{"product_id":"what-do-i-say-isbn-9780470561751","title":"What Do I Say?","description":"\u003cp\u003eThe must-have guide to honestly and sensitively answering your clients' questions\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eWritten to help therapists view their clients' questions as collaborative elements of clinical work, What Do I Say? explores the questions—some direct, others unspoken—that all therapists, at one time or another, will encounter from clients. Authors and practicing therapists Linda Edelstein and Charles Waehler take a thought-provoking look at how answers to clients' questions shape a therapeutic climate of expression that encourages personal discovery and growth.\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eStrategically arranged in a question-and-answer format for ease of use, this hands-on guide is conversational in tone and filled with personal examples from experienced therapists on twenty-three hot-button topics, including religion, sex, money, and boundaries. What Do I Say? tackles actual client questions, such as:\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cul\u003e \u003cli\u003e \u003cp\u003eCan you help me? (Chapter 1, The Early Sessions)\u003c\/p\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e \u003cli\u003e \u003cp\u003eSorry I am late. Can we have extra time? (Chapter 9, Boundaries)\u003c\/p\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e \u003cli\u003e \u003cp\u003eI don't believe in all this therapy crap. What do you think about that? (Chapter 3, Therapeutic Process)\u003c\/p\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e \u003cli\u003e \u003cp\u003eWhy is change so hard? (Chapter 4, Expectations About Change)\u003c\/p\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e \u003cli\u003e \u003cp\u003eWill you attend my graduation\/wedding\/musical performance\/speech\/business grand opening? (Chapter 20, Out of the Office)\u003c\/p\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e \u003cli\u003e \u003cp\u003eWhere are you going on vacation? (Chapter 10, Personal Questions)\u003c\/p\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e \u003cli\u003e \u003cp\u003eI gave your name to a friend . . . Will you see her? (Chapter 9, Boundaries)\u003c\/p\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e \u003cli\u003e \u003cp\u003eShould I pray about my problems? (Chapter 12, Religion and Spirituality)\u003c\/p\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e \u003cli\u003e \u003cp\u003eAre you like all those other liberals who believe gay people have equal rights? (Chapter 13, Prejudice)\u003c\/p\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e \u003c\/ul\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe power of therapy lies in the freedom it offers clients to discuss anything and everything. It's not surprising then, that clients will surprise therapists with their experiences and sometimes with the questions they ask. What Do I Say? reveals how these questions—no matter how difficult or uncomfortable—can be used to support the therapeutic process rather than derail the therapist–client relationship.\u003c\/p\u003e  \u003cp\u003ePreface ix\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eAcknowledgments xv\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003ePART 1 Client Questions in a Broad Context\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eIntroduction to Part 1 1\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eWhy Do Clients’ Questions Cause Apprehension? 3\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eWhat Do the Different Theories Advise? 5\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eRemember, It’s Not About You 11\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eGuidelines for Answering Questions 13\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eStyle and Language Considerations 17\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eFurther Thoughts 23\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003ePART 2 Client Questions and Responses by Topic\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eIntroduction to Part 2 25\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e1 The Early Sessions 27\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e2 Experience 43\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e3 Therapeutic Process 54\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e4 Expectations About Change 70\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e5 Techniques 80\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e6 Professional Role 94\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e7 Money 107\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e8 Confidentiality 119\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e9 Boundaries 131\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e10 Personal Questions 148\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e11 Sexuality 169\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e12 Religion and Spirituality 185\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e13 Prejudice 201\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e14 Stigma 209\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e15 Physical Appearance 217\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e16 Dreams 233\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e17 Therapists’ Reactions 245\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e18 Individual and Cultural Differences 259\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e19 Involving Others 273\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e20 Out of the Office 285\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e21 Keeping in Touch 304\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e22 Life Events 314\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e23 Ending Therapy 324\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eConcluding Thoughts 343\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eReferences 347\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eIndex 351\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eAbout the Authors 357\u003c\/p\u003e \u003ci\u003e\"What Do I Say?\u003c\/i\u003e is a useful guide for beginning psychotherapists and, therefore, is appropriate for most graduate courses on psychotherapeutic process. The book is equally useful for any psychotherapy supervisor...\" (\u003ci\u003ePsychotherapy\u003c\/i\u003e, 2012)  \u003cp\u003eLinda N. Edelstein, PhD, is a supervisor and clinical psychologist with thirty years' experience. She has been teaching graduate students since 1987. For the last seven years, she has taught a popular graduate course entitled Adult Development at Northwestern University in Evanston, Illinois. Prior to this appointment, she was on the faculty at the Chicago School of Professional Psychology for fifteen years, where students twice voted her Teacher of the Year. She maintains a practice in Evanston and Chicago.\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eCharles A. Waehler, PhD, is an Associate Professor in the Collaborative Program in Counseling Psychology at The University of Akron. He has taught both beginning and advanced practica, assessment courses, and classes in personality and psychopathology. Dr. Waehler is a Fellow in the Society for Personality Assessment. Throughout his academic career, Dr. Waehler has been a practicing psychologist seeing individual adolescents and adults. For the last fifteen years, he has been affiliated with Cornerstone Psychological Services in Medina, Ohio. His research interests include the counseling process and personality assessment.\u003c\/p\u003e  \u003cp\u003eThe must-have guide to honestly and sensitively answering your clients' questions\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eWritten to help therapists view their clients' questions as collaborative elements of clinical work, What Do I Say? explores the questions—some direct, others unspoken—that all therapists, at one time or another, will encounter from clients. Authors and practicing therapists Linda Edelstein and Charles Waehler take a thought-provoking look at how answers to clients' questions shape a therapeutic climate of expression that encourages personal discovery and growth.\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eStrategically arranged in a question-and-answer format for ease of use, this hands-on guide is conversational in tone and filled with personal examples from experienced therapists on twenty-three hot-button topics, including religion, sex, money, and boundaries. What Do I Say? tackles actual client questions, such as:\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cul\u003e \u003cli\u003e \u003cp\u003eCan you help me? (Chapter 1, The Early Sessions)\u003c\/p\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e \u003cli\u003e \u003cp\u003eSorry I am late. Can we have extra time? (Chapter 9, Boundaries)\u003c\/p\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e \u003cli\u003e \u003cp\u003eI don't believe in all this therapy crap. What do you think about that? (Chapter 3, Therapeutic Process)\u003c\/p\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e \u003cli\u003e \u003cp\u003eWhy is change so hard? (Chapter 4, Expectations About Change)\u003c\/p\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e \u003cli\u003e \u003cp\u003eWill you attend my graduation\/wedding\/musical performance\/speech\/business grand opening? (Chapter 20, Out of the Office)\u003c\/p\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e \u003cli\u003e \u003cp\u003eWhere are you going on vacation? (Chapter 10, Personal Questions)\u003c\/p\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e \u003cli\u003e \u003cp\u003eI gave your name to a friend . . . Will you see her? (Chapter 9, Boundaries)\u003c\/p\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e \u003cli\u003e \u003cp\u003eShould I pray about my problems? (Chapter 12, Religion and Spirituality)\u003c\/p\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e \u003cli\u003e \u003cp\u003eAre you like all those other liberals who believe gay people have equal rights? (Chapter 13, Prejudice)\u003c\/p\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e \u003c\/ul\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe power of therapy lies in the freedom it offers clients to discuss anything and everything. It's not surprising then, that clients will surprise therapists with their experiences and sometimes with the questions they ask. What Do I Say? reveals how these questions—no matter how difficult or uncomfortable—can be used to support the therapeutic process rather than derail the therapist–client relationship.\u003c\/p\u003e  \"This book is terrific. As a seasoned psychotherapist and instructor, I found it to be an intelligent and sensitive guide that will shepherd therapists through the potential pitfalls of client questions—especially those that snag us at the beginning of our careers. It is a deftly written wellspring of practical advice that will allay the anxieties of students and therapists alike.\"\u003cbr\u003e —\u003cb\u003eMichael C. LaSala\u003c\/b\u003e, Ph.D., LCSW, Director of MSW Program, Rutgers, The State University of New Jersey  \u003cp\u003e\"On one level, What Do I Say? is a practical \"how to\" guide offering some excellent suggestions for responding to the many questions that clients can ask. But dig deeper and you'll also find an in-depth exploration of the therapeutic relationship and the ways in which questions from clients are opportunities to explore and to strengthen this relationship.\"\u003cbr\u003e —\u003cb\u003eMary Kate Reese\u003c\/b\u003e, PhD, LPC, NCC, Professor and Associate Chair, Counseling Department Argosy University\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\"I commend the authors for an excellent contribution to the literature on therapy process and how to navigate the many challenges we face as working clinicians. In our training, we spend so much time on the bigger picture and many times have little opportunity to try our hand at the individual questions that will surely arise in our work with others. What Do I Say? is the perfect remedy, and this is the most practical book I have come across in my training and professional development.\"\u003cbr\u003e —\u003cb\u003eRaymond L. Sheets, Jr.\u003c\/b\u003e, M.A., 5th Year Ph.D. Student in Counseling Psychology Western Michigan University\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Wiley","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":47990476407013,"sku":"NP9780470561751","price":43.95,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/1842\/7735\/files\/9780470561751.jpg?v=1761787979","url":"https:\/\/k12savings.com\/es\/products\/what-do-i-say-isbn-9780470561751","provider":"K12savings","version":"1.0","type":"link"}