{"product_id":"find-your-unicorn-space-isbn-9780593328033","title":"Find Your Unicorn Space","description":"\u003cb\u003eFrom the \u003ci\u003eNew York Times\u003c\/i\u003e bestselling author of \u003ci\u003eFair Play\u003c\/i\u003e and \"the Marie Kondo of relationships\" comes an inspirational guide for setting new personal goals, rediscovering your interests, cultivating creativity, and reclaiming your Unicorn Space.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eWith her acclaimed \u003ci\u003eNew York Times\u003c\/i\u003e bestseller (and Reese’s Book Club pick) \u003ci\u003eFair Play\u003c\/i\u003e, Eve Rodsky began a national conversation and launched a movement toward greaterequality on the home front. But she soon realized that even when the domestic workloadbecame more balanced, women were still reporting dissatisfaction in their lives—that is,unless they used the precious time they carved out for activities that filled not just theircalendar but also their soul.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eRodsky calls this vital time our “Unicorn Space”—the active pursuit of creative selfexpressiondoing the thing that makes you uniquely YOU. To help readers embrace allthe unlikely, surprising, and delightful places where their own Unicorn Space may befound, she speaks with thought leaders and countless real women who have discoveredtheirs everywhere—from activism to artistic endeavors to second careers. Rodsky revealswhat researchers already know: Creativity is not optional. It’s essential. Though most ofus do need to remind ourselves how (and where) to find it.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eWith her trademark mix of how-to advice and big-picture inspirational thinking, Rodskyshows us a clear plan to reclaim the lost art of having fun, manifest your own UnicornSpace in an already too-busy life, and unleash your talents into the world.One of \u003ci\u003eUSA TODAY\u003c\/i\u003e’s 5 Books Not to Miss\u003cbr\u003eOne of \u003ci\u003eReal Simple\u003c\/i\u003e's Best Finance Books of 2022\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Magnificent! Eve Rodsky illuminates the importance of investing in the creative pursuits that make your life more deeply fulfilling.” \u003cb\u003e—Reese Witherspoon\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Teaches us to prioritize time for things that fill us up...essential.” \u003cb\u003e—\u003ci\u003eVanity Fair\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Raise your hand if your creativity has been put on the back burner during the pandemic?! *Slowly raises hand.* Eve Rodsky's \u003ci\u003eFind Your Unicorn Space: Reclaim Your Creative Life in a Too-Busy World\u003c\/i\u003e couldn't be more relevant as the \u003ci\u003eFair Play\u003c\/i\u003e author helps readers channel their most creative selves while living within a seemingly endless hustle culture—even during a pandemic.” \u003cb\u003e—\u003ci\u003eMarie Claire\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Whatever pursuit you choose, Rodsky argues that Unicorn Space is crucial to decreasing the chance of burnout in your career. Your well-being and wallet depend on it.” \u003cb\u003e—\u003ci\u003eReal Simple\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Overburdened women are issued a ‘permission slip’ to explore their creativity in this energizing invitation by Rodsky (\u003ci\u003eFair Play\u003c\/i\u003e) to pursue passion projects…Whimsical design details and plentiful stories round out an attractive package. It would make for a welcome gift passed around the late-night PTA crowd.” \u003cb\u003e—\u003ci\u003ePublishers Weekly\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Rodsky's       friendly tone is encouraging and reassuring to readers trying to relocate       their life’s spark and the time to pursue it.” \u003cb\u003e—\u003ci\u003eBooklist\u003c\/i\u003e \u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e“Thank goodness Eve Rodsky had the courage, talent, and support to give herself permission to pursue \u003ci\u003eher\u003c\/i\u003e unicorn space–in which she is dedicating a big chunk of her life to helping people discover their own distinctive path in a way that brings real value to their families, their work, their communities, and themselves. We can all benefit from the super-practical, hard-won, and so-clearly-attuned-to-the-moment wisdom described and powerfully illustrated in \u003ci\u003eFind Your Unicorn Space\u003c\/i\u003e.” \u003cb\u003e\u003cb\u003e—\u003c\/b\u003eStew Friedman, author of \u003ci\u003eTotal Leadership\u003c\/i\u003e and founding director of both the Wharton Work\/Life Integration Project and the Wharton Leadership Program\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “Eve Rodsky urges women to give themselves ‘permission to be unavailable’ to pursue passions, goals, and dreams outside of work, family and other obligations. Backed by science and full of personal insights, Rodsky shows us how to create important time and space for ourselves so that we can truly thrive in all aspects of our lives.” \u003cb\u003e—Arianna Huffington, Founder \u0026amp; CEO, Thrive Global\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \"This book is the definitive, how-to guide to reclaim your innate creativity right in the middle of everyday life. It will awaken a sense of wonder and possibility within you that you didn’t know existed! There’s so much wisdom, humor, and truth in these pages. We need this now more than ever!\" \u003cb\u003e—Dr Aditi Nerurkar, MD MPH Physician, speaker \u0026amp; medical contributor\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “Unicorns are real. Eve’s work is research-based and heart filled. \u003ci\u003eFind Your Unicorn Space\u003c\/i\u003e arms us with tools to snatch our magic back.” \u003cb\u003e—Robin Arzon, author of \u003c\/b\u003e\u003ci\u003e\u003cb\u003eShut Up and Run\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e \u003cbr\u003e \"In a world that is telling us to do it all and be it all, Eve proposes a radical answer—bring forth more of \u003ci\u003eyou\u003c\/i\u003e. In \u003ci\u003eFind Your Unicorn Space\u003c\/i\u003e, Eve brilliantly shares with us the toolbox for how to do just that, and, along the way, gives us permission to breathe life back into ourselves.\" \u003cb\u003e—Dr. Pooja Lakshmin MD, psychiatrist \u0026amp; author, clinical assistant professor of psychiatry at George Washington University School of Medicine\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “Eve Rodsky has given us an important ritual for safe-guarding our finite time so that we can nurture our most important relationship—the one with ourselves. And it starts with giving ourselves permission to be authentic and real and to pursue the things in our lives that make us feel most like ourselves.” \u003cb\u003e—Erica Keswin, Workplace Strategist and author of \u003ci\u003eBring Your Human to Work\u003c\/i\u003e and \u003c\/b\u003e\u003ci\u003e\u003cb\u003eRituals Roadmap\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \"If you want to avoid burning out--physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually--read this gem of a book from the one and only Eve Rodsky. You are as unique as a unicorn, and you need the space to express that.\" \u003cb\u003e--Greg McKeown, author of \u003ci\u003eEffortless\u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003eEssentialism\u003c\/i\u003e and the host of the What’s Essential podcast\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003e \u003c\/b\u003e\u003cb\u003eEve Rodsky\u003c\/b\u003e received her B.A. from the University of Michigan, and her J.D. from Harvard Law School. After working in foundation management at J.P. Morgan, she founded the Philanthropy Advisory Group to advise families and charitable foundations on best practices. Rodsky was raised by a single mom in New York City and now lives in Los Angeles with her husband and their three children.\u003cb\u003e1\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eUnleash Your Unicorn\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003ci\u003e\u003cb\u003eEmbracing the Power of \"the Pause\" to Commit to Creativity\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eConsider: The Case of the Bad Tinder Date\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eI was visiting my cousin Jessica at Stanz Cafe in Larchmont, New York. As we were digging into a shared plate of avocado toast, the conversation turned toward her new dating life.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"I've started swiping right,\" she admitted.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"Really?\" I said with a near mouthful. \"You're ready, then?\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eJessica's life took an unexpected turn when her husband had a catastrophic stroke at the age of thirty-seven. After Jessica served as caretaker to her husband for seven years to reach a full recovery, while also juggling the needs of their two young kids single-handedly and working a full-time job, their marriage ultimately dissolved, albeit amicably.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"It's been a year since the divorce,\" said Jessica, \"and I'm proud of myself for all I've been able to do on my own, but\u003cbr\u003etruthfully\"-she paused-\"I don't want to keep doing it all alone. So, yeah, I think I'm ready.\" She nodded assuredly.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"Okay, then,\" I encouraged, \"show me who's made the cut.\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eJessica took out her phone, tapped on the Tinder app, and scrolled until she landed on Andy. \"Read his profile,\" she said, handing me her phone.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eAndy had a clean yet intentionally disheveled kind of mountain man look. His smile appeared genuine, and his interests were listed as follows: adventure, travel, and cooking.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"He sounds amazing,\" I enthused. \"He lists 'adventure' as one of his top values. That's totally you.\" When we were younger, I'd nicknamed my cousin Jessica \"Adventure\" Cohen, because she didn't have a given middle name and because she saved all of her waitressing tip money to climb Mount Kilimanjaro, explore Machu Picchu, and visit the Choeung Ek memorial in Cambodia.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"\u003ci\u003eWas\u003c\/i\u003e totally me,\" Jessica corrected.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"And look at this,\" I continued. \"His favorite quote is your favorite quote: Vivian Greene's 'Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass. It's about learning to dance in the rain.' I mean, c'mon, the guy loves adventure \u003ci\u003eand\u003c\/i\u003e inspirational quotes?\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eJessica sighed and leaned in. \"I know, but we already went on one date, and it's not going to work out.\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"Oh my God. Tell me,\" I said a little too loudly, attracting the attention of the full table next to ours.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"Well,\" she confided, \"it was a sort of disaster. Ten minutes into our dinner, he asks me, 'What do you do for fun?' Can you imagine?\" Jessica rolled her eyes.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eI clearly felt her exasperation but didn't similarly share it. Why was his question so offensive to her? I challenged: \"What's wrong with a little fun?\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eHer eyes widened. \"Who past the age of twenty asks that question? Really, who has time for fun when you're raising kids and juggling a career and taking the dogs to the freaking vet? I had no 'fun' answer for him, so I ended the date early.\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eI well understood the challenge she was describing, as a working mother with tiny humans underfoot in my own home. Still, fun is not exclusively reserved for Gen Z. Or single people without jobs or pets. Is it?\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"Jessica . . .\" I straightened and said in my firm but loving voice, \"you of all people deserve to rediscover what brings you joy, and you must make time for it.\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eShe gave me the finger and handed me the bill.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003e***\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eOn the flight back to Los Angeles, I gave the Case of the Bad Tinder Date some thought. Andy's \"what do you do for fun\" approach to life seemed like the right antidote for Jessica's malaise. She could definitely use some fun, some time and space for herself. A new adventure. A little less responsibility. A little more joy. How could I help her?\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eWithout a clear answer, I spent the next hour occupying myself by clicking on random YouTube videos. And that's when I discovered Shige-boh. Uncertain as to how I'd navigated there, I landed on a video of elderly Japanese men and women unselfconsciously, super earnestly \"busting\" hip-hop dance moves in of-the-moment urban streetwear. \u003ci\u003eWhat is this?\u003c\/i\u003e I couldn't help but break into an ear-to-ear grin at these seniors' jubilant faces, accompanied by CNN anchor Mayu Yoshida's deadpan reporting:\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003ci\u003eHip-hop dance lessons for seniors are popping up across Tokyo. This group calls themselves the Senior Monsters. They are part of the latest health craze that proves you are never too old to bust a move.\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eNever too old, indeed. Yoshida introduced a seventy-two-year-old man named Shige-boh, who demonstrated the complicated footwork of traditional street dance. \u003ci\u003eHe's good! \u003c\/i\u003eHe explained in English, \"I started dancing to hip-hop after I retired. Six months after I started learning hip-hop, I went on a show. It was a bit embarrassing at first, but I invited my family. It was an unforgettable moment. I am very happy when I'm dancing.\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003ci\u003eI get it.\u003c\/i\u003e I'm very happy when I'm dancing, too. I rewound my own mental tape twenty-five years to when I practiced my own moves, with great enthusiasm, in front of the television in my mom's cramped New York apartment. At fourteen, my cousin Jessica and I were obsessed with the\u003ci\u003e In Living Color \u003c\/i\u003eFly Girls. Our \u003ci\u003eonly \u003c\/i\u003efuture ambition was to become one of them, and we spent hours after school each day choreographing dances in the little space between the television and the sofa. This continued until our hardworking moms and well-meaning school guidance counselors delivered the memo that a sounder plan for our future was required. I kicked off my gold-glitter sneakers and put dance on the back burner in favor of a more traditional professional track-college, law school, mom to three kids. My cousin Jessica, similarly, followed suit.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eBut to this day, my passion for dance has not waned. Just ask my children, who groan with exaggerated embarrassment when I do the running man while brushing my teeth, flash jazz hands while packing their school lunches, or bust a move as I'm folding the laundry: \u003ci\u003eMom, pleassssssse stop!!!\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eMy husband, Seth, on the other hand, gets a kick out of my clumsy choreography, goading me into a dance routine when we're out with friends (following a couple of glasses of wine, it happens). After all, it was our shared love for hip-hop when we met more than fifteen years ago that initially clarified for us both that we were perfectly matched.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eWatching the Senior Monsters on the flight home, I had a full-circle moment. Jessica's bad date has an important lesson for us. I pulled out my journal and frantically started writing. \"Life is a series of storms. As we get older, they tend to be more frequent. Taking time to have 'fun' is how we weather them. The storms will keep coming,  so we must learn to DANCE IN THE RAIN!\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eI could hardly wait to share this connection with Jessica. The next morning, with my kids running in circles around me, frantically searching for backpacks and lost shoes, I forwarded the video to Jessica with a note: \"MUST WATCH.\" Ten minutes later, just as I was racing out the door with my two older boys for the school drop-off routine (while balancing their lunches, my laptop, an overstuffed tote, and my car keys in hand), she wrote back: \"Is Shige-boh single?\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eI responded with an LOL and added: \"I think you might be too late and too young for Shige-boh, but there's no expiration date to having a little fun. Pull out your dancing shoes, cuz. It's time to start dancing in the rain.\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eCreative Time Is Not Optional\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eI know my cousin and I are not the only people to look up from their busy lives and realize we've left some of our youthful dreaming and passion behind. You might feel it, too. What does your heart sing for? What does your body crave? What piques your curiosity? What does your intellect yearn for? What did you give up that you want to get back to?\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eDo you want to return to school? Pick up an instrument? Learn another language? Go to circus camp? Climb a mountain? Perfect your Cantonese cooking? Or maybe just carve out some quiet time to paint? What's your version of hip-hop dance?\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eTo be clear, I'm not talking about identifying or returning to a hobby. Let's just retire that word right now. In an article in the Harvard Business Review, hobby was defined broadly to be \"the intentional, purposeful use of the time you do have for yourself (however short that window may be).\" Unfortunately, as many women well know, a hobby is generally regarded as a superfluous nice-to-have that only comes into play after all the more important check marks in one's already time-constrained life are ticked off.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eAnd while we're at it, let's also throw the term vanity project into the wastebasket, too. The vanity project is, typically, a gendered term that refers to unpaid pursuits (usually performed by women) that are often subsidized by a partner and generally devalued by society. There's very little dignity in the term and even less urgency. Both the hobby and vanity project are categorized as enjoyable but inessential.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eTo be even more clear, I'm not talking about finding a distraction, either. Believe me, I'm distracted enough just trying to get through my day. I don't need an idle diversion, and neither do you.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eSo if it's not a hobby, a vanity project, or a distraction-what are we talking about, exactly? I'm referring to \u003ci\u003ethe active and open pursuit of self-expression in any form\u003c\/i\u003e, and which requires value-based curiosity and purposeful sharing of this pursuit with the world. Whether it be creating art, expanding your knowledge within your area of expertise, or developing a new skill, I'm talking about an activity that you lose yourself in. That you crave to go back to when you're away from it. That gives you pleasure outside of your work, your family, and your other obligations. It's something you do just for yourself . . . and because it brings you so much joy, you want to share it with others.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eAccording to a study out of New Zealand, engaging in creative expression like I'm describing contributes to an \"upward spiral\" of positive emotions, psychological well-being, and feelings of \"flourishing\" in life, which researchers defined as feeling engaged in daily life, experiencing positive personal growth, and cultivating social connections. This relates to the \"broaden and build\" theory of positive emotions first developed by Barbara Fredrickson, PhD. Fredrickson explains that when you feel positive, it encourages you to expand your world, thereby eliciting more growth and creativity. Tony Wagner, a senior research fellow at the Learning Policy Institute, takes it a step further with his research showing that creative expression gives us a sense of \u003ci\u003epurpose\u003c\/i\u003e, along with enhancing resilience and contributing to a sense of playfulness and curiosity.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eGiven the research (and there's so much more that I'll share in the pages ahead), I invite you to begin thinking of the active and open pursuit of your creative self-expression not as optional or as an \"add-on\" to your current life but as essential and fundamental to your physical, emotional, and mental health as a whole person.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eThe Power of Unicorn Space\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eSo, then, if carving out time for creative pursuits is so essential . . . why was I still struggling with it? Wasn't I supposed to be the expert in this?\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eLet me back up. I'm not just a wannabe hip-hop dancer. I'm also a lawyer who runs an organizational management consultancy-I help foundations, companies, and families run more smoothly. A couple of years ago, though, I'd reached a breaking point in my own home organization: fed up with that feeling that I was doing all the work to keep my work life humming alongside a busy home life with my husband and three kids, I determined to increase efficiency and save my sanity-and my marriage-in the process.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eI started by creating a list of all the invisible, unheralded tasks I was doing-from making dinner to overseeing homework to doing the laundry-to keep our family afloat. I called it the \"Sh*t I Do\" list, and it detailed every minute, yet important but often undervalued task with a time component (signing my kids up for after-school activities, making sure the their vaccinations were up to date, getting the boiler inspected) that was often overlooked and yet absolutely essential. The \"Sh*t I Do\" list became the basis for a system I created called\u003ci\u003e Fair Play\u003c\/i\u003e. My goal: to divide domestic work and childcare more fairly in my house (and yours), so that both partners in a relationship are set up for success. With clearly defined expectations and delineated roles, \u003ci\u003eFair Play\u003c\/i\u003e applies the same principles of organizational management in the workplace to the home because I believe that our home is our most important organization.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eI shared the \u003ci\u003eFair Play\u003c\/i\u003e system with my friends and friends-of-friends, and eventually I turned it into a book. The message resonated: \u003ci\u003eFair Play\u003c\/i\u003e became an instant \u003ci\u003eNew York Times\u003c\/i\u003e bestseller; it was selected as a Reese's Book Club pick; it spun off into a card deck, a podcast, and a documentary; and that little book got me invited to travel to groups and companies all across the United States and the world to talk about the concept of work-life integration and the injustice of building societies on the backs of the unpaid labor of women and the undervalued labor of domestic workers. It was amazing and gratifying to see that a system that introduces a new vocabulary for talking about domestic life resonates with families everywhere.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003ePeople embraced the idea of providing a clear organizational strategy to the home, and more than a few couples told me that \u003ci\u003eFair Play\u003c\/i\u003e had saved their relationships, too. But the true magic was what emerged for everyone-especially women-when domestic responsibilities were divvied up more fairly: more time.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eTime is the ultimate reward for increasing efficiency and fairness in our home organizations. Time to relax. Time to focus on ourselves. Time to become curious. Time for sustained attention to the things we love. In \u003ci\u003eFair Play\u003c\/i\u003e, I called this time Unicorn Space.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWHAT IS UNICORN SPACE?\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eCreativity redefined as Unicorn Space is the \u003ci\u003eactive \u003c\/i\u003eand open pursuit of \u003ci\u003eself-expression\u003c\/i\u003e in any form, built on value-based curiosity and purposeful sharing of this pursuit with the world. Whether it be creating art, expanding your knowledge within your area of expertise, or developing a new skill, your Unicorn Space is that thing that makes you uniquely and vibrantly you. But like the mythical equine that inspired the name, it doesn't exist until you give yourself permission to reclaim, discover, and nurture it.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eFor a while, writing \u003ci\u003eFair Play\u003c\/i\u003e had been my Unicorn Space – I loved writing, becoming a published author was a dream come true, and every time I sat down at my computer I could feel the project delivering a Category 5 storm of passion to my life. But as I got busier and \u003ci\u003eFair Play\u003c\/i\u003e became a full-time (then, more than full-time!) business, I realized that calling my work my Unicorn Space was, well, no longer hitting the mark. Even though I was killing it on the professional front, I was losing time just for me. Would rekindling my childhood hip-hop dreams with my cousin Jessica lead me in the direction of a new creative passion? Was this the spark of a new creative pursuit that would re-inspire and carry me throughout the inevitable storms of life? I was on the verge of something. I could feel it.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eAnd then the pandemic hit, and all my - and everyone else’s - carefully wrought systems and plans were upended.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePOP QUIZ\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eWhich One of These Activities Qualifies as Unicorn Space?\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eA. Unwinding with your friends over an extended lunch\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eB. Sinking into a sensory-soothing, aromatic bath\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eC. Date night: dinner, drinks and dancing with your partner\/spouse.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eD. An hour of uninterrupted and contented time in the kitchen to roll out homemade pasta and put on simmer your signature sauce that you will later, and proudly, serve to family and friends for dinner. \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eKEY:\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003ea) This falls under the definition of \"adult friendships\" and is absolutely valuable and essential to happiness but in a category of its own.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e b) This falls under the definition of \"self-care\" and is essential to your brain and body function, but it does not count as \"Unicorn Space\" unless it’s connected to a larger goal that can be \u003ci\u003eshared with the world\u003c\/i\u003e.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e c) This falls under the definition of \"partnerships.\" Making regular time to invest in your relationship will ensure its longevity and overall satisfaction, but you still need pursuits beyond your role as a partner to feel ultimately fulfilled.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e d) Bingo! 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