{"product_id":"50-ways-to-play-isbn-9780399163463","title":"50 Ways to Play","description":"This simple and \u003ci\u003ehighly\u003c\/i\u003e accessible non-fiction guide to BDSM (Bondage, Dominance, Sadism, and Masochism) features 50 edgy and erotic adventures to sample and is the perefct companion for the millions of fans of the Fifty Shades trilogy (\u003ci\u003eFifty Shades of Grey, Fifty Shades Darker \u003c\/i\u003eand \u003ci\u003eFifty Shades Freed)\u003c\/i\u003e, the Anne Rice\/A.N. Roquelaure Sleeping Beauty trilogy (\u003ci\u003eThe Claiming of Sleeping Beauty, Beauty's Punishment, Beauty's Release\u003c\/i\u003e) and Sylvia Day's Crossfire novels (\u003ci\u003eBared to You\u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003eReflected in You\u003c\/i\u003e). This instruction book for couples contains one warning: you \u003ci\u003eshould\u003c\/i\u003e try this at home! \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eFrom turning your ho hum bedroom into a “Red Room of Desire,” to exploring the fine art of Japanese rope bondage—and a few other ideas perhaps better not mentioned in polite company—\u003ci\u003e50 Ways to Play\u003c\/i\u003e invites couples who might otherwise think of themselves as “average” or “nice” to walk on the wild side. According to husband-and-wife writers Debra and Don Macleod, sex should pack a punch—it’s meant to catch you off guard. The fifty sexy and surprising “ways to play” offered up in this book are guaranteed to turn up the heat in your sex life.\u003cb\u003eDebra and Don Macleod\u003c\/b\u003e are the husband-and-wife authors of \u003ci\u003eLube Jobs: A Woman's Guide to Great Maintenance Sex\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eLip Service: A His and Hers Guide to the Art of Oral Sex and Seduction\u003c\/i\u003e, and \u003ci\u003eThe French Maid: And 21  More Naughty Sex Fantasies to Surprise and Arouse Your Man\u003c\/i\u003e. Their books have been covered widely in newspapers across the country including \u003ci\u003eThe New York Times\u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003eUSA Today\u003c\/i\u003e and been awarded “Best in Bed” by \u003ci\u003eWomen’s Health Magazine\u003c\/i\u003e. In her various capacities as a marriage and divorce mediator, a couples’ communication and conflict resolution specialist, \u003cb\u003eDebra\u003c\/b\u003e has helped thousands of couples resolve their problems and improve their relationships. For more information, visit her website debramacleod.com.\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eCover\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eTitle Page\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eCopyright Page\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIntroduction\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e1. A Red Room of Pleasure \u0026amp; Pain\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e2. Sexual Domination \u0026amp; Submission\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e3. Delayed Sexual Gratification\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e4. Behavioral Restraint \u0026amp; Mind Games\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e5. Bedroom Bondage \u0026amp; Restraint\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e6. Japanese Rope Bondage\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e7. The Ottoman Empire\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e8. Suspended Sex\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e9. Hold Me Down\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e10. Sex \u0026amp; Sensory Deprivation\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e11. Pain \u0026amp; Pleasure\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e12. Erotic Spanking\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e13. Flogging Instruments\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e14. Love Bites \u0026amp; Scratches\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e15. Nipple Clamps \u0026amp; Toys\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e16. Feel the Burn\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e17. When Ice Is Nice\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e18. Glass Toys \u0026amp; Temperature Play\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e19. Talk Dirty to Me\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e20. The Sounds of Sex\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e21. A Public Power Play\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e22. BDSM Rituals\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e23. What Should I Wear?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e24. Voyeurism \u0026amp; Exhibitionism\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e25. Erotic Humiliation\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e26. BDSM \u0026amp; Self-Pleasuring\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e27. Rough Sex \u0026amp; Force Fantasies\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e28. Orgasm Control\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e29. A BDSM Sex Toy Box\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e30. The Power Pull\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e31. Erotic Electrostimulation\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e32. Tickling\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e33. Erotic Torture\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e34. Bondage Positions\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e35. Crotch Ropes\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e36. Sexual Positions \u0026amp; Thrusting Techniques\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e37. Fetishes\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e38. BDSM \u0026amp; Cunnilingus, Part I\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e39. BDSM \u0026amp; Fellatio, Part I\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e40. BDSM \u0026amp; Cunnilingus, Part II\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e41. BDSM \u0026amp; Fellatio, Part II\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e42. Anal Play\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e43. Anal Sex\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e44. Sex \u0026amp; Mirrors\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e45. Pornography\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e46. Erotica\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e47. BDSM \u0026amp; Defamiliarization\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e48. A BDSM (Romantic?) Getaway\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e49. The Softer, Soapier Side of BDSM\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e50. Aftercare\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAbout the Authors\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSex is supposed to pack a punch. It’s supposed to take you off guard, make you hold your breath for what might come next, gasp with discovery, quicken your pulse and consume you, mind, body and soul. Sexual desire should make you say and do things that you would never normally say or do, and the severity of physical sensations should paralyze you. Sex should set you on fire, so that an unrecognizable shade of yourself comes alive in the smolder.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eTake this pop quiz to see whether your sex life is as body-and-mind-blowing as it should or could be.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003ePop Quiz\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e1. Are you physically aroused by the intensity of your partner’s desire for you?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e2. Do you find yourself fantasizing about unorthodox sex acts with your partner?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e3. Do you feel physically and emotionally exhausted after sex?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e4. Is erotic desire a prevailing theme in your relationship?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e5. Do you occasionally feel (pleasant) pain or (exciting) fear during sex?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e6. Do you regularly lose yourself in erotic role-playing, restraint or rough sex?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e7. Do you imagine being “used” by your partner during sex, or using him\/her?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e8. Do you use a variety of sexual aids to intensely stimulate all your senses during sex?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e9. Does your partner sometimes seem like a different person during sex? Do you?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e10. Do you revel in the sexual anticipation of what your partner will do next?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIf you or your partner answered “no” to any of these questions, you’re not alone. Many couples feel that sex has lost its erotic impact and, if you’re one of them, it’s time to add a few kinky weapons to your after-dark arsenal. Actually, forget “a few” and add lots of them. Moderation is for sexual puritans. There are \u003ci\u003efifty\u003c\/i\u003e thrills and chills in this book, boldly borrowed from the world of BDSM—Bondage, Domination, Sadism and Masochism. These edgy ideas are guaranteed to get the juices flowing and the nerves firing like never before. And despite their deviant reputation, they are essential elements of a healthy sex life, even for nice people like you.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eFor some reason, romance and gentle lovemaking have a monopoly on mainstream sex. Of course, sex should be loving and meaningful. But that doesn’t mean you always have to stare deeply into each other’s eyes or move as one in the missionary position. Consensual rough-and-tumble sex, with a dose of high-sensory kink and BDSM for good measure, is noticeably absent from many couples’ sex lives, and many partners are unhappy with the vacancy. They complain of bland, routine sex lives and crave something harder and faster, something that consumes them with desire, excitement and exhilaration. They want something that injects an erotic buzz into their everyday life and makes them long for nightfall.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eGentle caresses and candlelight can’t always do that. That is why I never suggest romance movies to “spice up” a love life. I can’t think of anything more predictable. Instead, I recommend horror films. They get the blood pumping and the adrenaline flowing. They make you hold your breath and wait for the ax to fall. They bring energy and excitement into your evening. Think of this book as a horror flick as opposed to a romantic “chick flick.” You and your partner can enjoy it together, without any risk of falling asleep halfway through.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eNot too long ago, I had occasion to visit a legal brothel in Nevada on business. I was given a tour of the facilities by a friendly courtesan in high heels and a garter, and several of the working ladies showed me their “bedrooms,” which they were allowed to decorate as they wished. The irresistible appeal of the place became tangible the moment I stepped into these bedrooms.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eEach prostitute’s bedroom was decorated in classic bordello style. The walls were painted in solid, bold, deep colors—scarlet red or burgundy, emerald green or deep, deep purple. Almost every king-sized bed had a canopy over it, with sheer fabric flowing down to envelop the square of the bed into an even more private and sensual space. The bedding was satin and the air was fragranced with intoxicating incense. There was absolutely no mistaking what was supposed to happen in those rooms. These ladies were professionals at setting the mood.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eLook around your bedroom. What do you see? A laundry hamper full of dirty clothes? An exercise bike in the corner? A pile of bills on the dresser? A laptop on the nightstand? Boring beige walls with cheesy, cheap-feeling flower-print bedding? Chances are, your bedroom couldn’t be a less sexy space if you dragged in the toilet, sat on the lid, and started clipping your toenails in front of the person you’re supposed to be seducing.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIt’s time to transform your bland bedroom into a spicy boudoir. Get rid of anything that doesn’t scream sex. Throw caution and those interior design magazines to the wind, and roll some cathouse color onto your walls to instantly create an arousing ambience. Add a canopy over the bed, one that can enclose you and your partner within. Trash those flimsy vertical blinds and hang deeply colored velvet drapes that block every trace of light. Lay a luxurious area rug over that oh-so-functional laminate flooring. It’s a raunchier room already, isn’t it?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBecause your new bedroom is pulling double duty as an adult playroom, it should also have an “adult toy box” in which you can hide—under lock and key if necessary—some of your BDSM playthings. Find an old trunk at a garage sale and spray-paint it scarlet red or glossy black. Or find a stiff cardboard box with a lid and wrap it in purple velvet. As you read each way to play, you’ll get ideas of what items you might want to put in this toy box (see #29).\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Tarcher","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":46304512671973,"sku":"NP9780399163463","price":24.0,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/1842\/7735\/files\/9780399163463.jpg?v=1767720257","url":"https:\/\/k12savings.com\/products\/50-ways-to-play-isbn-9780399163463","provider":"K12savings","version":"1.0","type":"link"}