{"product_id":"how-long-does-it-hurt-isbn-9780787975692","title":"How Long Does It Hurt?","description":"\u003ci\u003eHow Long Does It Hurt?\u003c\/i\u003e is the revised and updated edition of the best-selling book written by an incest survivor for future survivors. This step-by-step guide speaks directly to victims of sexual abuse¾to help them come to grips with what is happening to them and overcome their feelings of isolation, confusion, and self-doubt. \u003cp\u003eThank you xi\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eForeword xiii\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003ePreface to the First Edition xv\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003ePreface to the Revised Edition xvii\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003ePart One The Hurting Begins\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e1. You’re Not Alone 3\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e2. Is What Happened Really Abuse? 13\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e3. 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What Friends of Victims Should Know 218\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e16. What Some Survivors Would Like You to Know 234\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eNotes 249\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eBibliography 251\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eIndex 255\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe Authors 267\u003c\/p\u003e  \t  \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eTHE AUTHORS\u003c\/b\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eCYNTHIA L. MATHER\u003c\/b\u003e is a survivor of sexual abuse and incest, and speaks at schools, colleges, and churches across the country about child and teenage sexual abuse treatment and prevention. \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eKRISTINA E. DEBYE\u003c\/b\u003e, L.C.S.W.C., A.C.S.W., D.C.S.W., is coordinator of the nationally acclaimed Baltimore County Sexual Abuse Treatment Program and maintains a private practice in Maryland.\t   \t \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eHow Long Does It Hurt?\u003c\/b\u003e\t \t \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eHow Long Does It Hurt? is the revised and updated edition of the best-selling book written by an incest survivor for future survivors. This step-by-step guide speaks directly to victims of sexual abuse—to help them come to grips with what is happening to them and overcome their feelings of isolation, confusion, and self-doubt. \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003ePRAISE FOR THE FIRST EDITION OF\u003c\/b\u003e HOW LONG DOES IT HURT?\t \t \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\"Excellent! Unique! Worthwhile! . . .Addresses an exhaustive range of issues pertinent to sexual abuse survivors and does so in a manner that is dynamic, engaging, and straightforward.\" \t\u003cb\u003e\t—Family Violence and Sexual Assault Bulletin\u003c\/b\u003e  \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\"How Long Does It Hurt? fully achieves its claim as a guide to recovering from incest and sexual abuse for teenagers, their friends, and their families and will likely fulfill the authors' wish that teens will learn that they are not alone and can successfully continue on from the pain.\" \t\u003cb\u003e\t—The University of Kansas, Journal of Pediatric Psychology\u003c\/b\u003e  \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\"The most helpful aspects of the book are the case examples and testimonials of vic tims. Especially useful are the personalized descriptions of possible reactions in self or from others and the accompanying message to have the strength and courage to find a way to recover despite the obstacles.\" \t\u003cb\u003e\t—Violence and Victims\u003c\/b\u003e\t \t \t \t   \"Excellent! Unique! 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