{"product_id":"what-your-body-says-and-how-to-master-the-message-isbn-9780470599167","title":"What Your Body Says (And How to Master the Message)","description":"Train your body to communicate with confidence and clarity-have your body match what your mouth says...  \u003cp\u003e The popular phrase \"leading from influence\" takes for granted that influence derives chiefly from verbal communication. However, communication is about more than words. To get to the next level in your career, you must communicate with your entire self.\u003c\/p\u003e  \u003cp\u003e \u003ci\u003eWhat Your Body Says\u003c\/i\u003e gives you the straight-up \"how-to\" on unifying what you say with what you do, allowing you to better connect with other people and reach your full leadership potential. It gives you a clear and simple process to follow, all drawn from an intense study of how language impacts people's lives and emotions. Filled with useful tools, strategies, and techniques, this book gives you the key to\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cul\u003e \u003cli\u003eSpeak intelligently while looking smart, engaging and real\u003c\/li\u003e \u003cli\u003eDeliver unpleasant messages without pain or guilt\u003c\/li\u003e \u003cli\u003eHaving a committee meeting and getting something done\u003c\/li\u003e \u003cli\u003eAnd more\u003c\/li\u003e \u003c\/ul\u003e  \u003cp\u003e Written by Sharon Sayler, a highly accomplished expert in marketing, presentations, and body language, \u003ci\u003eWhat Your Body Says\u003c\/i\u003e is the only guide you need to achieve the competitive edge in your personal and business communication style.\u003c\/p\u003e  \u003cp\u003eForeword byMichael Grinder ix\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eForeword byMichael Port xi\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eAbout the Author xiii\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eAcknowledgments xv\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eAbout This Book xvii\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eIntroduction 1\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eUnderstanding the Difference between Power, Intimidation, and Influence 6\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHow Influence Equals Opportunity 7\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eItems of Note 10\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e1 The Signals You Are Sending 13\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eGood versus Bad Nonverbals 15\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e2 How the Signals Work 19\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eIntentional Gestures Are a Powerful Tool 20\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eWhen and How the Gesture Happens 22\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHow Long to Hold the Gesture 25\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e“But Wait, There’s More . . .” Connecting Two Ideas Nonverbally 25\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHow to Disconnect Two Ideas Nonverbally 28\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e3 Gestures of Relationship 33\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHow to Attach Yourself to a Message 41\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHow to Create a Visual Placeholder 43\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e4 Gestures of Location 53\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHow to Use Locations 54\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHow to Create a Phantom Location 56\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHow to Assign Negatives to a Location 57\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHow to Avoid Cross-Contaminating Your Message 63\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e5 Gestures That Teach 65\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eKeep the Gesture Simple and Familiar 66\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eVerbal and Nonverbal Congruency 70\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eDo I Always Have to Be Congruent? 71\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e6 Gestures of Expectation and Influence 73\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHow to Use Your Posture to Show Your Confidence 74\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eManage the Behavior—Not the Person 79\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eProactive versus Reactive 80\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eI Expect You to Wait 83\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003ePower Gestures 86\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHow to Confirm Others’ Perception of the Experience 87\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e7 The Eyes Have It 91\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eWhere Do I Put My Eyes? 92\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eWhat Can I Do with My Eyes? 94\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eEyes and Emotion 95\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHow to Manage with Eye Contact 96\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003ePros and Cons of Little or No Eye Contact 97\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e8 How the Signals Sound—The Voice 101\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eVoice Patterns of What We Do andWho We Are 105\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHow to Use the Credible Voice Pattern 106\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHow to Use the Connection Voice Pattern 108\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eIs Your Voice Sabotaging You? 110\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eAddicted to the Verbal Pause 112\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe Need to Breathe 113\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e9 The Unintentional Nonverbals 119\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eFidget Reboot Button 121\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe Nonverbal Outburst 122\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e10 The Fine Print in Your Owner’s Manual 125\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe Trick Is to Remain Flexible 126\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eMaster the Behavior Game 128\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e11 Putting It All to Work 137\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eFeelings Change Facts 138\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eEmotions Motivate 139\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHow to Communicate a Clear Direction 140\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eObserve to Become Self-Aware 141\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHow Context Controls the Message 141\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eFinal Thoughts: Master Your Message—Next Steps 146\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eCheat Sheets 149\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eResources and Recommended Reading 158\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eQuick Reference Guides 160\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eIndex 170\u003c\/p\u003e  \u003cb\u003eSharon Sayler\u003c\/b\u003e is the co-owner and founder of Impression Engineers, an award-winning online marketing and design company. As a Certified Group Dynamics and Behavioral Coach, Sharon trains, counsels, and coaches professionals to become stronger, more influential communicators and leaders. Sharon is an active contributor to SelfGrowth.com and has, for the past two and a half years, written the weekly blogs Best Impressions and Beyond Lip Service.  \u003cp\u003eVisit Sharon online at www.SharonSayler.com and www.ImpressionEngineers.com.\u003c\/p\u003e  Your mouth might be saying one thing in meetings, interviews, presentations, and other high-stakes interactions, but what about the rest of you? When you're trying to get a message across, does your body and attitude reflect your enthusiasm or detract from it? If you want your verbal \u003ci\u003eand\u003c\/i\u003e nonverbal signals working together seamlessly for maximum impact, \u003ci\u003eWhat Your Body Says\u003c\/i\u003e gives you the tools to fully master your messages.  \u003cp\u003eLaying out simple methods that are easy to use and remember, this helpful guide offers a proven approach based on the author's years of research and practice. 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Apply the concepts in this powerful guide, and the results—stronger relationships, influential leadership, and enthusiastic responses—will start coming in loud and clear!\u003c\/p\u003e  \"This fascinating book shows you how to become more influential and persuasive with every person you meet.\" —BRIAN TRACY, coauthor, The Power of Charm  \u003cp\u003e\"The simple techniques presented in this powerful book give you the tools to express your own authentic self and achieve any dream.\"—MARCIA WIEDER, CEO and founder, Dream University\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\"As a person who has devoted his life to communication, I stand in awe of Sharon Sayler's brilliant book, \u003ci\u003eWhat Your Body Says\u003c\/i\u003e. It reveals essential truths in a very readable way and anyone who reads it will be able to capitalize upon the enlightenment she offers in better understanding and communicating any kinds of messages.\" —JAY CONRAD LEVINSON, the Father of Guerrilla Marketing, author, Guerrilla Marketing book series\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\"\u003ci\u003eWhat Your Body Says\u003c\/i\u003e gives you the power to nonverbally express your own authentic and confident self.\"—LORRIE MORGAN-FERRERO, www.redhotcopy.com\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\"\u003ci\u003eWhat Your Body Says\u003c\/i\u003e is all about integrity—aligning your speech and your actions. 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