What Matters Most: The Get Your Shit Together Guide to Wills, Money, Insurance, and Life's "What-ifs"

A practical look at putting your life
together written by the founder of the internationally celebrated website Get
Your Shit Together and informed by the author’s personal experience after her
husband was killed in a biking accident. Part memoir, part hard-working
how-to guidebook, What Matters Most inspires readers to get their ‘affairs in order’
before the unthinkable (or inevitable) happens.

On July 17, 2009, Chanel
Reynolds’s husband, José, was sideswiped by a van while cycling near their home
in Seattle. In the aftermath of her husband’s sudden death, Reynolds quickly
realized that she was left bewildered and underprepared for what happens next.
What was the password to his phone? Did they sign their wills? How much
insurance did they have? Could she afford the house? And what the hell was
probate court anyway? Simply put, when life went sideways she didn’t have her
shit together.

As it turns out, most of us
don’t either. We’re too busy, in denial, overwhelmed, don’t know where to
start. We procrastinate or outright avoid having these difficult yet critical
conversations.

Reynolds learned the hard way
that hoping for the best is not a plan, but you don’t have to. Drawing on her
first-hand experience, expert advice, and the unparalleled resources she’s
compiled from her popular website and checklists, Reynolds lends her,
friendly, human voice to help readers navigate and avoid much of confusion,
overwhelm, and uncertainty when ‘something happens’ and learn how to:

• Create a will, living will,
and power of attorney documents

• Update (or finally get) the
right life insurance policy

• Start or grow an emergency
fund and prioritize your spending

• Make a watertight emergency
and ‘What-If’ plan

• Keep secure, up-to-date
records of personal information

Authoritative yet intimate,
grounded but irreverent, Reynolds’s voice carries readers through a tough
subject with candor and compassion. Weaving personal story with hard-won
wisdom, What Matters Most is the approachable, no-nonsense handbook we
all need to living a life free of worry and “what ifs.”

“There’s little point in worrying about a future death, but simple acts of planning can relieve your worries, protect and prepare you for what lies ahead, and give you a calmer and more peaceful today. These preparations are not only pragmatic acts, but sacred gifts to our future selves and to those we love who will survive us. What Matters Most is a reassuring, step-by-step guide to a better future in the midst of grief and loss.” - Katy Butler, author of Knocking on Heaven’s Door and The Art of Dying Well

“Chanel Reynolds took her own unthinkable tragedy and turned it into a rallying cry for us all to get our sh*t together before it’s too late. In What Matters Most, she is your funny, irreverent friend, who’s here to show you tough love. The time for death denial and keeping your head in the sand is over.” - Caitlin Doughty, New York Times bestselling author of Smoke Gets in Your Eyes

“Grief is a monster better confronted without a legal, financial and logistical mess left behind; Chanel’s wisdom is a gift to all future dead people wanting to lift some of the burden of loss off their surviving loved ones. What Matters Most offers you the chance to consider, and find, those critical answers.” - Rebecca Soffer, coauthor of Modern Loss: Candid Conversation About Grief. Beginners Welcome

“If anything will make you finally write a will, get life insurance, make a folder with all your passwords, or write letters to your loved ones, this remarkable book is it.” - CrossCut (Seattle)

“Reynolds’ story, told from the trenches of life, is powerful and wise. Her message--sort out your finances and get your end-of-life wishes in order before it’s too late--offers readers a generous opportunity to learn from her experiences and be more fully prepared.” - Shelf Awareness

“Reynolds provides not only sound counseling but a straightforward plan for when the unthinkable occurs.” - Library Journal

“How strange to have been so conscious about money in life but lax about where it all goes when I die. That stopped the day I read Chanel’s book. How free I feel to have these tasks done.” - Vicki Robin, New York Times bestselling author of Your Money or Your Life