{"product_id":"rules-for-visiting-isbn-9780525559245","title":"Rules for Visiting","description":"\u003cb\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003cb\u003e“An elegant and deeply moving meditation on friendship, family, and life on earth. \u003ci\u003eRules for Visiting\u003c\/i\u003e is a wonderful novel.” —\u003cb\u003eEmily St. John Mandel\u003c\/b\u003e, \u003cb\u003eauthor of \u003ci\u003eSea of Tranquility\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eThe Glass Hotel\u003c\/i\u003e, and \u003ci\u003eStation Eleven\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThe national bestseller and an Indie Next List pick\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eName a Best Book of the Year by \u003ci\u003eO Magazine • Good Housekeeping • Real Simple • Vulture • Chicago Tribune\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eNamed a Best Book of the Summer by The Today Show • Good Morning America \u003ci\u003e• Wall Street Journal • San Francisco Chronicle • Southern Living\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eShortlisted for the 2020 Bollinger Everyman Wodehouse Prize \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eLong-listed for the 2020 Tournament of Books\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/b\u003eDry, witty, and unapologetic, May Attaway loves literature and her work as a botanist for the university in her hometown. More at home with plants than people, May begins to suspect she isn’t very good at friendship and wonders if it’s possible to improve with practice. Granted some leave from her job, she sets out on a journey to spend time with four long-neglected friends.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eSmart, funny, and full of compassion, Rules for Visiting is the story of a search for friendship in the digital age, a singular look at the way we stay in touch. While May travels, she studies her friends’ lives and begins to confront the pain of her own.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eWith simplicity and honesty, Jessica Francis Kane has crafted an exquisite story about a woman trying to find a new way to be in the world. This nourishing book, with its beautiful contemplation of travel, trees, family, and friendship, is the perfect antidote to our chaotic times.\u003cb\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e“When 40-year-old gardener May receives a surprise windfall of one month of vacation from the university where she works, she decides to visit four old friends, each one from different periods of her life. Through this initially simple and irresistible starting point, Jessica Francis Kane investigates the most universal mysteries of all.” \u003cb\u003e—Isaac Fitzgerald, \u003ci\u003eToday\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e  \u003cbr\u003e“This beautiful novel tackles loneliness in the digital age and the lost art of visiting. Introvert May Attaway is granted some unexpected time off as a university gardener and is inspired to reconnect with four once-close friends. May chooses to bypass her friends' perfectly cultivated online lives to instead meet them IRL. Gives a whole new meaning to Instagram vs. reality.” \u003cb\u003e—Good Morning America\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“This spirit-warming saga, an antidote to the uncivil, is a novel to be read again and again, whenever one needs a reminder to seize the day…Treat yourself to Jessica Francis Kane's novel \u003ci\u003eRules for Visiting,\u003c\/i\u003e an elixir in book form about a quest for friendship that could have been written by Jane Austen’s great great-great-granddaughter.” —\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eO Magazine \u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Crackles with wit.” —\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eThe New York Times\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003e \u003c\/b\u003e \u003cbr\u003e“Full of witticisms and broader life lessons, \u003ci\u003eRules for Visiting\u003c\/i\u003e will stay with readers.” \u003cb\u003e—Elizabeth Sile,\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eReal Simple\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Kane’s understated meditation on loneliness in the digital age [is] just the right kind of narrative, an antidote for our distracted days.” —\u003cb\u003eHillary Kelly, \u003ci\u003eVulture\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“A witty, sometimes melancholy and altogether lovely meditation on love, loss, friendship—and botany.” —\u003ci\u003e\u003cb\u003eWall Street Journal\u003c\/b\u003e \u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Fun, hilarious, and extremely touching . . . its coming out right around Mother's Day is no coincidence . . . I loved May as a character . . . she doesn't need me to like her, though. She has her plants, her father, some new or revitalized friendships, and her own sharp and witty mind to keep her company. She is no Grendel—only a deeply alive human.” —\u003cb\u003eIlana Masad, \u003ci\u003eNPR\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e“At 40, May Attaway, the protagonist, finds herself alone and feeling profoundly disconnected from her life and from herself. When she receives an unexpected gift of time off, she seizes the opportunity to visit four old friends. May is smart, funny and more than a little prickly. Readers will love her and find her story both moving and reassuring.” \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003e—\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cb\u003eMichael Barnard,\u003c\/b\u003e\u003ci\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003e San Francisco Chronicle \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e“Quietly powerful.” \u003cb\u003e—\u003ci\u003eThe Chicago Tribune\u003c\/i\u003e \u003c\/b\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Impeccably written and surprisingly moving . . . May’s journey is lovely and deeply affecting.” —\u003ci\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublishers Weekly\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Kane’s delightful tale celebrates friendship, family, love, joy in the ordinary, finding peace, and connecting with those around us. Highly recommended for fans of humorous, touching stories about friendship and self-discovery.” —\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eLibrary Journal\u003c\/i\u003e (starred review)\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“In the age of Facebook, the true nature of friendship can seem muddled . . . [May] voices the doubts and dreams of any woman who has questioned what it means to be a true friend. Rich in subtexts and lush imagery, Kane’s novel is a sure bet for lively book discussions.” \u003cb\u003e—\u003ci\u003eBooklist \u003c\/i\u003e(starred review)\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Engagingly cleareyed prose about a winningly eccentric heroine in love with trees and literature.” —\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eKirkus\u003c\/i\u003e \u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Jessica Francis Kane's precise and moving \u003ci\u003eRules For Visiting\u003c\/i\u003e is an altogether new sort of friendship novel, one about friendships stretched to their limits over time and space, the sort of friendships so many of us count as our closest. Kane's gift for describing beauty and loneliness, the real stuff of life, is unparalleled.” —\u003cb\u003eEmma Straub\u003c\/b\u003e, \u003cb\u003eauthor of \u003ci\u003eAll Adults Here\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003e  \u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “An engaging and compassionate portrait of how a root-bound, constricted life can begin to bloom. Drawing inspiration from mythic sources, Kane explores the power of friendship and of our connection to the natural world. Her descriptions of plants are transporting.” —\u003cb\u003eMadeline Miller\u003c\/b\u003e, \u003cb\u003eauthor of \u003ci\u003eCirce\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e  \u003cbr\u003e “There’s a wonderful richness here in every sentence—a lyric and ambling directness that immediately feels like visiting with an old friend, and applied to an ordinariness that soon becomes sublime with topics that go anywhere and then always back to the cure this narrator is in search of: a remedy for her hesitation with life, that feels like a much larger disappointment, almost global. The novel, you soon realize, is perhaps the remedy she searches for, and you almost wish you could give it to her. But take this home with you, as this, this is for us.” —\u003cb\u003eAlexander Chee\u003c\/b\u003e, \u003cb\u003eauthor of \u003ci\u003eHow to Write an Autobiographical Novel\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e  \u003cbr\u003e “Jessica Francis Kane’s novel will win your heart: Single, melancholy, resourceful, May Attaway, the 40 year old protagonist of \u003ci\u003eRules for Visiting\u003c\/i\u003e, sets out on travels to rekindle her oldest friendships, and thereby to find herself. Wry, witty, ultimately uplifting, this gem of a novel celebrates the gifts in our ordinary lives.” —\u003cb\u003eClaire Messud, author of \u003ci\u003eThe Burning Girl\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e  \u003cbr\u003e“In one motion \u003ci\u003eRules for Visiting\u003c\/i\u003e can break your heart and lift your spirits up to the sky. Funny, warm, thoughtful, there's a little Olive Kitteridge in this gem of a novel. I did not want this book to end. It is the perfect gift for friends or people you just have to visit (everyone I know is getting this!)” —\u003cb\u003eJulie Klam\u003c\/b\u003e, \u003cb\u003eauthor of \u003ci\u003eThe Stars in Our Eyes: The Famous, the Infamous, and Why We Care Way Too Much About Them\u003c\/i\u003e \u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e  \u003cbr\u003e “An elegant and deeply moving meditation on friendship, family, and life on earth. \u003ci\u003eRules for Visiting\u003c\/i\u003e is a wonderful novel.” —\u003cb\u003eEmily St. John Mandel\u003c\/b\u003e, \u003cb\u003eauthor of\u003ci\u003e Sea of Tranquility\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eThe Glass Hotel\u003c\/i\u003e, and \u003ci\u003eStation Eleven\u003c\/i\u003e \u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e  \u003cbr\u003e“Jessica Francis Kane has written a vivid, elegant and masterfully constructed novel about friendship and neighbors and our own personal odysseys. This is a deeply smart book, one I had difficulty putting down. There is real wisdom in these pages.” —\u003cb\u003eStuart Nadler\u003c\/b\u003e,\u003cb\u003e author of \u003ci\u003eThe Inseparables\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cb\u003eJessica Francis Kane\u003c\/b\u003e is the author of \u003ci\u003eThis Close\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eThe Report\u003c\/i\u003e, and \u003ci\u003eBending Heaven\u003c\/i\u003e. \u003ci\u003eThis Close\u003c\/i\u003e was longlisted for The Story Prize and the Frank O'Connor International Short Story Prize, and \u003ci\u003eThe Report\u003c\/i\u003e was a Barnes \u0026amp; Noble Discover Great New Writers Selection and a finalist for the Flaherty-Dunnan First Novel Prize from the Center for Fiction. Her stories and essays have appeared in a number of publications, including \u003ci\u003eVirginia Quarterly Review\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eMcSweeney's\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eThe Missouri Review\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eThe Yale Review\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eA Public Space\u003c\/i\u003e, and \u003ci\u003eGranta\u003c\/i\u003e.","brand":"Penguin Books","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":46304074662117,"sku":"NP9780525559245","price":18.0,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/1842\/7735\/files\/9780525559245.jpg?v=1767735961","url":"https:\/\/k12savings.com\/es\/products\/rules-for-visiting-isbn-9780525559245","provider":"K12savings","version":"1.0","type":"link"}