{"product_id":"the-awkward-thoughts-of-w-kamau-bell-isbn-9781101985885","title":"The Awkward Thoughts of W. Kamau Bell","description":"You may know W. Kamau Bell from his new, Emmy-nominated hit show on CNN, \u003ci\u003eUnited Shades of America\u003c\/i\u003e. Or maybe you’ve read about him in the\u003ci\u003e New York Times\u003c\/i\u003e, which called him “the most promising new talent in political comedy in many years.” Or maybe from \u003ci\u003eThe New Yorker\u003c\/i\u003e, fawning over his brand of humor writing: \"Bell’s gimmick is intersectional progressivism: he treats racial, gay, and women’s issues as inseparable.\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eAfter all this love and praise, it’s time for the next step: a book. \u003ci\u003eThe Awkward Thoughts of W. Kamau Bell\u003c\/i\u003e is a humorous, well-informed take on the world today, tackling a wide range of issues, such as race relations; fatherhood; the state of law enforcement today; comedians and superheroes; right-wing politics; left-wing politics; failure; his interracial marriage; white men; his up-bringing by very strong-willed, race-conscious, yet ideologically opposite parents; his early days struggling to find his comedic voice, then his later days struggling to find his comedic voice; why he never seemed to fit in with the Black comedy scene . . . or the white comedy scene; how he was a Black nerd way before that became a thing; how it took his wife and an East Bay lesbian to teach him that racism and sexism often walk hand in hand; and much, much more. | \"Bell... tackles everything from racism to his life growing up as a Blerd (Black nerd) to his struggles to find his comedic voice in this illuminating memoir.\" \u003ci\u003e—\u003cb\u003eEntertainment Weekly\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“With insight and aplomb, stand-up comedian Bell recounts his career arc...Those unfamiliar with Bell’s work or expecting a lighthearted read from a popular comedian will be surprised by the book’s breadth and depth...This informative read will be illuminating and worthwhile for aspiring comedians and general readers.”\u003ci\u003e—\u003cb\u003ePublishers Weekly\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“At times funny, at times somber, this debut will be enjoyed by fans of \u003ci\u003eUnited Shades\u003c\/i\u003e, Issa Rae’s TV series \u003ci\u003eInsecure\u003c\/i\u003e, and anyone who enjoys comedy with a personal touch.”\u003ci\u003e—\u003cb\u003eLibrary Journal\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“A funny, heartfelt tête-à-tête with a down-to-earth star.”\u003ci\u003e—\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eBoston Magazine\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“At turns sarcastic, poetic and enraged, Bell's language is potent. His own realization of how racism intersects with other forms of discrimination, like sexism, broadens his platform and embraces a wide audience. \u003ci\u003eAwkward Thoughts \u003c\/i\u003eis definitely entertaining, but it also invites readers to look through different eyes. And those who aren't inspired to take action will at least have considered a new view. As Bell says, ‘that's progress.’”—\u003cb\u003eShelf Awareness (starred review)\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“A comprehensive look at what gave rise to Bell’s insightful, critical eye and his hilarious comedy.”\u003ci\u003e—\u003cb\u003eBooklist \u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“A unique perspective of the development of identity comedy in the 21st century.”—\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eKirkus Reviews\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e | \u003cb\u003eW. Kamau Bell\u003c\/b\u003e is a sociopolitical comedian who is the host of the Emmy-nominated hit CNN docuseries \u003ci\u003eUnited Shades of America\u003c\/i\u003e. Before \u003ci\u003eUnited Shades\u003c\/i\u003e, Kamau was best known for his critically acclaimed but criminally short-lived FX comedy series, \u003ci\u003eTotally Biased with W. Kamau Bell\u003c\/i\u003e. The series was nominated for both an NAACP Award and a GLAAD Award. Kamau is also the host of \u003ci\u003eKamau Right Now!\u003c\/i\u003e, a public radio talk show that airs on NPR radio station KALW in San Francisco, and a cohost of the podcasts \u003ci\u003ePolitically Re-Active\u003c\/i\u003e and the memorably named \u003ci\u003eDenzel Washington Is the Greatest Actor of All Time Period\u003c\/i\u003e. \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Before pursuing a career in stand-up comedy, Kamau and his mom lived all over the country. He was born in Palo Alto, California, then moved to Indianapolis, Indiana, then Boston, Massachusetts, then Chicago, Illinois, with several extended visits to his dad's in Mobile, Alabama, mixed in for good measure. Today he lives in Berkeley, California, with his wife and family. | \u003cb\u003eAwkward Thoughts about Superheroes and \u003ci\u003eDoc McStuffins\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e  \u003cbr\u003e When I was a kid I loved superheroes. I loved them in all of their forms. I loved comic books, action figures, superhero movies, and even superhero TV shows. And I was born in 1973, so superhero TV shows were weird. Take the 1970s \u003ci\u003eSpider-Man \u003c\/i\u003eTV show. Spider-Man wore his web shooters on the \u003ci\u003eoutside \u003c\/i\u003eof his costume because apparently the producers thought they were too big and clunky to fit on the \u003ci\u003einside \u003c\/i\u003eof his costume. And also (apparently) the makers of the TV show didn’t think that we, the watchers of the TV show, would suspend our disbelief long enough for the producers to make the \u003ci\u003efake \u003c\/i\u003eweb shooters small enough to put them inside the \u003ci\u003epretend, not-real, made-up freaking costume where they belong\u003c\/i\u003e!\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e There was also \u003ci\u003eThe Incredible Hulk\u003c\/i\u003e. A TV show that I LOVED.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e LOVED! LOVED! LOVED! I loved it so much that my mom cut up old clothes of mine that I could wear while watching the show so that when Dr. David Banner “Hulked out,” I could “Hulk out” too. I know you are thinking that it sounds adorable. But it wasn’t. I was six years old, and I was a very ferocious Hulk. Very ferocious. You’ll just have to take my word for it. The Polaroids have all been destroyed.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003ci\u003eThe Incredible Hulk \u003c\/i\u003ewas a TV show that could only have been born of the 1970s. At its core it was one of comic books’ greatest stories. It was Stan Lee and Marvel Comics’s twist on \u003ci\u003eDr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde \u003c\/i\u003ewith a whole lot of \u003ci\u003eFrankenstein \u003c\/i\u003ethrown in. The Hulk was invented in the throes of the Cold War and America was learning to live in constant fear of nuclear annihilation. A puny—that was the word that the comic often used to describe him—scientist named Dr. Bruce Banner got exposed to way too much gamma radiation while saving a young man from an explosion of gamma radiation. This was a simpler time in superheroes that I honestly miss. Back then, a comic book writer could just write \"bathed in radiation,\" and the reader would say to themselves, \u003ci\u003eWELL OF COURSE! THAT'S DEFINITELY GOING TO LEAD TO MAGICAL POWERS AND NOT SOME FORM OF LYMPHOMA! \u003c\/i\u003ePeople had more room for mystery back then. Now we know too much. The reason that every modern Super­ man movie sucks is because we all sit in the audience thinking, So \u003ci\u003ewait ... Lois is a Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist and she can't figure out that the key to Superman's secret identity is glasses?\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The 1970s were the last time that Superman made sense on the big screen. And the original \u003ci\u003eSuperman \u003c\/i\u003emovie is still better than every other one since (special effects notwithstanding). I loved that movie. In fact, if you asked me who my favorite actor was in 1978, when it came out, I would have instantly said, \"Christopher Reeve!\" Even though I had never seen a movie where he played someone other than Superman. But when I love something I go all in. It's tunnel vision. And it's annoying. All my friends know who my favorite bands are (Living Colour, Fishbone, and Rage Against the Machine); favorite athletes (Michael Jordan and Muhammad Ali); favorite, ummm ... Bruce Lee (Bruce Lee); comedians (Bill Hicks, Chris Rock, Dave Chappelle, Robert Hawkins, Dwayne Kennedy); and actors (as a kid, Christopher Reeve, and as an adult, Denzel Washington, aka the Greatest Actor of All Time Period). And in 1977 my favorite TV show was \u003ci\u003eThe Incredible Hulk, \u003c\/i\u003eand my second favorite TV show was \u003ci\u003eThe Dukes of Hazzard\u003c\/i\u003e, where every week the bright orange car named the General Lee, with the Confederate flag painted on top, would save the day as the two hillbillies, Bo and Luke, inevitably screamed, “YEE-HAW!!!” My mom was so proud.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e But back to superheroes. The reason why the 1970s were the last time \u003ci\u003eSuperman \u003c\/i\u003emade sense as a movie is that the 1970s were also the time when Hollywood got dark and cynical. It was the rise of the auteur as filmmaker. People like Martin Scorsese, Francis Ford Coppola, Stanley Kubrick, and many others. Even Steven Spielberg decided to scare the shit out of us all with \u003ci\u003eJaws\u003c\/i\u003e. And clearly the creators of \u003ci\u003eThe Incredible Hulk \u003c\/i\u003eTV show were all about this darkness too. They took a simple comic book tale that every comic book fan could relate to (puny guy gets pushed to anger and turns into a huge green monster), and they ladled heaps and heaps of the 1970s on it. Actor Bill Bixby played the scientist David Banner. (Reportedly, the makers of the show renamed the character because they thought the name “Bruce” sounded too “gay,” because “puny” is one thing, but “gay” was too weird.) Bixby played David as totally tortured and drowning in guilt. He was on the run from the “sin” of turning himself into a destructive green monster. Later, when I watched reruns of the show as an adult, I could tell that Bixby thought he was a much better actor than the show allowed him to be. He often had the look of the actor who wanted to be acting up against DeNiro and Pacino but got stuck in TV due to his roles in \u003ci\u003eMy Favorite Martian \u003c\/i\u003eand \u003ci\u003eThe Courtship of Eddie’s Father\u003c\/i\u003e. There was a little “I can’t believe this shit” in his face. The same way Harrison Ford looks throughout the first three \u003ci\u003eStar Wars \u003c\/i\u003emovies, as opposed to how he looks in the 2015 \u003ci\u003eStar Wars \u003c\/i\u003emovie: “Thanks for calling me!”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The tone of \u003ci\u003eThe Incredible Hulk \u003c\/i\u003ewas dark. The soundtrack was not the soundtrack of a fun \"superhero show.\" It was a soundtrack filled with mourning and melancholy. And the theme song was all anxiety and foreboding, and had a sullen voice-over that reeked of terror. Whenever David was pushed into \"hulking out,\" he was riddled with regret for what he was about to do as the Hulk.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Bodybuilder Lou Ferrigno played David's alter ego, the Hulk, as a reluctant monster. In the comic books, the Hulk was partially a comedic character, full of malapropisms and broken sentences like \"HULK SMASH!\" But on TV, the Hulk didn't talk. He just wailed plaintively. And the end of every show was virtually exactly the same. It featured David skulking out of town, walking down a road (usually a freeway), thumbing for rides, while the music ended on a dissonant note of dread. There was no \"YAY! The hero has saved the day again!\" And just to fully set it in the 1970s, David was skulking out of town in... bell-bottoms. And that shows you how great an actor Bill Bixby was. Bell-bottoms are the single most difficult item of clothing to wear while also skulking.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e So even though CBS had taken my simple monster tale and turned it into \u003ci\u003eMidnight Cowboy \u003c\/i\u003eminus prostitution plus a six-foot­ five-inch bodybuilder slathered in green body paint (not to say that a six-foot-five-inch bodybuilder slathered in green paint can't par­ticipate in prostitution too)—I LOVED IT! I loved it because no matter how much of the 1970s the producers ladled on the show, the core of it still remained. A person (Banner) who felt powerless and bullied (who knew deep inside that he was smarter and more sensitive than the bullies) could rise up against the bullies as his alter ego (the Hulk). It was literally every comic book geek's dream: \u003ci\u003eNo one understands how smart and cool\/ am. But if they keep pushing \u003c\/i\u003eme, \u003ci\u003eI'll show them.\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e My love of the Hulk and Spider-Man lasted through my teenage years. Superman got left behind in the ’70s. I still watched the movies when they came out, but I didn’t buy the comic books. Superman becomes boring real fast. He’s too strong. Too powerful. He is invulnerable. And his weakness is boring. It’s a rock. A rock from his home planet, Krypton. Who cares? I couldn’t relate to being invulnerable. I was a Black kid growing up in America.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The Hulk and Spider-Man were regular people who had extraordinary abilities. I was also a regular person. I also had extraordinary abilities . . . I mean, I thought I did . . . I hoped I did. And there was something else here too. The Hulk and Spider-Man weren’t white. I mean, yes, they were white people. David Banner and Peter Parker were both white men (OK, Spider-Man was a teenager when he began his superhero career), but when they were superheroes, the Hulk was green (usually with purple pants) and Spider-Man was mostly red and blue. You didn’t know if Spider-Man was white or Black. When the Hulk showed up, nobody said, “Sure, he looks green. But I bet that when he calms down, he whitens up good.”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e That meant, as a kid, I could easily envision being Spider-Man or the Hulk. Everybody knew Superman was white. Everybody knew Batman was white. And those were the big four superheroes when I was a kid. And yes, there were a few Black superheroes around when I was a kid, but nobody really cared about them. They were side dishes to the main-course superheroes. There was Black Lightning, Black Vulcan, the Black Panther . . . Notice anything? Yep, when I was a kid it seemed like every Black superhero had to have the word “Black” in their name. Like it wasn’t enough that they \u003ci\u003ewere \u003c\/i\u003eBlack. It wasn’t enough that their \u003ci\u003eskin \u003c\/i\u003ewas Black. There was seemingly some sort of contractual obligation to put the word \"Black\" in their superhero name. (Bill Cosby made fun of this idea on his cartoon \u003ci\u003eFat Albert and the Cosby Kids \u003c\/i\u003eby naming their favorite superhero the Brown Hornet.) Later, when I grew up, I discovered a Black hero named Blue Marvel, but the only way he got away with not using \"Black\" in his name was to cover his face so you couldn't see his skin. And there is a story in the comic book that once President Kennedy discovers that the Blue Marvel is actually Black, he asks him to retire, because I guess a president having an affair with Marilyn Monroe is one thing, but a BLACK SUPERHERO? ARE YOU CRAZY?\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Creating Black superheroes with the word \"Black\" in their names was a way for America to once again normalize whiteness. It wasn't \u003ci\u003e\"White \u003c\/i\u003eSuperman\" or \u003ci\u003e\"White \u003c\/i\u003eBatman\" or \u003ci\u003e\"White \u003c\/i\u003eGreen Lantern.\" Because \"white\" is normal. White doesn't need to be mentioned. But \"Black,\" on the other hand, needs to be announced. To me, it made the superheroes sound less intimidating, less powerful, less normal than their white counterparts. I think some of that had to do with my own feelings at the time about being Black.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e I was growing up in post-' 60s Civil Rights-era America. I had been taught that Martin Luther King Jr. had ended racism one day when he and his friends took a long walk. But something didn't feel right about that. If racism was over, why was mom always referring to white people as \"crackers\"? Early on in my stand-up act, I had a joke where I said that I was eleven years old before I realized that a cracker was also a delicious snack. I was joking, but just barely. The best kind of joke. And that's what these \"Black \u003ci\u003eBlack\" \u003c\/i\u003esuperhero names felt like: a joke.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Think of the absolute ludicrousness of a superhero putting his own race in his superhero name. You can choose ANY NAME. And you choose something with “Black” in it? The whole idea of taking on a superhero name is to protect your secret identity, AND IN YOUR ALIAS YOU ARE GIVING OUT CLUES TO WHO YOU ARE??? It would be like if instead of Clark Kent just naming himself Superman, he called himself “Superman . . . you know . . . from Smallville.” Putting “Black” in the name just felt corny to me when I was a kid. And that corniness made it obvious that these characters were being created by people who weren’t Black. It went so far that there was actually a white superhero named Goliath, and when his powers ended up in a Black guy, the Black guy’s superhero name was Black Goliath. I have no words for how dumb that is. WHY WOULD THAT BLACK GUY DO THAT TO HIMSELF? Am I supposed to imagine him saying to himself, \u003ci\u003eNobody would ever believe that I’m Goliath. I’d better go by Black Goliath . . . because I have low superhero self-esteem.\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e It may not seem as ridiculous to you. But think about it with a more famous superhero.\u003cbr\u003e “Don’t worry, Lex Luthor. Regular Superman isn’t here. He sent Black Superman instead. We don’t have to fight him. Just call the cops. They’ll take care of him for us. They’ll arrest him for loitering.” And yes, there were Black superheroes who didn’t have the word “Black” in their names—Falcon, Cyborg, Power Man—and there was even a Black Green Lantern who was just named Green Lantern, not Black Green Lantern or Dark Green Lantern . . . or even Pine Green Lantern. But that didn’t seem better. Everybody knew that the \u003ci\u003ereal \u003c\/i\u003eGreen Lantern was (white) Hal Jordan. (Black) John Stewart (yes, the Black Green Lantern’s name was John Stewart) was just holding the position until Hal showed back up ... which Hal always did. And Cyborg didn't really count because his \u003ci\u003ecyborg-ness \u003c\/i\u003emade it such that he didn't really have a secret identity anymore. He had half a robot face. Good luck convincing anybody that you're \u003ci\u003enot \u003c\/i\u003ea Cyborg with that going on.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \"What do you mean, you think I'm Cyborg? You're being ridiculous,I don't look anythinglike Cyborg! ... Anyway, I gotta go change my eye battery and reboot my face's operating system.\"\u003cbr\u003e And Falcon ... Sigh ... Falcon is one of those superheroes of many different races, including white, who just has the general feeling of a comic book writer saying to his boss, \"WHAT? The new superhero is due tomorrow? Ummm ... No ... I totally have some­ thing to show you! It's going to be great. I'm just going to get in my brand-new Ford Falcon and go home and get my brand­ new superhero ... Wait a second! I GOT IT!\" Heroes like Falcon—whether they were meant to or not—felt like they were designed to purposefully give the Black heroes shitty superpowers.\u003cbr\u003e Falcon's big powers were that he had the powers of a falcon ... Also he could talk to falcons. Falcon was like Aquaman but much less impressive. At least Aquaman had a blue whale for backup. Falcon only had one bird hanging out with him. His powers are so ridiculous that when they put the character in the \u003ci\u003eAvengers \u003c\/i\u003emovie, they just gave him some robot wings and left the \"falcon powers\" behind. Rightfully so.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e And Power Man started out as the superhero version of the star of a Blaxploitation film dressed like an extra from \u003ci\u003eThe Pirates of Penzance. \u003c\/i\u003eHe had blue pants, swashbuckler boots, a bright yellow puffy shirt, metal wristbands, and a weird metal headband. Eventually he gave all that nonsense up, and now he just wears regular clothes and goes by the much better name Luke Cage (exploding out of a Netflix box near you!).\u003cbr\u003e So when I was a kid, as much as I paid \u003ci\u003esome \u003c\/i\u003eattention to these Black heroes, I rode hard with Spider-Man and the Hulk. All I had to do was picture my face under all that red and blue fabric of Spider-Man and under Hulk’s green skin. It was easier than calling myself “Black Batman” or trying to get excited by a Black superhero with the powers of a gnat—\u003ci\u003eGnat-Man\u003c\/i\u003e! \u003ci\u003eLike Ant-Man, but even smaller!\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e And this is important. This is about representation. For some reason, white people in America are perfectly comfortable with the idea of people of color just contorting their imaginations such that we can imagine ourselves as white heroes, but white people generally aren’t OK with imagining themselves as Black heroes. Every time there’s talk of a new actor taking on the role of James Bond and Idris Elba’s name comes up, white people freak out: “HOW CAN A BLACK MAN BE JAMES BOND???” Meanwhile Hollywood \u003ci\u003eregularly \u003c\/i\u003etakes characters of color and turns them white whenever it wants. In the movie \u003ci\u003ePrince of Persia\u003c\/i\u003e, the prince (and most everybody else) was white. In the movie \u003ci\u003eGods of Egypt\u003c\/i\u003e, the gods were not Egyptian. I guess their godly status had caused them to transcend the Egyptian plane . . . and skin tone.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e And while we’re on the subject, I’m not even sure that I want Idris to play James Bond. Because I don’t know if I even want a Black James Bond. Well, truth be told, I’m not that excited about the white James Bond. Seems a little rapey and way too homicidal-maniac-y to me. I’m a fan of Idris bringing his own action hero to the big screen. One that he can turn into whatever he wants. It’s not enough to have Black James Bond. We need new heroes. We need new heroes who can build their own legends and not be walking in white characters' footsteps.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Enter Doc \u003ci\u003eMcStuffins.\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The need for Black heroes has become increasingly clear to me since I've had my oldest daughter, Sami. Like me, she was born with the TV gene. She can sit and watch TV for hours. Like it's an Olympic event and she's trying to set a new world record in the five-year-old division. I'm so proud. But it was important to me, as I saw her fall in love with TV the same way I had, that she have heroes who look like her. Not just Black versions of white heroes, not just Black heroes who seem like diminished versions of white heroes, and certainly not just white heroes who require my daughter to always twist and contort her imagination to put herself in those white shoes. I want my daughter to have her own Black \u003ci\u003egirl \u003c\/i\u003e(yup, I'm aiming for the stars here) heroes.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e And that's where \u003ci\u003eDoc\u003c\/i\u003e \u003ci\u003eMcStuffins \u003c\/i\u003ehas come to the rescue. When Sami was around two years old, she was just starting to really dig into TV. I had hooked her through \u003ci\u003eSesame Street, \u003c\/i\u003ethe gateway show to good children's television. \u003ci\u003eSesame Street \u003c\/i\u003ehad been there for me and was there for my daughter. And thanks to YouTube, many of the same exact segments were there for Sami. It gives me great pleasure that Sami knows how to count to twelve using the same jazzy Ella Fitzgerald-esque manner that I learned, thanks to \u003ci\u003eSesame Street. \u003c\/i\u003eBut around the time Sami turned two, a new sheriff showed up in town, and just like in \u003ci\u003eBlazing Saddles, \u003c\/i\u003ethis sheriff was Black ... and not really a sheriff. She was better than a sheriff. She was a doctor. Dottie, aka \"Doc,\" McStuffins. Doc Mc­ Stuffins is to TV what Shirley Chisholm was to Congress or what producer Shonda Rhimes was to primetime television or what Oprah was to daytime talk shows . . . or what Oprah was to book clubs . . . or what Oprah was to a billion dollars. Doc McStuffins is a Black woman in a space not normally welcome to (and certainly never dominated by) Black women. Which is even more impressive when you realize that she’s only seven years old.\u003cbr\u003e OK, I’m getting ahead of myself.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Doc is a cartoon character who is the star of a show named after herself on Disney Junior. And Disney Junior is ethering the game right now. (That’s probably not a sentence that’s written that often.) Look, I’d love to be one of those people who is too righteous to support a corporation, or one of those people who can’t trust anything that comes from corporate America, but I can’t. And believe me, I wish I could. It would get me invited to much cooler parties in Oakland. I am totally suspicious of corporate America, but honestly, I’m also the person who, when I’m hungry in an airport and can’t figure out if I’m going to eat at the “sad sandwich” place, where the premade sandwiches are wrapped in plastic and the lettuce often tastes like it gave up and took its own life and the bread tastes like buttered shoe leather, or the “Asian fusion” place, where the orange chicken has been there so long that it should be called \u003ci\u003eoranged \u003c\/i\u003echicken, looks up and sees the golden arches, and like the five-year-old I used to be, runs frantically toward it, screaming, “YAY! McDONALD’S!!!” So I ain’t afraid of Disney.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Yes, Disney has heavily contributed to “princess culture” in America’s young girls. \u003ci\u003eSnow White and the Seven Dwarfs \u003c\/i\u003ewas the first of many mighty blows to get young girls to think that “princess” was a job, the same way young boys wanted to be firemen, astronauts, and cowboys. Disney clearly recognizes that they should expand the definition of what girls can do, and which girls can do it. After decades of white princesses, they finally added a Black one, Tiana; a Chinese one, Mulan; an Arab one, Jasmine; a Native American one, Pocahontas; and recently a Latina one, Elena. Well, maybe Elena—while she is a Latina princess, she hasn't actu­ally made the cut as an official Disney Princess on the list of princesses on the Disney Princess website. I'll keep updating my browser as you read and see if anything changes. Maybe she's on probation. Not a great look for Disney to just sort of, kind of add a Latina princess, when so many Latinos in America are also having so many problems being officially added to this country.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e But since Sami's been around, Disney has expanded the list of jobs a little girl can have to include sheriffs (OK, technically Sheriff Callie from \u003ci\u003eSheriff Callie's Wild West \u003c\/i\u003eis a cat, but she is a female cat), undersea explorers on \u003ci\u003eThe Octonauts \u003c\/i\u003e(hell, Tweak, a rabbit, is even the ship's \u003ci\u003efemale \u003c\/i\u003emechanic), and, yes, even astronauts. \u003ci\u003eMiles from Tomorrow \u003c\/i\u003enot only features a mixed-race family (Asian and white), but the captain of the ship is \u003ci\u003eTHE \u003c\/i\u003eMOM!!! It may sound like I am making too much out of all this, but the only way you can allow a kid to truly dream is if you expand their idea of what is currently possible. A kid who has nothing, sees nothing, and is taught nothing can only dream of breakfast. They can only hope to get to the next moment successfully. I want more than that for my kids ... just like my mom wanted more than that for me. And I want \u003ci\u003ethem \u003c\/i\u003eto want more than that too.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e And Doc \u003ci\u003eMcStuffins \u003c\/i\u003ewent way further to expand Sami's world than I ever could have imagined. And the show—and Sami's and later my daughter Juno's reaction to it—blows my whole childhood dream of \"Maybe I could be Spider-Man or the Hulk\" completely out of the water.\u003cbr\u003e \u003ci\u003eDoc McStuffins \u003c\/i\u003eis about a seven-year-old Black girl. That basically makes the title character the Diahann Carroll of children's TV. Diahann Carroll was the first African-American woman to be the star of a TV show ... who wasn't playing a maid. Diahann's show was a sitcom called \u003ci\u003eJulia. \u003c\/i\u003eIt ran from 1968 to 1971 (which is the equivalent of twenty-one seasons of twenty-first-century white television). Julia was a single mom ... because of course. And since then not enough has changed in grown-up real-life TV, especially if you subtract shows produced by Shonda Rhimes. And kids' TV is even worse as far as meaningful diversity and inclusion. How many children's TV shows other than \u003ci\u003eDoc McStuffins \u003c\/i\u003ehave a Black female lead character? Hint: The answer is \"not nearly enough.\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e In the show, Doc McStuffins is a doctor for her stuffed ani­mals and toys. And that may sound merely adorable to you, but I'm raising a pair of powerful Black girls who will one day be powerful Black women. And \u003ci\u003eDoc McStuffins \u003c\/i\u003eis the reason that my four-year­ old could say the words \"stethoscope,\" \"otoscope,\" and \"sphygmomanometer\" when she was two years old. I had to use Google just to figure out how to spell \"sphygmomanometer.\" Being a doctor is Doc's job. Doc diagnoses, fills out a chart (the Big Book of Boo Boos), and heals. She does everything from replacing dirty bandages to full-on surgery. Doc also encourages her patients to brush their teeth, wear helmets on bicycles, and be good friends. And she makes house calls. By any measure, Doc McStuffins is a more reliable and trustworthy TV doctor than Dr. Oz. And she's not even real.\u003cbr\u003e And then there are Doc's parents. On the show, Doc's mom is an actual doctor. Which means young kids don't have to wait until they're old enough to watch \u003ci\u003eGrey's Anatomy \u003c\/i\u003eto see a Black female doctor on television. And it means that for my daughters, a Black female doctor is no big deal, as it shouldn't be. The show even has interstitials with actual Black female doctors to prove that the idea of a Black female doctor isn't just for cartoons. \u003ci\u003eDid I just blow your mind? No? Keep reading.\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Next, we have Doc's dad. What's his job? Well, actually, I'm not sure exactly what he does. I'm pretty sure he's a stay-at-home dad, which is also revolutionary for multiple reasons. (Mom works. Dad's at home taking care of the kids. And again, these are Black people!) But what Dad mostly does is hang out in the kitchen chopping vegetables and offering them to Doc and her friends—vegetables that he seems to grow in his garden!!! \u003ci\u003eNow did I blow your mind?\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e And then there are Doc's patients. The toys. Now, yes, there is the argument that the toys are the real show here. Doc has a room full of toys, and her friends are always bringing new toys over, and every toy is a marketing opportunity for the Big D! (And, yes, Disney does take many of these opportunities. But I ain't mad at 'em.) See, the toys that Doc attends to are her friends as well. They all come to life and talk with the help of Doc's magic stethoscope.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Yup, I said \"magic stethoscope.\" Now, at first when I watched the show, it was a \u003ci\u003eCalvin and Hobbes \u003c\/i\u003esituation. We, the audience, didn't know if the stethoscope was really magic or if Doc just had a vivid imagination. But overtime it has become clear that the stethoscope's magic is very real. And it is also clear that the toys really are living a life of their own when Doc's not around. When Doc walks into a room and presses the bell of her stethoscope, it emits a melody that is as ubiquitous in my house as the \"YEE-HAW!\" of the Duke boys was in my mom's house when I was a kid. And when that noise rings out, every toy in the room comes to life. And I mean every toy: stuffed animals, dolls, action figures, remote control cars, soccer balls, xylophones. And each toy serves a role in helping teach kids how to communicate with real-life doctors and the world around them in general. Among Doc’s dozens of toy friends, there’s a toy with asthma, a toy in a wheelchair, and even a toy that Doc teaches how to respond to inappropriate touching. Yes, that happens in a kids’ cartoon. And it happens with a song. And like any good mystical amulet, Doc’s stethoscope’s powers grow. In the third season it suddenly becomes a time machine and takes Doc and the gang back to nineteenth-century London to meet a young Florence Nightingale. And later we learn that Doc received the stethoscope from her grandma. So not only is #BlackGirlMagic real, but #BlackGrandmaMagic is real too. And any TV show that is going to teach my daughters to respect the mystical power of old Black ladies has a permanent spot in my DVR.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The show’s objective is to get kids to be more comfortable speaking up for themselves and to not be afraid to get help when they need it. But wait, there’s more! There was the episode about a big storm that was coming. Hallie the Hippo and Chilly the Snowman are separated from Doc and the other toys, and they get scared. \u003ci\u003eI swear I wasn’t crying. I just had bad allergies that day. \u003c\/i\u003eAnd at the beginning of the episode, Professor Hootsburgh just happens to mention in passing, “As the earth gets warmer and warmer, big storms get bigger and bigger.” Yup, \u003ci\u003eDoc McStuffins \u003c\/i\u003ejust told kids about climate change. \u003ci\u003eOK, now your mind is definitely blown!\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e And no matter what the theme of each episode is, they all are inherently about inclusion and acceptance. There’s an episode that is basically about people with curly hair accepting that it won’t ever be long and flowing. 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