{"product_id":"should-i-stay-or-should-i-go-isbn-9780425238899","title":"Should I Stay or Should I Go?","description":"\u003cb\u003eFrom the bestselling author of \u003ci\u003eWhy Does He Do That?\u003c\/i\u003e comes a relationship book that will help you make the decision of whether or not your troubled relationship is worth saving.\u003ci\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003eEvery relationship has problems, but you can’t figure out if yours is beyond hope. How bad is too bad—and can your partner really change? Now, in this warm, supportive, and straightforward guide, Lundy Bancroft and women’s advocate JAC Patrissi offer a way for you to practically and realistically take stock of your relationship and move forward. \u003cbr\u003e  \u003cbr\u003e If you’re involved in a chronically frustrating or unfulfilling relationship, the advice and exercises in this book will help you learn to:\u003cbr\u003e  \u003cbr\u003e • Tell the difference between a healthy—yet difficult—relationship and one that is really not working\u003cbr\u003e• Recognize the signs that your partner has serious problems \u003cbr\u003e• Stop waiting to see what will happen—and make your own growth the top priority\u003cbr\u003e• Design a clear plan of action for you and your partner\u003cbr\u003e• Navigate the waters of a relationship that’s improving\u003cbr\u003e• Prepare for life without your partner, even as you keep trying to make life work with them\u003cb\u003ePraise for \u003ci\u003eWhy Does He Do That?\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Bancroft has opened a window into the thinking of abusive men, and his book helps open a door out of abusive relationships.”—Gavin de Becker, \u003ci\u003eNew York Times \u003c\/i\u003ebestselling author of \u003ci\u003eThe Gift of Fear \u003c\/i\u003eand \u003ci\u003eFear Less\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“This is without a doubt the most informative and useful book yet written on the subject of abusive men.”—Jay G. Silverman, PhD, director, Violence Prevention Programs, Harvard School of Public Health\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Jargon-free analysis is frequently broken up by interesting first-person accounts and boxes that distill in-depth information into simple checklists. Bancroft’s book promises to be a beacon of calm for many storm-tossed families.”—\u003ci\u003ePublishers Weekly\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Bancroft boldly asks—and brilliantly answers—the most important questions of all: Why do so many men abuse women? What can be done about it? This book is desperately needed and long overdue.”—Jackson Katz, creator of the award-winning video \u003ci\u003eTough Guise: Violence, Media and the Crisis in Masculinity\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“This is essential reading for those in the helping professions and highly recommended.”—\u003ci\u003eLibrary Journal\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“At last—the straight scoop on men who abuse women. This is a book not just for abused women and domestic violence professionals, but for everyone who wonders why there’s so much violence in America. Read it.”—Ann Jones, author of\u003ci\u003eWhen Love Goes Wrong\u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003eNext Time, She’ll Be Dead\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Bancroft helps women who feel trapped in unhealthy relationships make sense out of what is happening.”—Sarah Buel, JD, codirector, Domestic Violence Clinic, and lecturer, University of Texas Law School\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“A compelling read about a tough topic. What you read here will come back to you long after you put the book down.”—Angela Browne, author of \u003ci\u003eWhen Battered Women Kill\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“An informative and necessary read.”—Susan Weitzman, PhD, author of \u003ci\u003eNot to People Like Us: Hidden Abuse in Upscale Marriages\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cb\u003eLundy Bancroft\u003c\/b\u003e has over twenty-five years of experience in the fields of abuse, trauma, and recovery. He has published five books, including the bestseller \u003ci\u003eWhy Does He Do That?\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eDaily Wisdom for Why Does He Do That?\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eWhen Dad Hurts Mom\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eThe Batterer as Parent\u003c\/i\u003e, and \u003ci\u003eShould I Stay of Should I Go?\u003c\/i\u003e. Lundy has worked with over 1000 abusive men in his counseling groups. He has also served extensively as a custody evaluator, child abuse investigator, and expert witness, and has presented to 350 audiences across the U.S. and abroad. \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eJAC Patrissi\u003c\/b\u003e is the founder and former director of the Vermont Victim Assistance Academy. She facilitates the Growing a New Heart Retreat series for women healing from destructive relationships.","brand":"Berkley","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":46303920423141,"sku":"NP9780425238899","price":20.0,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/1842\/7735\/files\/9780425238899.jpg?v=1767736571","url":"https:\/\/k12savings.com\/es\/products\/should-i-stay-or-should-i-go-isbn-9780425238899","provider":"K12savings","version":"1.0","type":"link"}