia would. Eva Louise Thorvald was born two weeks before her due date, on June 2, 1989, coming into the world at an assertive ten pounds, two ounces. When Lars first held her, his heart melted over her like butter on warm bread, and he would never get it back. When mother and baby were asleep in the hospital room, he went out to the parking lot, sat in his Dodge Omni, and cried like a man who had never wanted anything in his life until now.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e • • • \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Let’s give it five or six years before we have another one,” Cynthia said, and got herself an IUD. Lars had been hoping for at least three kids, like in his own family, but he supposed there was time. He tried to impress upon Cynthia the fact that having multiple kids means at least one of them will stick around to make sure that you don’t die alone if you fall in the shower or trip on your basement staircase. He pointed out how after he and Jarl had gotten out of Duluth, their middle brother, Sigmund, had taken over both the bakery and the extraordinary demands of their dying parents, and how that was working out super for everybody. This line of argument was not compelling to his twenty-five-year-old wife. Cynthia wanted to get into wine.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e • • • \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIn the same fashion that a musical parent may curate their child’s exposure to certain songs, Lars had spent weeks plotting a menu for his baby daughter’s first months:\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWeek One\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eNO TEETH, SO:\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e1.Homemade guacamole.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e2.Puréed prunes (do infants like prunes?)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e3.Puréed carrots (Sugarsnax 54, ideally, but more likely Autumn King).\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e4.Puréed beets (Lutz green leaf).\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e5.Homemade Honeycrisp applesauce (get apples from Dennis Wu).\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e6.Hummus (from canned chickpeas? Maybe wait for week 2.)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e7.Olive tapenade (maybe with puréed Cerignola olives? Ask Sherry Dubcek about the best kind of olives for a newborn.)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e8.What for protein and iron?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWeek Two\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSTILL NO TEETH, UNLESS WE’RE IMPROBABLY FORTUNATE, BUT WHAT THE HECK ANYWAY:\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e1.Definitely hummus.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e2.The rest, same as above, until teeth.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWeek Twelve\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eTEETH!\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e1.Pork shoulder (puréed? Or make a pork-based demi-glace?)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e2.Vegetable spaghetti squash. What kid wouldn’t love this? It’ll blow her mind! (How lucky she is to be teething by the start of squash season!)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e3.Osso buco (get veal shanks from Al Norgaard at Hackenmuller’s).\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWeek Sixteen\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eTIME FOR GUILTY PLEASURES!\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e1 small package wild rice\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e2 cups cooked chicken (diced)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e1 can cream of mushroom soup\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e½ can milk\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSalt and pepper\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e¼ cup green pepper, chopped\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eHeat the oven to 350°F. Cook the rice according to the directions. Mix the rice, chicken, cream of mushroom soup, milk, salt and pepper, and green pepper. Place in a greased 2-quart casserole pan. Bake for 30 minutes\u003c\/i\u003e.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e2 cups sugar (maybe use less)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e1½ cups salad oil (find substitute)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e4 eggs\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e2 cups flour\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e2 teaspoons baking soda\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e1 teaspoon salt\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e3 teaspoons cinnamon\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e3 cups shredded carrots\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e1 cup chopped nuts (nut allergy risk?)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e1 teaspoon vanilla\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eHeat the oven to 325°F. Combine the sugar, salad oil, eggs, flour, baking soda, salt, cinnamon, carrots, nuts, and vanilla and pour into a 9-by-13-inch pan. Bake for 45 minutes.\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIcing recipe:\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e¼ pound or ½ cup butter (Grade AA)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e8-ounce package cream cheese\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e3½ cups powdered sugar\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eMix and spread on the cooled carrot cake\u003c\/i\u003e.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis meal plan seemed like a sound strategy to Lars, who remained mindful of what was in season and what had sustained his own family through the long winters in Duluth. His main worry was the chopped nuts in the carrot cake recipe. He’d heard somewhere that a child could get a nut allergy from eating nuts too soon. But how soon was too soon? He had to talk to their obstetrician, Dr. Latch, who had a thick mustache, kind eyes, and what Lars interpreted as a can-do attitude.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIn his office, Dr. Latch listened to Lars’s question and then looked at the young man the way someone might regard a toddler who’s holding a Buck knife.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“You want to feed carrot cake to a four-month-old?” Dr. Latch asked.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Not a lot of carrot cake,” Lars said. “I mean, a small portion. A baby portion. I’m just concerned about the nuts in the recipe. I mean, I guess I could make it without nuts. But my mom always made it with nuts. What do you think?”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Eighteen months. At the earliest. Probably wait until age two to be safe.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“I could be wrong, but I remember my younger siblings eating carrot cake really young. There’s a picture of my brother Jarl on the day he turned one. They gave him a little carrot cake and he smeared it in his hair.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“That’s the best outcome in that situation, probably.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Well, now he’s bald.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Looking over your dietary plan here, I’d have more immediate reservations.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Like what?”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Well, pork shoulder to a three-month-old baby. Not advisable.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Puréed, maybe?” Lars asked. “I could braise it first. Or maybe just roast the bones and make pork stock for a demi-glace. That wouldn’t be my first choice, though.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“You work at Hutmacher’s, right?” Dr. Latch said. “You do make an excellent pork shoulder. But give it at least two years.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Two years, huh?” He didn’t want to tell Dr. Latch that this conversation crushed his heart, but the doctor seemed to perceive this.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“I understand your eagerness to share your life’s passion with your first child. I see different versions of this all the time. The time will come. For now, just breast milk and formula for the first three months.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“That’s awful,” Lars said.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Maybe for you,” Dr. Latch said. “But your daughter is going to be monstrously satisfied with this diet. Trust me. Now, I’m going to refer you to the most vigilant pediatrician I know.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e • • • \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBack at their apartment in St. Paul, lugging all of the unfamiliar baby gear out of their car, Lars was grateful they could afford a place with an elevator. While waiting for the doors to open, he saw the building’s lightly used concrete stairway, which he’d climbed a few times over the years for exercise. Feeling the straps of a diaper bag dig into his shoulder and the plastic handle of the portable baby seat against his palm, he guessed he might never use it again.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e • • • \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhen they weren’t sleeping, trying to sleep, or holding their newborn daughter, Lars and Cynthia were usually in the kitchen. Lars didn’t want to take his eyes off of his beautiful girl for a minute, so he kept her strapped in the baby seat on the counter.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Don’t you think it might be dangerous to have her in here?” Cynthia asked him the second night, while chopping garlic and parsley for an Alfredo sauce.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“That doctor can take away her right to eat,” Lars said. “But she should still be around the smells. Next best thing, you know.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Yeah. Smelling a bunch of food she can’t eat. It’s probably frustrating the hell out of her.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Well, this is where we are, and I want her with us.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“I don’t know, putting a baby in a room full of knives and boiling water.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Where would you like her to be?”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eCynthia shook her head. “Somewhere else.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eLars turned and looked at Eva, who was wearing a pink stocking cap for warmth, and mittens so she wouldn’t scratch her own face with her tiny fingernails. He didn’t ever intend to stare at her for such long stretches; it would just happen. When their eyes met, bam, there went five minutes. Or twenty.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eCynthia tapped him on the shoulder.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Water’s ready for the pasta.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Where’s the fettuccine?” he asked her, opening the fridge.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eShe took a green Creamette box out from the lazy Susan by his feet. “I figured we’d try this brand. It was on sale.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“I remember when we used to make our own pasta. I guess those days are over.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Thank God,” Cynthia said. “What a pain in the ass.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e • • • \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eCynthia was still twenty-five, and bounced back to her skinny frame with color in her cheeks and bigger boobs, while Lars just grew balder and fatter and slower. He had learned, before she was pregnant, that he had to hold her hand or touch her in some way while they walked places together, so that other men knew they were a couple. Now that she was the mother of his daughter, he was even more wary, snarling at passing dudes with confident Tom Selleck mustaches and cool Bon Jovi hair. Cynthia, pushing a stroller as they perused the winter farmers’ markets, didn’t mind Lars’s hulking shadow or the expressions he’d snap at ogling perverts; she was mostly just happy that she could drink again.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e • • • \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“They’re looking for a new sommelier at Hutmacher’s,” Cynthia said one morning, while Lars was changing Eva’s diaper. Cynthia’s sensitive nose couldn’t handle the smell of her daughter’s poop, but for Lars, after a decade of making lutefisk, it was easier than flipping an omelet.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“It’s only been a month,” Lars said. “They said you could have three.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“They said I could come back after three. It’s not like they’re paying me maternity leave.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Then take the full three. We have savings.” This was not true, after the hospital bills, but Lars didn’t want Cynthia to worry about all that.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“I know, but I’m going batshit here. It’s the middle of summer and I can’t do anything useful outside with that kid strapped on me. And I can’t stand what’s on TV in the afternoons. And I can’t get more than twenty pages through a book before she starts wailing.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“So you want to go back to work early?”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“I’ve been thinking about it, and I bet we can work out a schedule so that one of us is always home. 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