{"product_id":"get-off-your-but-isbn-9780470399934","title":"Get Off Your \"But\"","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eA hands-on guide for overcoming the forces of negativity and self-sabotage\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eWritten for the active, not passive participant, this book offers an inspiring program for overcoming big bumps in the road, eliminating excuses, ending insecurities, and standing up for happiness and success in life. Based on the author's personal story, clinical training and work as a therapist, and extensive experience speaking and teaching, \u003ci\u003eGet Off Your \"But\"\u003c\/i\u003e shows how to overcome excuses for emotional paralysis, build self-confidence at work and at home, and achieve a higher level of success in career and relationships.\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eAcknowledgments vii\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eForeword by Anthony Robbins ix\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eBorn to Kick BUT: The Short Story of a Big Life 1\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eLesson 1 Start Connecting 34\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHow Rene Got Off His BUT 64\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eLesson 2 Watch What You Say to Yourself! 70\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHow Bobby Got Off His BUT 97\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eLesson 3 Master Your Physical Confidence 103\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHow Andréa Got Off Her BUT 132\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eLesson 4 Focus Your Focus 138\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHow Mike Got Off His BUT 159\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eLesson 5 Choose Your Friends Wisely 164\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHow Peter Got Off His BUT 188\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eLesson 6 Take Full Responsibility 193\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eOne Last Thing . . . 220\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eResources 221\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe Author 225\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e In Stephenson’s powerful and practical debut, the psychotherapist and professional speaker reveals how to banish self-doubt and insecurity in a world where they may seem omnipresent. Beginning with the source of his own struggle, a rare and painful disease that causes his bones to weaken and break under minimal pressure, Stephenson offers a structured approach to a wide array of topics, including dating, weight loss, lack of motivation, friendship, finances, and goals. While his advice is encouraging and insightful, Stephenson’s text is also notable for examples, mottos and resonant personal stories of enormous obstacles and accomplishments (his work with the Clinton administration, attaining his Ph.D., opening his own private practice). Though his unwavering optimism can be daunting (bringing one’s day-to-day gripes into sharp relief), Stephenson is empowering and uplifting throughout, and should prove helpful whether facing a lifelong challenge or a more immediate battle. \u003ci\u003e(May)\u003c\/i\u003e (\u003ci\u003ePublishersWeekly.com\u003c\/i\u003e, May 18, 2009) \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eSean Clinch Stephenson\u003c\/b\u003e is one of the leading authorities on the deconstruction of self-sabotage (what he calls getting people off their BUTs). A psychotherapist and internationally known professional speaker, he publishes audio and video programs from his online site TimeToStand.com and has a private psychotherapy practice.\u003c\/p\u003e  \u003cp\u003e“Sean is an amazing person with an important message.” \u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e—President Bill Clinton\u003c\/b\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Sean Stephenson is the Yoda of personal development, with less pointy ears.”\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e—Jimmy Kimmel,\u003c\/b\u003e host of ABC’s \u003ci\u003eJimmy Kimmel Live\u003c\/i\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“As we struggle with inertia to become the best that we can be, Sean Stephenson’s book informs and inspires us to stand up and keep moving forward. Thank you, Sean, for your life, your work, and your abundant sharing.”\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e—Ken Blanchard,\u003c\/b\u003e coauthor, \u003ci\u003eThe One Minute Manager \u003c\/i\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Sean Stephenson is a hero to me. When you read his book, he will be a hero to you as well.  His moving stories about himself and others who have found the gifts in their pain will teach you so much about courage and, just as important, you will learn how to build your own sense of confidence when it comes to health, career, relationships, and more. Do yourself a favor \u003ci\u003eread this book!”\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e—Susan Jeffers,\u003c\/b\u003e Ph.D., author, \u003ci\u003eFeel the Fear and Do It Anyway\u003csup\u003e®\u003c\/sup\u003e \u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003eEmbracing Uncertainty\u003c\/i\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIn addition to presenting Sean Stephenson’s unbelievable life story, \u003ci\u003eGet Off Your “ But,” \u003c\/i\u003eoffers anyone who needs to conquer fears and insecurities a hands-on guide for overcoming the forces of negativity and self-sabotage. Sean—a successful psychotherapist—shows what it takes to overcome the big bumps in the road, eliminate excuses, end insecurities, and ultimately stand up for happiness and success in life. As Sean explains, anyone can fall victim to the “Buts”: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e“But” Fears \u003c\/b\u003e(BUT what if I fail …)\u003cbr\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e“But” Insecurities\u003c\/b\u003e (BUT I’m not good enough …)\u003cbr\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e“But” Excuses \u003c\/b\u003e(BUT there’s no time …) \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eGet Off Your “But” \u003c\/i\u003eoffers a practical guide for putting fear behind you and building the inner resources to become self-confident at work and at home. It’s time to get off your “but” and start leading the life you dream.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Jossey-Bass","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":47989286797541,"sku":"NP9780470399934","price":19.95,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/1842\/7735\/files\/9780470399934.jpg?v=1761783523","url":"https:\/\/k12savings.com\/products\/get-off-your-but-isbn-9780470399934","provider":"K12savings","version":"1.0","type":"link"}