{"product_id":"the-tiger-and-the-cage-isbn-9781593767235","title":"The Tiger and the Cage","description":"\u003cb\u003eFor readers of Susannah Cahalan’s \u003ci\u003eBrain on Fire\u003c\/i\u003e and Porochista Khakpour’s \u003ci\u003eSick\u003c\/i\u003e, this exquisitely wrought debut memoir recounts a lifelong struggle with chronic pain and endometriosis, while speaking more broadly to anyone who’s been told “it’s all in your head” \u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eIn Catholic grade school, Emma Bolden has a strange experience with a teacher that unleashes a short-lived, persistent coughing spell—something the medical establishment will later use against her as she struggles through chronic pain and fainting spells that coincide with her menstrual cycle.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eWith \u003ci\u003eThe Tiger and the Cage\u003c\/i\u003e, Bolden uses her own experience as the starting point for a journey through the institutional misogyny of Western medicine—from a history of labeling women “hysterical” and parading them as curiosities to a lack of information on causes or cures for endometriosis, despite more than a century of documented cases. Recounting botched surgeries and dire side effects from pharmaceuticals affecting her and countless others, Bolden speaks to the ways people are often failed by the official narratives of institutions meant to protect them.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eBolden also interrogates a narrative commonly imposed on menstruating bodies: the expected story arc of marriage and children. She interrogates her body as a painful site she must mentally escape and a countdown she hopes to beat by having a child before a hysterectomy. Only later does she find language and acceptance for her asexality and the life she needs to lead. Through all its gripping, devastating, and beautiful threads, \u003ci\u003eThe Tiger and the Cage\u003c\/i\u003e says what Bolden and so many like her have needed to hear: \u003ci\u003eI see you, and I believe you.\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eAn \u003ci\u003eElectric Literature \u003c\/i\u003eFavorite Nonfiction Book of the Year\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"Bolden’s memoir digs into the layers of sociocultural beliefs around menstruation, fertility, the expectations of women’s role to mate and procreate, and the indivisible links between sexuality, psychological security, desire, and self-awareness.\" —Cat Woods, \u003ci\u003eShondaland\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"An intimate, eloquent personal history of survival and self-discovery . . . One of the most riveting and accessible accounts of the experience of pain you'll read all year.\" —Mary Elizabeth Williams, \u003ci\u003eSalon\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"A resounding testament to the power of putting words to the experiences rendered opaque by society at large . . . Bolden approaches both her memories and the power structures that shaped them with a clarity that often crackles with rage.\" —Emma R. Cohen, \u003ci\u003eHazlitt\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"If pain is taboo, then the body becomes a very heavy thing. In \u003ci\u003eThe Tiger and the Cage\u003c\/i\u003e, Bolden carries that weight in gorgeous, poetic prose infused with the kind of honesty that is difficult to turn away from . . . For any reader ever cast as the unreliable narrator of their own story, I suspect Bolden’s memoir will feel like a fierce, validating balm.\" —Wynter K Miller, \u003ci\u003eElectric Literature\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"Bolden shines an unbearable, clinical light on how our desire to please, to be good, which serves us so well in school, can also lead to disaster . . . My sincerest hope is any woman—every woman—with medical problems no male doctor has yet bothered to really try and understand reads \u003ci\u003eThe Tiger and the Cage\u003c\/i\u003e, a book that feels like the beginning of a new genre. There’s a guidebook, now. And a guide.\" —Emily Van Duyne, \u003ci\u003eLiterary Hub\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"[Bolden's] lyrical descriptions and emotional honesty render this harrowing story hard to put down, and her critique of the medical establishment is both sharp and fair . . . A well-written, deeply researched, and searingly frank memoir about reproductive health.\" —\u003ci\u003eKirkus Reviews\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"Dark and riveting . . . [It] stings as much as it astounds.\" —\u003ci\u003ePublishers Weekly\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Emma Bolden’s \u003ci\u003eThe Tiger and the Cage\u003c\/i\u003e is a memoir written as an investigation, a dive into what it means to be a woman caught in a medical establishment that doesn’t listen to women. I read this book in a fury. Bolden’s imagery is stark and vivid, and the prose moves in a spiral, encircling her pain, her confusion, and her strength. This book will make you laugh, cry, scream, and bleach your hair while you sing along loudly to Tori Amos. I am so grateful \u003ci\u003eThe Tiger and the Cage\u003c\/i\u003e exists and so grateful for Emma Bolden’s generosity.” —Emme Lund, author of \u003ci\u003eThe Boy With a Bird in His Chest\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“In \u003ci\u003eThe Tiger and the Cage\u003c\/i\u003e, the call is coming from inside the house—or, rather, from inside the body. In the beautiful prose of a poet, Emma Bolden confronts the patriarchal foundation of the institutions that make our lives what they are: education, religion, medicine. If patriarchy—and frankly, misogyny—is part of medical ‘care,’ then via each surgeon’s scalpel and each prescribed medication, it is also inside us. \u003ci\u003eThe Tiger and the Cage\u003c\/i\u003e opened my eyes, enraged me, and left me in awe of Bolden’s enormous talent as a writer, intelligence as a critic, and courage as a survivor.” —Maggie Smith, author of \u003ci\u003eGoldenrod\u003c\/i\u003e and\u003ci\u003e Keep Moving\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“A harrowing portrait of endurance and grief and resilience. With raw honesty and exacting detail, Bolden tells an intimate story while exploring the demands our oppressive culture places on women—our supposed hopes and dreams, our supposed desires and fears, and most poignantly of all the expectations on our bodies, what they should do and how they should behave. It is part damning critique of our male-dominated medical institutions and, quietly, a loving tribute to a mother-daughter bond.” —Julianna Baggott, author of \u003ci\u003eThe Seventh Book of Wonders\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"Layer by shimmering layer, Emma Bolden transforms the story of her body into the story of a search for truth. \u003ci\u003eThe Tiger and the Cage\u003c\/i\u003e elegantly interrogates narratives of gender, pain, sexuality, and family to reveal the freedom underneath.\" —Angela Chen, author of \u003ci\u003eAce: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e“In brief, lyrical, and powerful essays, Emma Bolden unleashes her story of endometriosis, and the misogyny she endured at the hands of the medical establishment, interwoven with stories of a supportive and loving Southern upbringing. \u003ci\u003eThe Tiger and the Cage\u003c\/i\u003e is a torrent of feeling. It is a left-hook to the jaw to anyone learning for the first time about the neglectful ways women are often treated when their bodies need help. It is a soft, supportive whisper to those of us who know it too well. May it find its way into the hands of doctors and those in training, and their patients, too, who will find a voice in this book, one speaking with clarity and purpose, that affirms their own experiences.” —Chantel Acevedo, author of \u003ci\u003eThe Distant Marvels\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“This philosophical, funny, and beautiful memoir is both a work of art and a deep conversation about the rift between mind and body, those two great friends, and rivals, handcuffed together forever. Well-armed with a genuine Greek chorus, a truly excellent and private sense of humor, and incredible gifts for metaphor, Emma Bolden opens the vault for the reader into the true experience of how it feels to both reckon daily with a ravaging illness and also to carry on and make the most of one's life.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eIf literature is the great river that runs alongside life, interpreting it, then this book is that river—[it] is deep and vigorous and vital, flashing with transcendence, thinking so richly about the human body, wondering at its mortality and fragility with love and humor and patience and strength.” —Rebecca Lee, author of\u003ci\u003e Bobcat and Other Stories\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cb\u003eEMMA BOLDEN\u003c\/b\u003e is the author of \u003ci\u003eHouse Is an Enigma\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003emedi(t)ations\u003c\/i\u003e, and \u003ci\u003eMaleficae\u003c\/i\u003e. The recipient of a National Endowment for the Arts Literary Fellowship, her work has appeared in \u003ci\u003eThe Norton Introduction to Literature, The Best American Poetry, The Best Small Fictions\u003c\/i\u003e, and journals including \u003ci\u003eMississippi Review, Seneca Review, StoryQuarterly, Prairie Schooner, TriQuarterly\u003c\/i\u003e, and \u003ci\u003eShenandoah\u003c\/i\u003e. She is the associate editor in chief for \u003ci\u003eTupelo Quarterly\u003c\/i\u003e.","brand":"Soft Skull","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":46301981049061,"sku":"NP9781593767235","price":17.95,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/1842\/7735\/files\/9781593767235.jpg?v=1767741855","url":"https:\/\/k12savings.com\/es\/products\/the-tiger-and-the-cage-isbn-9781593767235","provider":"K12savings","version":"1.0","type":"link"}