{"product_id":"dads-maybe-book-isbn-9780358362784","title":"Dad's Maybe Book","description":"\u003cstrong\u003eBest-selling author Tim O’Brien shares wisdom from a life in letters, lessons learned in wartime, and the challenges, humor, and rewards of raising two sons.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e   \u003cp\u003e“We are all writing our maybe books full of maybe tomorrows, and each maybe tomorrow brings another maybe tomorrow, and then another, until the last line of the last page receives its period.”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e In 2003, already an older father, National Book Award–winning novelist Tim O’Brien resolved to give his young sons what he wished his own father had given to him—a few scraps of paper signed “Love, Dad.” Maybe a word of advice. Maybe a sentence or two about some long-ago Christmas Eve. Maybe some scattered glimpses of their rapidly aging father, a man they might never really know. For the next fifteen years, the author talked to his sons on paper, as if they were adults, imagining what they might want to hear from a father who was no longer among the living.\u003cbr\u003e  \u003cbr\u003e O’Brien traverses the great variety of human experience and emotion, moving from soccer games to warfare to risqué lullabies, from alcoholism to magic shows to history lessons to bittersweet bedtime stories, but always returning to a father’s soul-saving love for his sons.\u003cbr\u003e  \u003cbr\u003e The result is \u003cem\u003eDad’s Maybe Book,\u003c\/em\u003e a funny, tender, wise, and enduring literary achievement that will squeeze the reader’s heart with joy and recognition.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eTim O’Brien and the writing of \u003cem\u003eDad’s Maybe Book \u003c\/em\u003eare now the subject of the documentary film \u003cem\u003eThe War and Peace of Tim O’Brien\u003c\/em\u003e available to watch at \u003ca href=\"https:\/\/www.timobrienfilm.com\"\u003etimobrienfilm.com\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e | \u003cp\u003e“If this does, in fact, prove to be the last thing he writes, it is a touching conclusion to a literary career that has left us with a shelf of enduring novels, memoirs and short stories. Mr. O’Brien, like Hemingway, didn’t necessarily write about war as much as something larger: our shared humanity.” \u003cstrong\u003e—\u003cem\u003eWall Street Journal \u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e  \u003cstrong\u003e“[A] stirring blend of memoir, letters to his young sons, and meditations on the humbling nature of parenthood . . . \u003c\/strong\u003eIt’s a work that’s the spiritual inheritor of John Steinbeck’s \u003cem\u003eTravels With Charley \u003c\/em\u003eand Kurt Vonnegut’s \u003cem\u003eA Man Without a Country.\u003c\/em\u003e Like those, \u003cem\u003eDad’s Maybe Book\u003c\/em\u003e dwells on the state of America and American life. He takes absolutism to task, finds qualifications for his own pacifism and considers the paradox of a moral society that allows for forever war.”   —\u003cem\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eTIME Magazine\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/em\u003e   “Brilliant . . . To say the book is about ‘fatherhood’ is akin to saying that \u003cem\u003eCatch-22\u003c\/em\u003e  is about World War II.” \u003cstrong\u003e—\u003cem\u003eVVA Veteran \u003c\/em\u003e(Vietnam Veterans of America)\u003c\/strong\u003e   “This moving, heart-wrenching book, so raw in the best of all senses, will make you weep after exulting in life’s energies and 'maybes.' It is genuinely human at every level.\" \u003cstrong\u003e—\u003cem\u003eProvidence Journal\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e   “[A] poignant, resolute meditation on parenthood and on life.”  \u003cstrong\u003e—\u003cem\u003eThe Oregonian\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e   “Tim O’Brien is back in top form\u003cstrong\u003e . . . \u003c\/strong\u003eRather than as a war writer, O’Brien might also object to being thought of as a spiritual writer, the way one thinks of Camus, Hemingway, or Tolstoy. But there he is. One of the essentials.”  —\u003cstrong\u003eDeWitt Henry,\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cem\u003eWoven Tale Press\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e   “This book should resonate with any parent who lies awake at night pondering the meaning of existence and what sort of legacy should be left behind . . . a satisfying finale to O’Brien’s illustrious career.”  —\u003cem\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eLincoln Journal Star  \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/em\u003e   “A bountiful treasury of fatherly advice, memoir, literary criticism, history, political commentary, and a dash of magic and miracles . . . There are smiles and tears awaiting the reader on every page of this often emotionally charged book, and enough wisdom in it about what it means to be a parent, and a decent human being, to fuel many hours of personal recollection and reflection.”  —\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cem\u003eBookReporter\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e     “A gorgeous book, a love letter and legacy.”  —\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cem\u003ePsychology Today\u003c\/em\u003e’s “One True Thing” blog   \u003c\/strong\u003e  “This loving gift to [O’Brien’s] now-teenage sons is sprinkled with literary criticism, writing tips, thoughts on his relationship with his father and philosophy on aging and mortality . . . Tender and hilarious.” \u003cstrong\u003e—\u003cem\u003eMinneapolis Star Tribune\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e   “[O'Brien] poignantly captures the trials of parenthood... Interspersed throughout are memoiristic chapters sharing his fears and political awakening during his military service in Vietnam and passionately articulating his antiwar beliefs. Like most dads, \u003cstrong\u003eO'Brien carries the hopes, fears, and dreams of his children in his own heart\u003c\/strong\u003e.”   —\u003cem\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eBooklist\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/em\u003e     “A warm account of life as an older dad with two growing sons.”  —\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cem\u003eMilwaukee Journal-Sentinel\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e     “A collection of—among other things—briefly noted moments that would have most likely been forgotten: letters from a father to his sons, detailed chapters about a Purple Heart recipient’s experiences in Vietnam and O’Brien’s fondness for Ernest Hemingway.”  —\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cem\u003eThe Arts Fuse\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e     “A candid, vulnerable, and honest portraitof the challenges, humor, and rewards of raising two sons, as well as the lessons learned trying to survive in wartime, trying to find internal peace in peacetime, and trying to get your kids to fall asleep at bedtime.”  —\u003cstrong\u003eAmerican Writers Museum blog\u003c\/strong\u003e     “A moving meditation on fatherhood.”  —\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cem\u003eThe National\u003c\/em\u003e, Amtrak’s magazine\u003c\/strong\u003e     “Touching . . . A dazzling dedication to life, love, and fatherhood.”  —\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cem\u003eAustin Monthly\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e     “Tim O’Brien has written amazingly powerful novels. Now he’s gifting us with a terrific book of personal essays. His every just-the-right word about family, history, war, literature, and love dispatched tears and laughter and contemplation into my brain and heart.”  —\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cem\u003eOrange County Register\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e   “Is this a book? Maybe. Actually, it’s at least three . . . Ultimately, it is a book about those boys and his unbounded love for them.”  —\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cem\u003eNew York Times Book Review\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e     “O'Brien uses his deft skill of wordplay throughout this latest book . . . Fans of parenting books, memoirs, and stories of Vietnam War veterans will find enjoyment in these heartfelt words.”  —\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cem\u003eLibrary Journal\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e     “[A] tender memoir . . . With great candor, O’Brien succeeds in conveying the urgency parents may feel at any age, as they ready their children for life without them.”  —\u003cem\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePublishers Weekly\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/em\u003e     “O’Brien writes of the bitter irony of being known as a war writer, ‘despite my hatred for war, despite my ineptitude at war, despite my abiding shame at having participated in war.’”  —\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cem\u003ePittsburgh Post-Gazette\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Mariner Books","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":44889931120869,"sku":"NP9780358362784","price":16.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/1842\/7735\/files\/9780358362784.jpg?v=1730232211","url":"https:\/\/k12savings.com\/products\/dads-maybe-book-isbn-9780358362784","provider":"K12savings","version":"1.0","type":"link"}