{"product_id":"elseship-isbn-9781593767853","title":"elseship","description":"\u003cb\u003e“\u003ci\u003eelseship\u003c\/i\u003e is a kaleidoscopic exploration of all that can exist between two people caught in the middle of friendship and unrequited love. It’s a gorgeous and delicately rendered tapestry of desires—and a bracing examination of what happens when feelings break the boxes and labels meant to neatly contain them.” —Angela Chen, author of \u003ci\u003eAce: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eWhen Tree Abraham falls in love with her housemate who does not reciprocate the feeling, instead of breaking up, they keep going. This story begins where most end. \u003ci\u003eelseship\u003c\/i\u003e deftly and courageously recounts the starts and stops of a transitioning relationship. Having recorded the experience in real time, Abraham combines personal entries with illustrations, photos, and mind maps all organized within eight ancient Greek categories of love.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eFor readers of Maggie Nelson, Sheila Heti, and Carmen Maria Machado, \u003ci\u003eelseship\u003c\/i\u003e deconstructs the heteronormative canon to explore the bittersweet, lonely, uncharted territories of the heart. It is a deeply specific yet universal story of modern love that will accompany and enlighten anyone who’s been in any kind of complicated “ship\".\"Anyone who has ever found romance and friendship more alike than not will find a deep recognition in these gorgeous pages.\" —Ilana Masad, NPR\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"What to do with the missives of a manic, brilliant woman who can’t turn off her emotions? . . . . Abraham invokes a magnificent range of literary, cultural and scientific references to provide ballast for her richly detailed awakening into a love that was no less real for not being returned . . . The mixed media of \u003ci\u003eelseship\u003c\/i\u003e is as formally inventive as \u003ci\u003eIn the Dream House \u003c\/i\u003eby Carmen Maria Machado and \u003ci\u003eThe Argonauts\u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003eBluets\u003c\/i\u003e by Maggie Nelson. A paean to voluptuous absence, \u003ci\u003eelseship\u003c\/i\u003e is a worthy contribution to the canon established by Roland Barthes in \u003ci\u003eA Lover’s Discourse\u003c\/i\u003e . . . Baring a brain and heart whirring in tandem, \u003ci\u003eelseship\u003c\/i\u003e plumbs the interpersonal ambiguities of how love went awry and yet left a soul on fire, ever glowing.” —Kristen Millares Young, \u003ci\u003eThe Washington Post\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"With equal weight given to the ephemera that constructs our lives, the ideas that help us find meaning, and her love for words, \u003ci\u003eelseship\u003c\/i\u003e paints a kaleidoscopic picture of what it means to be in love.\" —Nirica Srinivasan, \u003ci\u003eWrite or Die Magazine\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"Poetic and propulsive . . . I inhaled this book in a wave of feeling, as Abraham explores the contours of a pivotal relationship\/obsession with a combination of rigor and earnestness. By combining wide-ranging references with her own clear, curious voice, Abraham has made visible the inner workings of both her individual elseship and that of every queer person who has had that one more-than friendship they couldn’t let go.\" —Ash Trebisacci, \u003ci\u003eLiterary Hub\u003c\/i\u003e \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"Abraham’s greatest strength is in relaying small moments to readers, aided by visuals such as drawings and old receipts that give these moments a sense of intimacy and tangibility . . . Memoir readers who enjoy nonlinear storytelling and books that test the limits of what makes a memoir will feel at home here, as will all readers interested in discussing the forms of love that exist outside of mainstream heteronormative culture.\" —\u003ci\u003eBooklist\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"\u003ci\u003eelseship\u003c\/i\u003e is a kaleidoscopic exploration of all that can exist between two people caught in the middle of friendship and unrequited love. It's a gorgeous and delicately rendered tapestry of desires—and a bracing examination of what happens when feelings break the boxes and labels meant to neatly contain them.\" —Angela Chen, author of \u003ci\u003eAce: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"Nothing triggers archival fervor quite like unrequited love. For those of us who have ever Googled 'what is love' late into the night, this book is ours. Tree Abraham has managed to do the impossible: transform the excesses of that delirious, excruciating fever state into a true work of art.\" —Anelise Chen, author of \u003ci\u003eSo Many Olympic Exertions\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cb\u003eTREE ABRAHAM\u003c\/b\u003e is an Ottawa-born, Brooklyn-based writer, art director, and book designer. Her authorship experiments with fragmented essay and mixed media visuals. She is also the author of the creative nonfiction book \u003ci\u003eCyclettes\u003c\/i\u003e (2022).","brand":"Soft Skull","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":46304996294885,"sku":"NP9781593767853","price":19.95,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/1842\/7735\/files\/9781593767853.jpg?v=1767726181","url":"https:\/\/k12savings.com\/es\/products\/elseship-isbn-9781593767853","provider":"K12savings","version":"1.0","type":"link"}