{"product_id":"how-to-deal-with-your-so-your-kids-dont-have-to-isbn-9781632176172","title":"How to Deal with Your ____ So Your Kids Don't Have to:An Encyclopedia for Ditching Your Emotional Baggage","description":"\u003cb\u003eA practical roadmap for anyone determined to parent differently than they were raised. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eBecause our kids can feel what we don't heal.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThe \u003cu\u003eone book\u003c\/u\u003e you wish your parents had, and your children will be glad you read. \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eHealing from your own upbringing is hard enough—but how do you do that work while being the parent you wish you had?\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eIn this potent resource for parents and parents-to-be, licensed therapist and educator Eli Harwood targets the feelings, mindsets, and habits that often sabotage our parenting. Organized alphabetically by growth areas—many of which are symptoms of an insecure or traumatic past—this book provides punchy guidance to heal from things like:  \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003edealing with anger and anxiety\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eour relationship with body image\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eour tendency for people-pleasing and comparing ourselves (and our kids)\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e...so our kids don't have to.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThis book will help you heal yourself in order to become the best parent you can be. | ”This beautiful book will give you the inspiration and tools you want to become the connected parent your children need.”\u003ci\u003e \u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003e—\u003c\/i\u003eDr. Shefali Tsabary, author of\u003ci\u003e The Conscious Parent\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e“This book is a lifeline. Honest, practical, and deeply compassionate, Eli Harwood shows us how to heal ourselves so we can raise the next generation with more love and less baggage.”\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003e\u003cbr\u003e—\u003c\/i\u003eKristin Gallant, co-founder of\u003ci\u003e Big Little Feelings \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e“\u003ci\u003eRaising Securely Attached Kids\u003c\/i\u003e is one of my favorite parenting books to recommend, and Eli does it again. Parenting isn’t just about your child—it’s also about you, and clearing the emotional baggage that gets in the way of connection. This book gives you the insight and tools to get out of your own way and build the secure relationships every child deserves.”\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003e\u003cbr\u003e—\u003c\/i\u003eDr. Mona, pediatrician and creator of \u003ci\u003ePedsDocTalk\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e”Reading this book felt like sitting at the kitchen table with a wise friend. As a therapist and a dad, I trust this book. I found myself underlining lines, pausing to breathe, then trying a small change with my kids the same day. The whole tone invites you to keep showing up without shame. In every chapter you’ll find a next step, a kind reframe, a way to try again. If you’re trying to break cycles and build a sturdier bond with your kids, this is the book I’ll be handing you. Warm, practical, hopeful.”\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003e\u003cbr\u003e—\u003c\/i\u003eMatthias Barker, LMHC and founder of Estrangement.com\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\"The upbeat tone is the work’s strongest element; no matter how potentially dark a topic is, Harwood is quick to remind readers that they aren’t as helpless as they might feel. An enthusiastic and involving guide to helping yourself so that you can help others.\" \u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003e—Kirkus Reviews\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e | ELI HARWOOD, MA, LPC is a licensed therapist, bestselling author, and highly sought-after educator who has almost two decades of experience helping people develop secure connections with their children. She is on a mission to help make the world a better place, one relationship at a time. She is the author of \u003ci\u003eSecurely Attached \u003c\/i\u003eas well as \u003ci\u003eRaising Securely Attached Kids\u003c\/i\u003e. Eli has three children, one husband, two cats, and an extraordinary number of plants. Learn more about her work at AttachmentNerd.com.","brand":"Sasquatch Books","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":48759466295525,"sku":"NP9781632176172","price":29.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/1842\/7735\/files\/9781632176172.jpg?v=1775598655","url":"https:\/\/k12savings.com\/products\/how-to-deal-with-your-so-your-kids-dont-have-to-isbn-9781632176172","provider":"K12savings","version":"1.0","type":"link"}