How to Date Men

Entertaining and empowering, What Men Really Want is the next best thing to a private appointment with the nation's premier matchmaker.

The hardest part about dating is understanding the mysterious inner workings of a man's brain. How can women know what men are really looking for if men don't tell them?

They can ask Janis.

With over twenty years of experience as a professional matchmaker, Janis Spindel has a unique insider's perspective on contemporary dating culture. Her male clients tell her exactly what they want in a relationship, and here Janis offers women a step-by-step plan for winning a man's heart, such as:

• It's okay to ask a guy for his number, as long as you do it with confidence.
• Don't wear your work clothes on a date, ever! Freshen up before meeting a guy.
• Pay him a compliment! He's human. He'll love it.

janisspindelmatchmaker.com“The reigning queen of the matchmaking world.”—New York Times Magazine
 
“Even if you can afford to hire dating coach Spindel (a talk-show fixture, she doesn't come cheap), this fun-to-read guide provides an economical short-cut to finding, courting and keeping a man. With a light touch, Spindel comes across chatty and sympathetic as a good girlfriend, but with the authority of a wise aunt.… Spindel's common sense approach makes it clear that finding love isn't a matter of hard-and-fast ‘rules,’ but a levelheaded mix of knowledge, awareness, observation and preparation.”—Publishers Weekly
 
“Janis Spindel falls somewhere between Dolly Levi, the matchmaker immortalized in Hello, Dolly!, and Bruce Wasserstein, the deal-making investment banker.”—The Wall Street JournalJanis Spindel gets people married. She has been a matchmaker for over 20 years, with nearly 2000 successful marriages under her belt, and is the award-winning author of Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than One Year and How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America’s Top Matchmaker.
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