{"product_id":"bad-dog-isbn-9780307477460","title":"Bad Dog","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eMeet Hola—the only dog ever to be expelled from puppy school twice. Now her supposed master—a TV writer turned management consultant and high-functioning alcoholic\u003cb\u003e—\u003c\/b\u003eis about to lose his job, and his wife, too, if he can't get his life—and his dog—under control. \u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003eHola may be the most beautiful Bernese mountain dog in the world, but she's never been trained, so it's not her fault if she tackles strangers, chews on furniture, and runs after buses. That honor falls to Marty, Hola's supposed master, a high-functioning alcoholic who’s so in debt, out of shape, and desperate to save his marriage that he throws himself headlong into the world of competitive dog training. Unfortunately, he knows even less than Hola.\u003c\/p\u003e\"Martin Kihn is just too talented—I still don’t know how a writer can be that laugh-out-loud funny while chronicling a major life crisis—and his story is just too good to miss. (And of course the soulful pictures of Hola, his lovely Bernese mountain dog, don’t hurt either.)\"\u003cbr\u003e—\u003ci\u003eChristian Science Monitor \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\"It’s the special relationship between man and animal that form the heart of the memoir. . . Any dog lover is bound to tear up over the love and trust that can exist between a person and their dog, which Kihn captures perfectly with a blend of earnest emotional catharsis and wry humor.\"\u003cbr\u003e—\u003ci\u003eThe Daily Texan\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\"Not a cozy Marley and Me duplicate or Cesar Millan–type training book (though readers will learn a lot about the value of appropriate training from someone who’s been there), this sharply written, darkly funny memoir–cum–dog story–cum–recovery tale is a quick, absorbing read that will serve a wide audience well.\"\u003cbr\u003e—\u003ci\u003eLibrary Journal\u003c\/i\u003e (Starred Review)\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"This wry memoir of the human-dog bond is one that eschews the usual treacly sentimentality in favor of a raw, deeply sincere, and self-aware homage to this powerful bond.\"\u003cbr\u003e—\u003ci\u003ePublishers Weekly\u003c\/i\u003e (Starred Review)\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"Hola, surprise, surprise, grows enormous, while also growing out of control, ignoring commands, sprawling, immovable, across the bed. Add to this rowdy mix the fact that Kihn drinks way too much and that his wife, Gloria, is on the verge of leaving him, and you have a recipe for a surefire heartbreaking bestseller along the lines of \u003ci\u003eMarley and Me\u003c\/i\u003e.\"\u003cbr\u003e—\u003ci\u003eMinneapolis Star-Tribune\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“This tale of a man who forgot he was a man and the dog who ultimately reminded him is the most touching, original buddy story I’ve come across in ages. Sit. Stay. Read.”\u003cbr\u003e—Walter Kirn, author of \u003ci\u003eUp in the Air\u003c\/i\u003e \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e“A modern masterpiece that captures the dark side of K9 love.”\u003cbr\u003e—Julia Szabo, Dogster.com\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e“Martin Kihn’s agile wit is showcased in this memoir of addiction, recovery, and the highs and lows of canine and human behavior.  Despite its compact form, \u003ci\u003eBad Dog\u003c\/i\u003e carries a surprising amount of weight, and when you're not looking, it will knock you over and charm you, all while licking your face.”\u003cbr\u003e—Charles Yu, author of \u003ci\u003eHow to Live Safely in a Science Fictional Universe\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e“A bittersweet tale of renewal . . . An endearing read full of hope, humor and humility.”\u003cbr\u003e—\u003ci\u003eKirkus Reviews\u003c\/i\u003eMARTIN KIHN is an Emmy Award–nominated former writer for MTV’s \u003ci\u003ePop-Up Video\u003c\/i\u003e and the author of \u003ci\u003eHouse of Lies\u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003eA$$hole.\u003c\/i\u003e He has worked at \u003ci\u003eSpy, Forbes,\u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003eNew York\u003c\/i\u003e, and his articles have appeared in \u003ci\u003eThe New York Times, GQ, Details, \u003c\/i\u003eand \u003ci\u003eCosmopolitan.\u003c\/i\u003e He lives in Minneapolis.\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eIntroduction\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003e \u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eEntering the Ring\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003e \u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“Is it just me,” I ask my ninety-pound copilot, framed in the rearview mirror like a hairy Warhol Marilyn, “or is everyone losing their minds?” \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e\u003ci\u003eI’m sorry to say,\u003c\/i\u003e she seems to be sorry to say, \u003ci\u003eit’s just you.\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003ci\u003e \u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003ci\u003e \u003c\/i\u003e“Did we miss our turn? I can’t see the signs.” \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e\u003ci\u003eAnd I,\u003c\/i\u003e she says, \u003ci\u003ecan’t read. \u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003ci\u003e \u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003eNow I will advise that when you’re going somewhere that is not so easy to get to, don’t let me drive. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eThere are few guarantees in life like the one I will make to you now: you will get lost. Very lost. So far from your destination you’ll be looking out the window as darkness descends, watching street signs change into another language. During my days as the world’s most ungrateful management consultant, I tooled around London in a rented Ford Fiesta with one of the firm’s partners, who spun on me after a string of boneheaded turns and said, “Who was it that hired you again?” \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eLosing her religion, my copilot—a five-year-old Bernese mountain dog named Hola—stretches herself out on the backseat of our alarmingly small car and moans softly, serenely, like a butterfly being sawn in half by wind. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e“You’re not helping,” I say to her, as the Sprain Brook Park­ way is glazed with a silver coat of fear. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e\u003ci\u003eNeither are you. Did you bring any cheese?\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003ci\u003e \u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003ci\u003e \u003c\/i\u003e“If you’re driving,” says the guy on 1010 WINS news radio, “think about getting off the road. We have a severe weather warning. It’s going to get ugly out there.” \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eNot as ugly as White Plains, New York. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eA gray blanket stuffed with old malls, it claims to be thirty minutes north of Manhattan. Ninety minutes after setting out, Hola and I finally slide into the parking lot of the Port Chester Obedience Training Club, where we’re scheduled to take the Canine Good Citizen test ten minutes ago. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eThe PCOTC is a legendary facility that relocated from Port Chester to an industrial district in White Plains without changing its name. It readies little woofers and their handlers for everything from crate training to all-breed shows, and five years earlier, Hola had the distinction of being the only dog in her puppy kindergarten class to be invited to leave. Twice. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eLet it not be said that my dog is not a legend in the canine obedience world. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eShe’s a beautiful, tricolored purebred dog; a spectacularly fluffy, optimistic creature with true Broadway spirit and an explosive commitment to now. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eI keep expecting her to stand up on her hind paws to make her Tony acceptance speech: \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e“I remember when I was a little puppy, lying on my doggie bed watching \u003ci\u003eBeethoven’s 3rd\u003c\/i\u003e on DVD and thinking, ‘I can do that!’ . . .” \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eAnd I mean no disrespect to her when I say that all things considered, taking the long view and giving her the full benefit of the doubt, she was a horrible bitch. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eStorm clouds morph from a hazy gray to an oily, ominous rust as the volume of snow per square inch of air throttles up. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e“Hola, come!” I say, holding open the car’s back door. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eBecause I have enough cut-up raw liver in my snow jacket pocket to open a meat market, she jumps out. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eI saddle her into her little harness, lock the car, check that I have her dog license, rabies tag, hairbrush, and—the critical item—her complete attention. Then I tuck myself into classic dog handler’s heeling position, left arm bent with my hand on my sacral third chakra, body erect and as still as the truth. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eStepping off on my left foot, cuing Hola to heel, I start toward our destiny. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eMiraculously, she follows. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eStep, step. Head up. Sky down. My jeans feeling loose on my stress-addled torso, I can finally exhale. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eWe skate the iron ramp, negotiate past a boxer puppy in the outer swing doors, and I ask Hola to sit in front of the second set of doors so I can precede her. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eAlways lead, you see: follow a dog and you follow a doubt. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e“Hola, sit.” Remember: name first, command second. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eI say: “\u003ci\u003eGrrr.\u003c\/i\u003e” \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eAversive sound, meaning: Seriously, sit. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eHola sits. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eAs I pull the door open, seeing the ring set up for the test, with the white PVC accordion gates, the official note takers and stewards, the distracter dog for the dreaded item #8 (reaction to another dog), a dozen or so of our training buddies nervously clamped to the walls watching the empty ring, the evaluator pacing the expanse of Mity-Lite polymer matting looking for stray treats left over from Family Manners class, the industrial warehouse roofing and the rusted crates and agility equipment strewn like an A-frame junkyard in the far ring, the beauti­ful goldens and Labs and Havanese stress-smiling in a united chorus of \u003ci\u003eHello, world!—\u003c\/i\u003ewell, we have only one thought, Hola and me. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eWe are home. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eRelease word: “Okay.” \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eShe trails me into the club. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e##\u003cbr\u003eWhat we’re doing here is a canine mystery. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eIf you’d told me one year earlier that the two of us could trot into Port Chester as legitimate contenders for an Ameri­can Kennel Club–sanctioned obedience certification—Canine Good Citizen—I’d have thought you had rolled your brain in catnip and set it on fire. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eBegun in 1989, the CGC is a test of training and tempera­ment; to pass, a dog has to be able to sit quietly for petting and around other dogs, tolerate handling and distractions, walk on a loose lead through a crowd, prove it knows basic commands such as sit, down, stay, and come, and endure a few minutes’ separation from its owner without obvious distress. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eSome dogs can pass it after a couple of classes and a pep talk. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eThen there is Hola.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e Everybody knew what was wrong with my dog. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eI could take her anywhere, and she particularly enjoyed the works of Pixar. Obeying my whispered commands was like breathing to her, and at times I entertained the idea she could actually read my mind. Her sits were so straight you could level a cabinet with them, her down-stays so still they bordered on a trance. Sometimes I’d put her into a stay, go and have a medical procedure, visit my mother in West Virginia, and she’d still be there when I got back from the airport, patiently awaiting my release: “Okay! Good girl.” \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eNot. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eTruth was, just one year ago, Hola had never met a word she could recognize, including her name. Friends and strangers alike were greeted with a full-body slam that was just this side of actionable. The only invitation needed was a smile, a pulse, or a Baby Bjorn. My apartment was a wasteland of gnawed dados and wee wee–stained chintz. Walks were a haphazard dance of death as she lunged at any passing Subway wrapper, unleashed Pomeranian, or Crip. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e“She doesn’t mean to be bad,” said one of the trainers my wife and I consulted during Hola’s first few years on earth. “She’s just kind of high-strung.” \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eThere are other words for what she was. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e“Why is she always running around and jumping on people and not listening?” I asked the guy, who handled K-9 police dogs. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e“That’s easy,” he said. “You don’t know anything about dogs.” \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eAh. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eWe’d had so much hope, my wife, Gloria, and I. It still stings me to remember with what prematernal optimism we read Jean Donaldson and Karen Pryor and Sharon Chesnutt Smith’s \u003ci\u003eThe New Bernese Mountain Dog,\u003c\/i\u003e scouring hardware stores for these strange things called baby gates. She mail-ordered a Bernese-ready version of what dog people call a crate—it’s a cage—and I almost had a petit mal. It was bigger than our Toyota Echo. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eDreams die hard, and so did this one. Puppies are a pain at any price, and we marked up a lot to exuberance. Certainly she wasn’t shy. Just ask our neighbors. Many times she helped them with their groceries and tossed in a prostate exam on the house. Years passed and passed again. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eAt a certain point, without announcing it even to ourselves, we gave up. I gave up. We’d had our idea of what a pet should be and had been baited and switched. We’d been had by the dogs of the gods or vice versa. She was housebroken; she seemed happy; she didn’t actually bite people, with a single exception. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eWhat I know now is that settling for a dog who is house­broken and doesn’t draw blood is like settling for a child who can talk. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eAnd I might as well admit the exception was my wife. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eGradually—very gradually—as we stopped working with Hola, she turned into a beast. There are reasonable people who would have euthanized her for the way she treated Gloria, and to those people I have no response. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e“She’s a wild one, dude,” said another of the trainers we vis­ited to deal with this new reign of terror—the occasional growl­ing, the passing nips, the light bruising and marks on my wife’s arms and legs that more than once had a predictable result.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e“How’d that happen?” asked some woman at Ann Taylor or at the Whole Foods where Gloria worked for a year as a cook. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e“My dog did it.” \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eA look of deep, sisterly karma. “It’s okay,” they’d whisper. “You don’t have to lie for him anymore. There are people who can help you.” \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e“Really, it’s my dog. She’s a menace.” \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e“Of course it is, girlfriend. Of course it is.” \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eWink.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eOf course it’s the man. And were they so wrong? Where was the man, after all? \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eSo I am being sincere when I say I don’t lay blame for what Gloria decided to do next. She saved both of our lives—mine and the dog’s—after all. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e##\u003cbr\u003eShe left us. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eGloria is a wiry, birdlike woman with bobbed brown hair, a sharp nose, and milk-bottle glasses; she’s usually smiling slightly as though eavesdropping on a funny conversation. Her eyes are a serious blue that almost glows, and her skin is pale and buttery, her features stacked together with such unusual symmetry that the first thing my male friends usually said to me after meeting her was: “Wow.” \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eA professional charmer, she’s reduced vanloads of folk-song fans in Manhattan’s East Village to tears with her gorgeous voice, tart lyrics, and improvised monologues. The one about the death of Frank Sinatra was a classic I wish I’d committed to tape. She has a master’s in music theory and can recognize any celebrity, no matter how obscure, by their voice. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003ePeople love her, and those who do not simply haven’t met her yet. She is utterly uncontroversial. Coincidentally, she’s suf­fered a few dog years herself. She’d decided to go to cooking school, worked for a while, and then quit because the career was too dangerous and poorly paid. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eInspired by the old \u003ci\u003eSchoolhouse Rock\u003c\/i\u003e series, she started writ­ing one-minute songs about cooking techniques—“Read the Recipe All the Way Through”; “Shock-Shock-Shock the Veg­etables,” in the style of the Ramones; the ribald “Pull Wiggle Wiggle,” a pseudo-gospel song about how to bone a fish—and set them to animated videos featuring a trio of musical chefs named Do, Re, and Mi. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eChefdoremi.com is her message to the world, which so far is considering its response. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eI still believe she is some kind of genius, but she has reservations. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eAnd, like many Gen Xers, we’d sort of forgotten to have children until it was probably too late. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e##\u003cbr\u003eAs snow continues to swallow the obedience club, I hand back the CGC forms in triplicate. AKC registration number—yes. Spayed—yes. Age—almost six now, an old lady in Bernese mountain dog time. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e“You’ll be second,” says the steward. “Wait over at the side, please.” \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e\u003ci\u003eLet’s go into the corner,\u003c\/i\u003e Hola seems to say, \u003ci\u003eand remind me what I’m supposed to do here. Preferably using a food lure. \u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003ci\u003e \u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003eAs I’m walking backward monitoring Hola’s stay, I scan the ring where the first team is doing item #7, “Coming when called.” \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eThe dog half of the pair is a rather sluggish toy poodle who meanders back to her handler like she’s waist-deep in canola oil. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e“Did you see that, Hola?” I whisper. “No pizzazz at all.” \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e\u003ci\u003eThat poodle lacks heart,\u003c\/i\u003e she agrees.\u003ci\u003e She has no business out there on the mat.\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003ci\u003e \u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003ci\u003e##\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003eFor the first ten years of my marriage, after a month locked in a rehab I don’t remember checking into, I’d been abstinent from alcohol. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eStop me if you’ve heard this story before. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eBurned out as a TV writer, I went back to business school and got a job as a management consultant, working out of hotel rooms in cities far, far away, and one night I went into the mini-bar for a Diet Pepsi and thought, \u003ci\u003eWell, nothing livens up a Diet Pepsi like some Captain Morgan, correct? \u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003ci\u003e \u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003eSo I took out the bottle and unscrewed the cap. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eI see now the difference between sobriety and abstinence is like the difference between marriage and pornography. It’s apples and rotary saws. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eTo her credit, Gloria stayed with me through my bottom, stayed with Hola and me as we began our own \u003ci\u003eIncredible Journey \u003c\/i\u003eof mutual rehabilitation, then went off on a journey of her own. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eTo this day, I understand. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eIn the words of a country song she wrote, “You’re Leavin’ Me, You Lucky Dog (If I Was You I’d Leave Me Too).” \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eHola and I trotted on alone: to a terrifying dog camp in the Green Mountains of Virginia, a gallery of trainers and priests, all-breed shows, and obedience demonstrations, meeting won­derful people along the way—the top Bernese mountain dog breeder, the national canine obedience champion, the world’s best dog writer, even the head of the CGC program herself. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eIt doesn’t take an advanced degree in animal behavior to see that I traded an obsession with alcohol for an obsession with dog training. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eBut looking back, I like to give our adventure a more roman­tic spin: we were trying to get Gloria back. Somehow I thought succeeding in the impossible task of winning our four-legged demon child a Canine Good Citizen rating would make us both family friendly again. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eTo be fair, Gloria didn’t know this; even I didn’t know this in the beginning. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eBut I’m sure that Hola did. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e##\u003cbr\u003eWe’re practicing our automatic sits as the steward comes up to us from the judge’s table. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eShe’s a large, older woman in an L.L. Bean red flannel shirt, and her breath spreads out in front of her like a paint roller. Her wide face is a map of White Plains: gray, flat, and functional. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e“Are you Hola?” she asks me. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e“Yes.” \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e“Here for the CGC, right? Not Therapy Dog?” \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e“Yes.”\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e “You’re up next. Use the buckle collar. Leave the treats out­side the ring. 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