{"product_id":"the-bridge-ladies-a-memoir-isbn-9780062354464","title":"The Bridge Ladies: A Memoir","description":"\u003cp\u003eA fifty-year-old Bridge game provides an unexpected way to cross the generational divide between a daughter and her mother. Betsy Lerner takes us on a powerfully personal literary journey, where we learn a little about Bridge and a lot about life.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAfter a lifetime defining herself in contrast to her mother’s “don’t ask, don’t tell” generation, Lerner finds herself back in her childhood home, not five miles from the mother she spent decades avoiding. When Roz needs help after surgery, it falls to Betsy to take care of her. She expected a week of tense civility; what she got instead were the Bridge Ladies. Impressed by their loyalty, she saw something her generation lacked. Facebook was great, but it wouldn’t deliver a pot roast.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eTentatively at first, Betsy becomes a regular at her mother’s Monday Bridge club. Through her friendships with the ladies, she is finally able to face years of misunderstandings and family tragedy, the Bridge table becoming the common ground she and Roz never had.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBy turns darkly funny and deeply moving, \u003cem\u003eThe Bridge Ladies\u003c\/em\u003e is the unforgettable story of a hard-won—but never-too-late—bond between mother and daughter.\u003c\/p\u003e | \u003cp\u003eA fifty-year-old Bridge club provides an unexpected connection across a generational divide between mother and daughter. Betsy Lerner tells a funny, intimate, and deeply affecting story where we learn a little about Bridge and a lot about life.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAfter a lifetime of defining herself against her mother’s Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell generation, Lerner, an enthusiastic member of the Sex, Drugs, and Rock ’n’ Roll generation, found herself back home in her suburban Connecticut town. It represented everything she had wanted to flee: namely the traditional life her mother stood for. Yet when Roz needed help after surgery, Betsy stepped in. She expected a week of tense civility; what she got were the Bridge Ladies. Impressed by their faithful visits and home-cooked meals, she saw something her own generation lacked: Facebook was great, but it wouldn’t deliver a pot roast. \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eTentatively at first, Betsy became a regular fixture at her mother’s Monday Bridge club. Before long, she braved the intimidating world of Bridge—a game, she writes, “that well acquaints you with your deficits”—and fell under its spell. Unexpectedly, the Bridge Ladies became a Greek chorus, a catalyst for change between Betsy and Roz as they reconciled years of painful misunderstandings and harrowing silences. The Bridge table became the common ground they never had.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eDarkly funny and deeply moving, \u003cem\u003eThe Bridge Ladies\u003c\/em\u003e weaves the histories of the ladies with those of Betsy and her mother across a lifetime of missed opportunities. The result is an unforgettable story of a hard-won—but never-too-late—bond between mother and daughter.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAdvance Praise for \u003cem\u003eThe Bridge Ladies\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Through the alchemy of a grand game, Betsy Lerner has woven a universal coming-of-age story for both mother and daughter. A poignant, humorous, and often painful struggle through the pageantry of playing cards; a woman’s face on every one.”—Patti Smith, author \u003cem\u003eof Just Kids\u003c\/em\u003e and \u003cem\u003eM Train\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Betsy Lerner’s ladies are our ladies, our mothers, grandmothers, and aunts. Lerner takes us back to their tables, capturing a group of wonderful American women—growing older now and braving new battles—with sweetness, humor, and sharp perceptiveness. This is a book with heart and feeling.”—George Hodgman, author of \u003cem\u003eBettyville\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Lerner takes us on a journey of understanding: the card game, the women who play it, their lives and relationships. In Lerner’s beautifully observed account, Bridge becomes both a literal and figurative pathway to repairing an even more precious bond: her own relationship to her mother.”—Deborah Tannen, author of \u003cem\u003eYou Just Don’t Understand\u003c\/em\u003e and \u003cem\u003eYou’re Wearing THAT?\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“\u003cem\u003eThe Bridge Ladies\u003c\/em\u003e reminded me of \u003cem\u003eTuesdays with Morrie\u003c\/em\u003e, except it takes place on Mondays and it has five Morries. In this exquisitely written book, there’s humor, candor, no-nonsense wisdom—and portraits of five women whose like we won’t see again. I devoured it in one greedy sitting, and started rereading as soon as I’d finished.”—Will Schwalbe, author of \u003cem\u003eThe End of Your Life Book Club\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“This is the best book about mothers and daughters I’ve read in decades, maybe ever. It’s about mother-daughter conflict, the desire to love and be loved, aging and loss, discovery and renewal. Betsy Lerner is a beautiful, achingly honest writer, and \u003cem\u003eThe Bridge Ladies\u003c\/em\u003e is at once heartbreaking and hilarious, uplifting and profound.”—Amy Chua, author of \u003cem\u003eBattle Hymn of the Tiger Mother\u003c\/em\u003e and \u003cem\u003eThe Triple Package\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e | \u003cp\u003e“\u003cem\u003eThe Bridge Ladies\u003c\/em\u003e reminded me of \u003cem\u003eTuesdays with Morrie\u003c\/em\u003e, except it takes place on Mondays and it has has five Morries. In this exquisitely written book, there’s humor, candor, no-nonsense wisdom—and portraits of five women whose like we won’t see again. I devoured it in one greedy sitting, and started re-reading as soon as I finished.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eWill Schwalbe, author of The End of Your Life Book Club\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“The Bridge Ladies reminded me of Tuesdays with Morrie, except it takes place on Mondays and has five Morries. Exquisitely written, in this book are portraits of five women whose like we won’t see again. I devoured it in one greedy sitting, and started re-reading as soon as I finished.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eWill Schwalbe, author of the New York Times bestseller The End of Your Life Book Club\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Betsy Lerner’s ladies are our ladies, our mothers, grandmothers, and aunts. Lerner takes us back to their tables, capturing a group of wonderful American women—growing older now and braving new battles—with sweetness, humor and sharp perceptiveness. This is a book with heart and feeling.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eGeorge Hodgman, author of Bettyville\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Through the alchemy of a grand game, Betsy Lerner has woven a universal coming-of-age story for both mother and daughter. A poignant, humorous and often painful struggle through the pageantry of playing cards; a woman’s face on every one.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003ePatti Smith, author of Just Kids and M Train\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“This is the best book about mothers and daughters I’ve read in decades, maybe ever.  I just loved it, related to it viscerally, kept calling up my daughters to read passages aloud to them.  It’s about—in addition to Bridge, of course—mother-daughter conflict, the desire to love and be loved, aging and loss, discovery and renewal.  Betsy Lerner is a beautiful, achingly honest writer, and \u003cem\u003eThe Bridge Ladies\u003c\/em\u003e is at once heartbreaking and hilarious, uplifting and profound.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eAmy Chua, Yale Law Professor and author of Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother and The Triple Package: How Three Unlikely Traits Explain the Rise and Fall of Cultural Groups in America\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“A searching, funny, warm memoir.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eO, the Oprah Magazine\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“A smart and colorful memoir.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eMaureen Corrigan, NPR's Fresh Air\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“A deeply affecting memoir...a generous and honest examination, she honors these women’s lives” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eBoston Globe\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“\u003cem\u003eThe Bridge Ladies\u003c\/em\u003e is an uplifting account of a baby boomer’s attempt to understand her mother’s generation. Lerner never lets herself off the hook, either, and the result is candid, fresh and enlightening.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eProvidence Journal\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“This is the best book about mothers and daughters I’ve read in decades, maybe ever.  It’s about mother-daughter conflict, the desire to love and be loved, aging and loss, discovery and renewal. Betsy Lerner is a beautiful, achingly honest writer, and \u003cem\u003eThe Bridge Ladies\u003c\/em\u003e is at once heartbreaking and hilarious.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eAmy Chua, Yale Law Professor and author of Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother and The Triple Package: How Three Unlikely Traits Explain the Rise and Fall of Cultural Groups in America\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Lerner takes us on a journey of understanding: the card game, the women who play it, their lives and relationships.  In Lerner’s beautifully observed account, Bridge becomes both a literal and figurative pathway to repairing an even more precious bond: her own relationship to her mother.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eDeborah Tannen, author of You Just Don’t Understand and You're Wearing THAT?\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“A heartfelt and affecting memoir.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eWashington Post\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“In her absorbing memoir, Lerner probes marriage, career, motherhood, depression, aging, death, religion and sex, discovering that, although the Bridge Ladies’ generation differs from hers, they share common values of love and kinship. This beautifully written, bittersweet story of ladies of a certain age and era will have wide appeal.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003ePublishers Weekly (starred review)\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“A book for two generations.” - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eDallas Morning News\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Lerner’s memoir makes a case for spending time together under the rules of neutrality imposed by a game, and approach to living that refrains from over-sharing and outward complaining to concentrate on the task at hand. 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