{"product_id":"i-didnt-know-i-needed-this-the-new-rules-for-flirting-feeling-and-finding-yourself-isbn-9780063298477","title":"I Didn't Know I Needed This: The New Rules for Flirting, Feeling, and Finding Yourself","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e**A \u003ci\u003ePublisher's Weekly\u003c\/i\u003e Bestseller**\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eFrom TikTok star Eli Rallo, an irreverent, laugh-out-loud funny, and searingly honest guide to modern dating and romance with tips, tricks, and survival-guide style rules.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eI Didn’t Know I Needed This\u003c\/i\u003e is a masterclass in self-love and the dose of confidence every girl needs to live their life on their own terms. Eli Rallo is a social media superstar, a Carrie Bradshaw for the TikTok age, a true romantic at heart, and the best friend every young woman wishes she had. As someone who prides herself in feeling fully and deeply, Eli is on the ride with you, kissing the frogs, sending (and deleting) the risky DMs, climbing down frat house gutters, making the friends you’ll have for life, all while finding love and falling in love with yourself and learning that everything will be alright. In this book of dating advice for women, Eli takes an earnest and vulnerable look at what it’s really like to date in the modern world of dating apps, rotating rosters, and social media snafus, giving her rules for each stage of the game—tried and true tricks of the trade.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eI Didn't Know I Needed This\u003c\/i\u003e follows the natural lifecycle of dating, starting with being single, flirting, and navigating the apps to going on dates, having sex, falling in love, and managing relationships, to finally dealing with heartbreak, finding closure, prioritizing your friends, and honoring your life. Discover the rules that have worked for her, and garnered her more than a half million TikTok followers:\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eprep for a first date like an athlete before a big game\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003etry a person out in different settings before committing to them\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eplan the second date while you’re out on the first\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003efind your perfect “eff me sweater”\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eflirt with your partner, no matter how long you’ve been together\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003egive yourself a set mourning period to wallow after a breakup, and then stick to it\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ealways (always!) communicate your needs, wants, desires, and boundaries\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003efind little ways to love your life and treat yourself\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003eWith touching stories of her own adventures and mishaps, Eli helps you navigate dating in a way that’s frank, honest, funny, and relatable, giving the advice that you didn’t even know you needed.\u003c\/p\u003e | \u003cp\u003e“Eli Rallo’s debut is not to be missed. Her writing is fresh, funny, and honest. \u003cem\u003eI Didn’t Know I Needed\u003c\/em\u003e this will be a bible to those navigating the sticky, confusing, and often accidentally hilarious world of modern dating.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eTara Schuster, author of Glow in the F*cking Dark and Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Funny, charming, and real, \u003cem\u003eI Didn't Know I Needed This\u003c\/em\u003e is the book every young woman definitely needs. Like a wise, compassionate, and highly entertaining big sister, Eli takes lessons she learned the hard (and often hilarious) way about navigating modern relationships and gaining self-worth, cutting through the confusion, and saying: You are more than enough, and it will all be okay.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eLori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk To Someone and co-host of the Dear Therapists podcast\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003e\"I Didn’t Know I Needed This\u003c\/em\u003e is exactly what you’re hoping it will be—compulsively readable, hugely helpful, and deeply relatable. 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