{"product_id":"an-ordinary-age-finding-your-way-in-a-world-that-expects-exceptional-isbn-9780062998989","title":"An Ordinary Age: Finding Your Way in a World That Expects Exceptional","description":"\u003cp\u003eBest Book of 2021 —Esquire?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eFeatured on Good Morning America\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\"A meticulous cartography of how outer forces shape young people’s inner lives.\" —Esquire, Best Books of 2021 \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIn conversation with young adults and experts alike, journalist Rainesford Stauffer explores how the incessant pursuit of a “best life” has put extraordinary pressure on young adults today, across our personal and professional lives—and how ordinary, meaningful experiences may instead be the foundation of a fulfilled and contented life.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYoung adulthood: the time of our lives when, theoretically, anything can happen, and the pressure is on to make sure everything does. Social media has long been the scapegoat for a generation of unhappy young people, but perhaps the forces working beneath us—wage stagnation, student debt, perfectionism, and inflated costs of living—have a larger, more detrimental impact on the world we post to our feeds. \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAn Ordinary Age puts young adults at the center as Rainesford Stauffer examines our obsessive need to live and post our #bestlife, and the culture that has defined that life on narrow, and often unattainable, terms. From the now required slate of (often unpaid) internships, to the loneliness epidemic, to the stress of \"finding yourself\" through school, work, and hobbies—the world is demanding more of young people these days than ever before. And worse, it’s leaving little room for our generation to ask the big questions about who they want to be, and what makes a life feel meaningful.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003ePerhaps we’re losing sight of the things that fulfill us: strong relationships, real roots in a community, and the ability to question how we want our lives to look and feel, even when that’s different from what we see on the ‘Gram. Stauffer makes the case that many of our most formative young adult moments are the ordinary ones: finding our people and sticking with them, learning to care for ourselves on our own terms, and figuring out who we are when the other stuff—the GPAs, job titles, the filters—fall away.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eHow do we build a meaningful life when the pressure for an extraordinary one is leaving a generation feeling anxious and alone?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cb\u003ePerfectionism \u0026amp; Mental Health:\u003c\/b\u003e An unflinching look at how the demand for perfection impacts young adult mental health, and how to find your worth when the GPAs, job titles, and filters fall away.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eThe Loneliness Epidemic:\u003c\/b\u003e A compassionate exploration of why this is called the “loneliest generation” and how finding your people—and sticking with them—is the true foundation of a contented life.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eBeyond Hustle Culture:\u003c\/b\u003e A sharp analysis of dream jobs, unpaid internships, and hustle culture that asks what fulfillment looks like in the face of wage stagnation and student debt.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eRedefining Success:\u003c\/b\u003e A powerful argument for ditching the #bestlife and embracing the ordinary, meaningful moments that truly define us.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e | \u003cp\u003e\"Rainesford Stauffer asks all the important questions in \u003cem\u003eAn Ordinary Age\u003c\/em\u003e, which is in many ways a coming-\u003cem\u003eof-\u003c\/em\u003eage manifesto about how it feels, and what it means, to grow into adulthood in the digital age when we're all told we should be living our quote-unquote\u003cem\u003e best lives\u003c\/em\u003e.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eKate Fagan, author of What Made Maddy Run\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\"Rainesford Stauffer is a brave writer who takes us to places that we haven't been yet, and gives us companionship when we're there. I'd love to hand out thousands of copies of this book. You will find comfort and empowerment in every chapter. \u003cem\u003eAn Ordinary Age\u003c\/em\u003e is a gentle but urgent call to embrace the fullness of life, and that's a reminder we can use at any stage of life.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eMari Andrew, author of Am I There Yet?\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\"Stauffer explores the diminishing returns of young adulthood in this soulful book, providing a meticulous cartography of how outer forces shape young people’s inner lives. From chronic burnout to the loneliness epidemic to the strictures of social media, \u003cem\u003eAn Ordinary Age\u003c\/em\u003e leads with empathy in exploring the myriad challenges facing young adults, while also advocating for a better path forward: one where young people can live authentic lives filled with love, community, and self-knowledge.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eEsquire\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\"\u003cem\u003eAn Ordinary Age\u003c\/em\u003e is an antidote for young people everywhere who are sick and tired of being sick and tired that the lives they wake up to everyday don't match the ones they see on Instagram. It is a book for those who deserve to know that their lives and their efforts aren't just good enough: They are well and truly \u003cem\u003egood\u003c\/em\u003e.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eMeg Jay PhD, author of The Defining Decade and Supernormal\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\"Reading this book made me feel a lot less alone -- it captures what it is to be young in America with so much empathy and intelligence. Stauffer centers the voices and experiences of young adults while also investigating the systemic forces that define this life stage with clarity.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eMasuma Ahuja, author of GIRLHOOD\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\"The quest for perfection and excellence has left us exhausted, pissed off, and bewildered.  If you want to turn away, at whatever point in your life, from the endless cycle of burnout, this beautifully written, endlessly empathetic book is for you.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eAnne Helen Petersen, author of Can't Even: How Millennials Became the Burnout Generation\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\"Stauffer's book isn't a polemic about The Youth of Today, but rather, a dialogue with young adults as they reflect on their emerging adulthoods, and experts in various fields who help place those reflections in a wider context....some sections landed so well I was tempted to chuck the book across the room.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eBoston Globe\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Harper Perennial","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":44889467125989,"sku":"NP9780062998989","price":17.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/1842\/7735\/files\/9780062998989.jpg?v=1730231318","url":"https:\/\/k12savings.com\/es\/products\/an-ordinary-age-finding-your-way-in-a-world-that-expects-exceptional-isbn-9780062998989","provider":"K12savings","version":"1.0","type":"link"}