{"product_id":"you-deserve-a-drink-isbn-9780142181676","title":"You Deserve a Drink","description":"\u003cb\u003e\u003cb\u003eA \u003ci\u003eNew York Times\u003c\/i\u003e bestselling, riotously funny collection of boozy misadventures from the creator of the YouTube series, “You Deserve a Drink.”\u003c\/b\u003e\u003ci\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003eMamrie Hart is a drinking star with a Youtube problem. With over a million subscribers to her cult-hit video series “You Deserve a Drink,” Hart has been entertaining viewers with a combination of tasty libations and raunchy puns since 2011. Hart also co-wrote\/co-starred in \u003ci\u003eDirty Thirty\u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003eCamp Takota\u003c\/i\u003e with Grace Helbig and Hannah Hart.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eFinally, Hart has compiled her best drinking stories—and worst hangovers—into one hilarious volume. From the spring break where she and her girlfriends avoided tan lines by staying at an all-male gay nudist resort, to the bachelorette party where she accidentally hired a sixty-year-old meth head to teach the group pole dancing (not to mention the time she lit herself on fire during a Flaming Lips concert), Hart accompanies each story with an original cocktail recipe, ensuring that \u003ci\u003eYou Deserve a Drink\u003c\/i\u003e is as educational as it is entertaining. \u003cb\u003e \u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e  \u003cbr\u003e With cameos from familiar friends from the YouTube scene and a foreword by Grace Helbig, this glimpse into Hart’s life brings warmth and humor to the woman fans know and love. And for readers who haven’t met Mamrie yet—take a warm-up shot and break out the cocktail shaker: you’re going to need a drink.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003e“Hart is a pull-no-punches comedian with a talent for self-deprecation in the guise of self-aggrandizement, a winning formula.”—\u003ci\u003eThe New York Times \u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cb\u003ePraise for \u003ci\u003eYou Deserve a Drink\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“I loved this book. Mamrie Hart is hilariously brilliant, and really puts things in perspective with \u003ci\u003eYou Deserve a Drink\u003c\/i\u003e. Specifically that I do deserve a drink. And the only person I feel like having one with right now is her.”\u003cb\u003e—Judy Greer, actress and author of \u003ci\u003eI Don’t Know What You Know Me From: Confessions of a Co-Star\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“You know that voice you have inside that tells you not to do certain things because they are reckless, embarrassing, or socially unacceptable? Mamrie Hart does not have that voice. She does it all and tells it all in \u003ci\u003eYou Deserve a Drink\u003c\/i\u003e.”\u003cb\u003e—Rachel Dratch, SNL alum, author of \u003ci\u003eGirl Walks Into a Bar\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“My Mom and I had Mamrie on IN BED WITH JOAN and we absolutely fell in love with her! She carries her wit in the palm of her hand, usually along with a delicious cocktail. In this book, Mamrie breaks into hilarious as easily as she drops into poignant. A girl who holds the torch for all the funny and smart ladies out there!”\u003cb\u003e—Melissa Rivers\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“This book is way better than my book.”\u003cb\u003e—Hannah Hart, \u003ci\u003eNew York Times \u003c\/i\u003ebestselling author of \u003ci\u003eMy Drunk Kitchen\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“You Deserve a Drink is like a night out with Mamrie Hart: charmingly weird \u0026amp; hilariously memorable. All that’s missing is the hangover.”\u003cb\u003e—Tyler Oakley, Youtube star\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Lowbrow\/Brilliant”\u003cb\u003e—\u003ci\u003eNY Magazine\u003c\/i\u003e's Approval Matrix\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“An entirely hilarious read that will delight her current fans...and entice new readers who  have enjoyed recent books by other humor heavy-hitters (Tina Fey, Amy  Poehler, Mindy Kaling).”—\u003cb\u003eSheKnows.com\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Sassy, foul-mouthed, funny and fearless...I like this book so much I can’t decide whom to loan it to first.”\u003cb\u003e—\u003ci\u003eRaleigh News \u0026amp; Observer\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cb\u003eMamrie Hart\u003c\/b\u003e is from middle-of-nowhere North Carolina. She now lives in Los Angeles with her tiny hairless dog, Beanz.\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eEric Michael Pearson\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eModeling is tough.\u003cbr\u003eTo get ready for this shoot,\u003cbr\u003eI didn’t eat for, like, \u003ci\u003etwo and\u003cbr\u003ea half \u003c\/i\u003ehours.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eFOREWORD\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eOne humid summer night in Austin, Texas, Mamrie Hart and I spent an hour drunkenly arguing and openly crying on the street while wearing David Bowie– and Tina Turner–inspired wigs, butterfly eyelashes, and KEEP AUSTIN WEIRD tie-dyed T-shirts. Yes, we had been out at a bar dressed like that. Yes, the bartender bought us two-too-many shots. Yes, the jury’s still out on whether that bartender thought we were reject prostitutes having an existential crisis. And yes, what we were actually arguing about was complete nonsense. But man did those giant orange butterfly wings superglued to Mamrie’s eyelids hold up. The next morning we dragged our haggard bodies into our production van (we had been in the middle of filming a travel web series). When the crew left to get some coffee, we finally looked at each other and had this conversation:\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“We cool?” \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Yeah, we’re just idiots.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Bloody Mary?”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Dear God, \u003ci\u003eyes\u003c\/i\u003e.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAnd that was that. We were back. \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThat day it really hit me: A friendship with Mamrie Hart is a truly special thing. It’s a friendship that, even in the seemingly difficult times, is abso-fucking-lutely ridiculous, in the best way possible. And that, plain and simple, is Mamrie’s life. \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWe’ve been friends since 2007, where we met on our first sketch comedy team, Finger (pronounced Fing-uh, because we were \u003ci\u003eclearly hilarious\u003c\/i\u003e). One of the first sketches we performed was called “Party Starters,” about two girls who start parties everywhere they go, even in inappropriate places (again, \u003ci\u003ehilarious\u003c\/i\u003e). But the core of that sketch has carried through to our friendship. Together we’ve been globe-trotters, meeting Mexican and American wrestlers, professional bull riders, spiritual healers, one-eyed mini ponies, a woman watching a Britney Spears concert through opera glasses . . . the list goes on. She’s pushed a person out of a cab, screaming, “That’s Brooklyn, bitch,” at the end of a drunken night. She’s shown me her blackjack skills while wearing a Snoop Dogg sweatshirt, sloshing a Lemon Drop martini, and flirting with a man to get a free electronic cigarette. She’s made me a bra with removable airplane bottles. She’s gotten me a green screen as a birthday present and wrapped it with DENTAL DAM written in huge letters across the outside. She’s crashed on my couch and farted herself awake in the middle of the night. She’s given me a handmade trophy to commemorate my excellent repression skills. She’s voluntarily bought swamp suits, a blow-up doll, karate gis, pizza costumes, and an electronic inflatable penis costume for other live shows we’ve done. She’s a special breed.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eNeedless to say I couldn’t be more thankful to have this absurdly sweet, reincarnated-vaudevillian-entertainer-meets-DIY-driven-hillbilly-sass-factory in my life. And now she’s created a book that lets you into hers. THANK GOD. Take it from someone who has watched her scoop room service lasagna off a carpeted hotel-room floor and eat it: None of what you’re about to read is exaggerated, fabricated, or G-rated. But it is, like her, special.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e—Grace Helbig, #1 \u003ci\u003eNew York Times\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003ebestselling author of \u003ci\u003eGrace’s Guide\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eINTRODUCTION\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eI wrote a book, you guys. This is big. Anyone who knows me at all (and you certainly will by the end of this thing) knows that I don’t even \u003ci\u003eread\u003c\/i\u003e books, let alone write them. Sure, I’ll occasionally find myself perusing \u003ci\u003eUs Weekly\u003c\/i\u003e, or a lengthy takeout menu, or an ex-boyfriend’s Facebook post about his new perfect family, but that’s about it.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eFor those of you who randomly picked this up at Barnes \u0026amp; Noble,* allow me to tell you a little bit about myself. My name is Mamrie Hart and I wanted to write this paperweight to combine my two favorite things: delicious cocktails and embarrassing myself. ’Cause nothing goes together better than dirty martinis and queef stories. A duo for the ages.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIn 2011, I created a show called \u003ci\u003eYou Deserve a Drink\u003c\/i\u003e, which lives on the Internet.* Every week I make a custom cocktail in honor of whoever in pop culture I think needs one the most. After sitting down and putting these stories on paper, I realized the person who most deserves a drink in this book is \u003ci\u003eyou\u003c\/i\u003e, the reader! It’s gonna be a doozy, dudes. Why, you ask? Because . . . drumroll, please . . .\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis book has a built-in drinking game!\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eDrinking games are a great way to rationalize excessive drinking, plus I selfishly want everyone to have a buzz so they think I’m a better writer than I actually am. The rules on my show are simple—drink every time I make a terrible pun—but that won’t work here. I can’t be responsible for alcohol poisoning of the literally \u003ci\u003edozens\u003c\/i\u003e of people who will read this book. Instead, I came up with these rules.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eDrink every time I . . .\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e1. reference an old television show;\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e2. talk about a food product that could be purchased at 7-Eleven;\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e3. use a slang term for a reproductive organ.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eTurns out, you learn a lot about yourself when you write a book; and turns out, I talk about these three things incessantly. I don’t think there’s been a day in my adult life when I haven’t discussed \u003ci\u003eBoy Meets World\u003c\/i\u003e (why did they make Eric so dumb in the last few seasons?) or at least mentioned nachos.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAnother detail you will see scattered among these pages is the word \u003ci\u003erutabaga\u003c\/i\u003e. No, you are not about to embark on a bio bender about root vegetables. \u003ci\u003eRutabaga\u003c\/i\u003e is my safe word. Normally safe words are codes used during BDSM (hard-core sex stuff) that the submissive person can use when he\/she isn’t comfortable. Well, my safe word will be written every time I want my parents to stop reading that chapter. Part of me wishes I had said it before even writing the definition of \u003ci\u003esafe word\u003c\/i\u003e. I know my parents and other family members are going to read this book. It’s inevitable. And they will be super proud. I’ll be the goddamn Lady Gaga of this year’s Thanksgiving!\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eSorry, Aunt Debbie, I cannot take the stuffing out of the oven. I can’t risk a thumb burn when I have to autograph books next month.\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBut there are a few tales that my relatives might not want burned into their brains. I figured a safe word would be a good way to prevent future therapy costs, and so they don’t “turnip” their noses at me come Turkey Day . . . ’cause rutabagas are turnips (more highbrow classic jokes like that in the pages ahead).\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eNow that all the rules are in play, let’s do this thing. Let’s read a fucking book, you guys! You could be reading this on the beach and quietly wondering how, exactly, to get that sand out of \u003ci\u003ethere\u003c\/i\u003e, or be by yourself at a bar while you wait for a blind date and want to avoid having conversation with the people around you.* Whatever the circumstances, I hope you have a good time reading it. I had a great time writing it. And with that . . .\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eFull House\u003c\/i\u003e, Flamin’ Hot Cheetos, and \u003ci\u003eChubby Cubbies\u003c\/i\u003e. Drink, mothafuckas!\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBad Apple\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e1½ oz Calvados or other apple brandy\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e1½ oz vodka\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e2 oz fresh apple cider\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e½ oz ginger liqueur\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003ePut everything in a shaker of ice and go to town. Strain into a martini glass. Garnish with a slice of apple, or if you want to be really bad, dip the rim in that delicious caramel dip they stock in the produce department.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eI need everyone to sit down right now, because what I am about to say might shock you to the core. Although I am one of the most elegant, refined women you will ever have the pleasure of meeting, truth be told, I have had some pretty ridiculous hangovers in my day. If I had a nickel for every time I’ve had a hangover, I would’ve already paid a group of top scientists to find a cure.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe worst hangover I’ve ever experienced came the morning after my first night living in New York City. The year was 2005. By some grace of God, I had actually graduated from college, and rather than use my diploma for rolling papers (which I’d threatened to do on many occasions), I was going to use that theater degree for good. I was going to be a serious actress.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eI won’t lie to you. I was nervous. But to have a career in acting, it would have to be either L.A. or NYC. Moving to L.A. would’ve been easier for me because I had the built-in safety net of my dad and stepmom living there. In L.A., the crime was lower and the tits temps were higher. But if I was going to be the next Meryl Streep, I needed to toughen up. I needed to dig deep and experience \u003ci\u003estruggle\u003c\/i\u003e. The most I struggled in college was when the Papa John’s delivery guy would forget the garlic sauce.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYes, this girl right here was going to be serious. Mind you, this is my official graduation photo. Everyone else looks poised and ready to take on adulthood. (I, on the other hand, had slept thirty minutes and had cran-grape and vodka in my purse.)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eI got off my flight from North Carolina, full of hope and a twelve-dollar bag of Chex Mix.* I was ready to take the city by storm, and also mace anyone who came near me. This was 2005, people. Sure, it wasn’t 1980s “let’s all pretend there isn’t a corpse in our subway car” Brooklyn, but it also wasn’t the Brooklyn that shows like \u003ci\u003eGirls\u003c\/i\u003e have depicted. Nowadays if you live in Brooklyn, your biggest danger is a rent hike when a specialty pickle shop opens next door.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eI came prepared to take down anyone who walked too close behind me. I didn’t care if you were benignly looking at my purse because you noticed the tag read CUCCI instead of GUCCI; I’d already have one hand on my mace, the other hand on my scarf to choke you out if I needed to. And I wasn’t just prepared for an attack on the streets. I was always conjuring up new scenarios to protect myself in my apartment too. Every night before tucking myself into sleepy time, I would make a game plan in case someone broke in. Bubble Wrap right inside the door will sound like gunshots when they step on it! My landlord probably wouldn’t be stoked if I spread tar all over my stairs, but maybe I could get away with wads of gum. I was apparently banking on these intruders being the “Wet Bandits” from \u003ci\u003eHome Alone\u003c\/i\u003e.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eLuckily, I didn’t have to face the Big Bad Apple by myself. I was moving into an apartment with my friend Kat, whom I had been a camp counselor with a year before. I knew from our summer together that if Kat was one thing, it was fun! No chance of a boring roommate there. But to be honest, I was a little anxious about the whole living-with-each-other scenario. Being roommates with someone in a new city is a lot different from being pals in the carefree world of swimming and s’mores. We had hung out on days off, getting ridiculously drunk together and acting like fools, but this was the \u003ci\u003ereal\u003c\/i\u003e world. Was Kat going to stop being polite and start getting real?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eTruth be told, the only time we’d ever gotten together during the off-season, she ended up wrecking my car. But she paid for it without question! And, sure, there was talk that she didn’t actually leave camp of her own accord but was fired for bringing weed on a campout. But I had no confirmation if that rumor was true-mor, and surely someone wouldn’t be \u003ci\u003ethat \u003c\/i\u003estupid! So I suppressed my nerves and told myself that my new roommate situation was going to be ideal.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eI got off the subway at Prospect Avenue in Brooklyn, fully expecting the streets to be covered in chalk outlines and to see rats building nests out of used syringes. Turns out, my street looked like an establishing shot from \u003ci\u003eThe Cosby Show\u003c\/i\u003e. The streets had rows and rows of brownstones with big stoops and flower boxes under windows. The only chalk on the sidewalks was for hopscotch. And if there were rats, they were probably the cute puppet ones from \u003ci\u003eThe Muppet Show\u003c\/i\u003e. I loosened my grip on my mace as Kat ran up to me, waving.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Welcome to New York!” she said, wrapping me in a big hug and helping me with my duffel bag. Kat was classically beautiful. She had jet-black hair and fair skin, very 1940s glamour. She was twenty-seven to my twenty-two \u003ci\u003eand\u003c\/i\u003e she wore a leather jacket, so I inevitably felt like a fetus with eyeliner in comparison.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Kat! Thank God! I was so worried, but this neighborhood is straight out of a magazine! I can’t wait to see our place.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eShe breathed in sharply. “So, there’s been a \u003ci\u003elittle\u003c\/i\u003e change of plans.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eOh Jesus\u003c\/i\u003e, I thought to myself. \u003ci\u003eWe’re going to be homeless. I am going to have to sell my body on the streets, and I’m so out of shape right now that to make any money I’ll have to do a BOGO deal. Or maybe a punch card system . . .\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“They have to fix a couple more things in our place, so it won’t be ready for a few days.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eA few days?! I didn’t have any money for a hotel. Kat found a place that was eight hundred dollars each a month, and after the security deposit and insane broker fee, I was moving to New York with three hundred bucks to my name. I imagined myself staying in a shelter, finally breaking out all the knowledge I had held on to from the film \u003ci\u003eCurly Sue\u003c\/i\u003e. Before I could ask Kat how smooth her sleight of hand was, she eased my worries.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“I already told my friend Maegan that you were coming. I’ve been staying with her the past month. It’s right up this block.” I followed Kat, a little nervous about invading a complete stranger’s place.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Relax, we’ve been best friends since we were five. She’s totally cool with you crashing in the living room with me,” Kat said, trying to reassure me. \u003ci\u003eSure\u003c\/i\u003e, I thought to myself. \u003ci\u003eHaving someone you’ve known since kindergarten stay with you is one thing, but some rando with her cherry-print duffel bag and three-days-without-a-shower greasy head is another.\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Honey, we’re home!” Kat called as we walked up the stairs. Maegan appeared at the front door wearing a 1982 Van Halen Hide Your Sheep Tour T-shirt and cutoff jean shorts, and she had on the exact knee-high gladiator sandals that I had been coveting all summer but had worried would make my calves look like a tray of yeast rolls at Golden Corral. She had wild, curly red hair that stuck out everywhere, kind of like Dana at the end of \u003ci\u003eGhostbusters\u003c\/i\u003e, when you can’t tell if she’s about to fuck Bill Murray or wear him as a skin suit. Simply put, Maegan’s look was on point.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“It’s so nice to meet you! Welcome!” she said as she ushered us into her apartment. It was decked out in the raddest vintage shit I’d ever seen. There was a light-up sign that read DISCO hanging above her bed, and the headboard was made out of a refurbished dashboard, complete with an 8-track player. Maegan grabbed me a Corona while Kat was fixing herself a tequila and orange juice.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Starting early on the tequila, I see,” Maegan called to Kat in the kitchen, then turned to me. “I have that shirt!”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eI looked down at my 1983 Kenny Rogers Jovan Musk Tour tee. While I was in shock from the coincidence, she kept going like she had just pointed out a mass-produced tunic we’d both gotten from Target.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Are you coming to the show with us?” she asked.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“What show?”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“I wanted it to be a surprise!” Kat said, pouring more tequila into her cup. The tequila looked like one of those optical illusion faucet fountains you buy from SkyMall that never stop pouring. “We’re seeing the Pixies at Coney Island tonight!”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Seriously?!” I jumped up, spilling a little Corona on Maegan’s pristine midcentury modern couch.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Oh my god, I’m so sorry,” I apologized. Great. First ten minutes at this girl’s place and I was already wrecking the joint.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eShe walked over and wiped it with her hand. “Don’t worry about it. Kat spilled an entire bowl of beans and rice on it two nights ago.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eLook at me\u003c\/i\u003e, I thought. \u003ci\u003eOne hour in New York and I’ve already got these hip-ass adult friends and am going to a show? \u003c\/i\u003eGranted, the only song I could name of the Pixies was the one that went, “Uh-huh . . . I got a broken face,” but I knew it was going to be fun. I also knew they had an album called \u003ci\u003eSurfer Rosa,\u003c\/i\u003e because I pointed out the cassette tape in a boy’s car in high school once and he said, “You like the Pixies?” and I was all like, “Yeah, I love them” (totally lying), and he was all like, “What’s your favorite album?” and I was all like, “I think I just started my period. Please take me home.”*\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe rest of the afternoon was spent drinking Coronas on the stoop with Maegan and her boyfriend, Doug. Maegan had already been living in New York for a year and was armed with loads of advice. I was relieved. I was worried that everyone was going to be too cool for school, but she was so nice. I could already see us becoming good friends.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eA few hours later, the four of us crammed into a beat-up gypsy cab and rode down to Coney. I had never used a car service before and felt so fancy! Sure, the guy had twelve tiny pine tree air fresheners hanging from his rearview, and I was sitting on someone’s leftover pizza crust, but it wasn’t a boring old yellow taxi. After twenty minutes in the car, we were dropped off in front of a Nathan’s hot dogs. Stepping out of that old Crown Victoria, I (naturally) immediately stepped in dog shit, but I felt like ScarJo being dropped off at the Oscars.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWe got to the venue just as the sun was setting. With the pink sky, ocean, and old amusement park rides behind the stage, I couldn’t believe I was finally here. It was the perfect backdrop to start this new chapter of my life. I felt like this moment called for a cheers.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“I’m gonna go grab a drink—you want anything?” I asked Kat as she puffed on a one hitter painted to look like a cigarette.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Beers are going to be, like, twenty bucks. I came prepared.” She reached into her huge purse and pulled out, no lie, an entire carton of orange juice. “It’s half OJ, half tequila.” How she got that past security, I have no idea. Her bag was like Mary Poppins’s for hot messes. Mary Pill Poppins.*\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eI started to tell her that I’m just one of those people who can’t drink tequila, but I stopped myself. I had three hundred dollars to my name and no job. If someone was offering me a way to get drunk, I needed to take it.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eI took a big gulp from the carton, already planning a lie about having diabetes if a security guard approached us. I had no problem breaking out the fake seizure from my high school production of \u003ci\u003eSteel Magnolias\u003c\/i\u003e. It always worked when I wanted to get a free glass of juice at brunch. Once the OJ-tequila combo hit my lips, I realized Kat was terrible at ratios.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Jesus, I know he got away with murdering his wife and all, but what’s your problem with OJ?” I asked.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBefore Kat could judge laugh at my hilarious joke, the music started and the massive crowd went nuts. Well, as nuts as you can for a group of thirty-five-year-olds about to listen to alternative noise rock.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eFor the next two hours, I helped Kat finish that carton. The sun set and we lost track of Maegan and her boyfriend, but Kat didn’t seem to be worried. The Pixies played songs about everything from Salvador Dalí to scuba diving. I mouthed along to the lyrics I didn’t know, Oprah-style. Seriously, if you never noticed this while Oprah was still on the air, do yourself a favor and find some old episodes. Lady Winfrey never knew the damn words to any of her guests’ songs. And I’m not just talking about when a new artist would come on who Oprah had to pretend to give a shit about. I’m talking when she would introduce Tina Turner singing “Proud Mary.” Tina would be tearing it up to this classic tune, and then when the camera panned to O, she would be mouthing, “Loud Harry keeps on yearning . . . and we’re bowling, bowling!” Oprah had her favorite things, and, well, that was my favorite thing of Oprah’s.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eI got drunk enough to stop even trying to be into it and instead spied on all the thirtysomething hipsters trying to get fucked up while also balancing their new responsibilities. I took in a lot of conversations that went something like this:\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eHey babe, if I take half of another Ecstasy, will I be normal around the sitter in three hours?\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eYeah, babe. But just remember tomorrow morning we have Daphne’s couples baby yoga graduation and then Conner’s prohibition BBQ.\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhen the concert wrapped up, we found Maegan and Doug. I was pretty drunk at this point, but I could tell that Maegan wasn’t in the great mood that she’d been in on the ride here. Kat didn’t seem to care, though.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“We should all go into the city and do karaoke!” Kat said, pumping her fist.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eI full-on squealed at this idea. I love—I love, love, \u003ci\u003elove\u003c\/i\u003e karaoke. I don’t care if I’m staying by myself in a Holiday Inn; if the hotel bar has karaoke, I’m there. I will shamelessly sing “It’s Raining Men,” complete with jazz runs through the crowd to a roomful of strangers. If this was what life in New York was going to be like, I was going to be kara-okay with it.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“I think we are going to sit this one out,” Maegan said. “But y’all have fun.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eI was sad she wasn’t coming, but I could tell something was off. Maybe she and her boyfriend were fighting. I gave her a big hug. “Thank you for being hospitable,” I slurred in her face, literally spitting on the \u003ci\u003espit\u003c\/i\u003e part of the word.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAnd with that, Kat and I started our vocal warm-ups and headed to the train. Now, a train all the way from Coney Island to the East Village can take anywhere from forty-five minutes to seven days. To pass the time, I pretended to pole dance on the train poles, which is a total rookie move. You can always tell tourists in New York by three things: (1) they are standing in front of the Empire State Building trying to decide if Earlybird or Valencia is a better filter for their Instagram; (2) they think it’s worth it to wait in an hour-long line for Magnolia Bakery cupcakes; and (3) they think they are the first people to pretend the poles on subway trains are stripper poles. Kat beatboxed as I put on my best sultry face and swung around, completely falling on my ass.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eLater that year I would try pole dancing again, and the results would be even more embarrassing. I know we have karaoke to get to, but this is worth a tangent, trust me.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eA friend of mine from college, Sean, had taken a job producing one of those terrible “We’ve Got Three Dozen Kids” shows as soon as we’d graduated. Although being surrounded by an army of Christian values and perms left over from ’94 sounded like hell, he was making a serious paycheck nine months out of college, while I still considered a fine meal wandering around Whole Foods stuffing my face with free samples. He came to visit New York one night and was ready to spend some of that hard-earned Christian scrilla. He had been kind of a nerd in college, so I knew he was going to be peacocking.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eI met a very drunk Sean at a bar in the East Village, along with a few of his friends whom I didn’t know, but they seemed nice. We drank a ridiculous amount of champagne, vodka, and whatever else we could form the words to order. After several hours of imbibing, Sean got an idea to keep the party moving.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Let’s go to the strip club. I’ll buy everyone lap dances.”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBrilliant idea! \u003ci\u003eLook at me, chugging champagne and getting lap dances paid for on a random Monday night. I am the white female P. Diddy!\u003c\/i\u003e I thought to myself. I was two seconds from starting my own clothing line (instead of Sean John, it would be called On the John), feeling completely pimp. Until then, I’d only “made it rain” with IOU slips. I felt like my baller status was at an all-time high—that is, until we arrived at the \u003ci\u003eactual\u003c\/i\u003e strip club around three a.m.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSapphire, conveniently located under the Queensboro Bridge, was the saddest thing I had seen since I caught my high school history teacher crying by himself during \u003ci\u003eTitanic\u003c\/i\u003e as I waited to sweep the theater. I had expected to roll into a place with crazy lights and lots of bass pumping through the speakers—basically, I was expecting a live Rihanna video. Instead, we walked into a room where one dude was getting a subpar lap dance as eight other strippers counted down the minutes until they could go home. It was clear to me why they had named this place Sapphire, because it was making me blue.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWe took our seats in this den of sadness, and you could almost hear the collective groan from the strippers in the back. I couldn’t blame them. I myself have never worked as an exotic dancer, but I have worked in many restaurants; and when you are just about to close and a party of ten rolls in, it fuckin’ sucks. That leftover pizza in your fridge and DVR’d \u003ci\u003eSay Yes to the Dress\u003c\/i\u003e are gonna have to wait, because you’re stuck for another two hours. I think I even mouthed, “I’m sorry,” to the really tired-looking ones as we walked to find a table. It wasn’t so much finding a table as deciding which one to take in this completely empty strip club.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eI went to the bathroom to give myself a wasted-face pep talk. This usually involved a lot of slurring, “You got dis, bitch,” into the mirror and a lot of emphatic hand gestures. (Note to self: Always check to make sure someone isn’t trying to take a dump in one of the stalls as you are screaming, “Shut up, you’re beautiful!” to yourself.)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eI had gotten to the point in my pep talk where I almost aggressively fist-bumped my reflection (before remembering it was a mirror and that would severely hurt me) when one of the exhausted strippers walked in. I curtsied and went back to the table. When I got there, I found the only other girl in the group sitting by herself.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Where is everybody?”\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“They ditched us girls to go get private dances. 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