{"product_id":"how-to-forget-a-daughters-memoir-isbn-9780062846839","title":"How to Forget: A Daughter’s Memoir","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e“This is a masterfully crafted memoir, an elegant tour de\u003cbr\u003eforce that firmly establishes Mulgrew as a writer of significant literary\u003cbr\u003eendowment. The soulmate to Frank McCourt’s \u003cem\u003eAngela’s Ashes\u003c\/em\u003e,\u003cem\u003e How to Forget\u003c\/em\u003e, despite the promise of its title, cannot be\u003cbr\u003eforgotten or ignored.” —Augusten Burroughs, author of \u003cem\u003eRunning with Scissors\u003c\/em\u003e and \u003cem\u003eToil\u003cbr\u003e\u0026amp; Trouble \u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eIn this profoundly honest and examined memoir about returning to Iowa to care for her ailing parents, the star of\u003cem\u003e Orange Is the New Black\u003c\/em\u003e and bestselling author of \u003cem\u003eBorn with Teeth\u003c\/em\u003e takes us on an unexpected journey of loss, betrayal, and the transcendent nature of a daughter’s love for her parents.\u003c\/strong\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThey say you can’t go home again. But when her father is diagnosed with aggressive lung cancer and her mother with atypical Alzheimer’s, New York-based actress Kate Mulgrew returns to her hometown in Iowa to spend time with her parents and care for them in the time they have left.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe months Kate spends with her parents in Dubuque—by turns turbulent, tragic, and joyful—lead her to reflect on each of their lives and how they shaped her own. Those ruminations are transformed when, in the wake of their deaths, Kate uncovers long-kept secrets that challenge her understanding of the unconventional Irish Catholic household in which she was raised.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBreathtaking and powerful, laced with the author’s irreverent wit,\u003cem\u003e How to Forget\u003c\/em\u003e is a considered portrait of a mother and a father, an emotionally powerful memoir that demonstrates how love fuses children and parents, and an honest examination of family, memory, and indelible loss.\u003c\/p\u003e | \u003cp\u003e“Mulgrew, an actress best known for \u003cem\u003eStar Trek: Voyager\u003c\/em\u003e and \u003cem\u003eOrange Is the New Black\u003c\/em\u003e, plays her best role: as herself. This is no Hollywood tell-all, but a moving personal story about her family, in particular her aging parents, whom she cared for as they faced terminal illnesses.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eWashington Post\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“This is a passionate book by a passionate writer. Overflowing with the true terrors of family life, with the fight for love and connection and understanding, with an amazing American story of hope and disappointment, sorrow and roots, this memoir will electrify readers and become a part of what we know about who we are.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eAnne Roiphe, journalist, novelist, and author of the memoir 1185 Park Avenue\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Kate Mulgrew is a brilliant actor, which does not conceal her brilliance with the pen. This memoir, \u003cem\u003eHow to Forget\u003c\/em\u003e, plunges you into familiar, familial depths of death, disease, and despair, only to pull you up again with a bawdy laugh. Death, disease, and despair are not walls for Mulgrew, but they are steps towards the sunlight of serenity. Read and cry, read and laugh, read and remember \u003cem\u003eHow to\u003c\/em\u003e \u003cem\u003eForget\u003c\/em\u003e.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eMalachy McCourt, author of Death Need Not Be Fatal\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Candid and intimate. . . . A detailed and searing portrait of a family facing the inevitability of death.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003ePublishers Weekly\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“A rich, eloquent, and emotionally complex portrait of parent-child bonds and a colorful, unforgettable family. . . . [A] candid and moving memoir.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eKirkus Reviews\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Mulgrew has written a finely detailed memoir that brings [her parents], ever so briefly and only on its pages, back to life. . . . It’s the achingly unique particulars of the relationships between the author, her five brothers and sisters, and their parents that make this book stand out.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eProvidence Journal\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Though both sections of Mulgrew’s memoir build to painful goodbyes, \u003cem\u003eHow to Forget \u003c\/em\u003eis more than just a sad play-by-play of illness and decline. It’s a beautiful portrait of a daughter’s love for her parents, packed with sharp, amusing recollections, all told with love.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eNew York Times\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“[An] engrossing story of a daughter’s love, told with brutal honesty.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eBooklist\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“A darkly unsettling and unvarnished post-mortem of one fractured, complicated American family that will feel deeply, even painfully, familiar to some and shockingly, fascinatingly alien to others, but its emotional power is universally compelling. This is a masterfully crafted memoir, an elegant tour de force that firmly establishes Mulgrew as a writer of significant literary endowment. 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